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December 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. JACEK MAZUR

When men consider a vocation to the priesthood, they can’t help but think about what it is they will have to give up in answering this call from God. In the case of Father Jacek Mazur, he gave up more than most but if you asked him, he’d tell you that what he has gained in the process has been more than he could have ever imagined.

Jacek Mazur was born in the town of Paczkow in Poland. He is the oldest of three children and his parents, two sisters and most of his extended family members still reside there. When he was about 16 years old, he felt God’s Grace touch him and he knew he wanted to become a priest. He remembers being very positively influenced by his teacher, Father Peter.  Jacek attended the local public school so it seems very strange that a Catholic priest would be teaching there but because Poland is 95% Catholic, religion is taught in all the schools. As Father Mazur explains, “They see it as something beneficial for society as a whole.” He recalls that Father Peter was very much like the late Pope John Paul II in that he enjoyed spending time with young people, hiking, and participating in outdoor activities. Father Mazur added, “He was a marvelous young priest who changed my ideas on the priesthood concerning what a priest can be and what he can do.”

He entered the Pallotine Seminary in Poland.  At that time, Pope John Paul II was encouraging young priests and seminarians in Poland to go west and evangelize. As a seminarian he thought that was good advice for someone else. In 1998 he made his first trip to the United States when he went to Chicago to study English. He was not in a very good section of Chicago and his experience of America was less than positive. When he returned to Poland, God sent people into his life who wrote letters encouraging him to come back to the U.S. They told him he would be helpful to immigrants and that he was very much needed in America. God revealed to him that the United States was where he needed Jacek to serve. Jacek did not agree with that plan at first but eventually decided to follow God’s will rather than his own. He said, “God is always showing me bigger horizons. He has constantly challenged me over the years. I love challenges, they keep me going.”

So he changed the course of his priestly studies and entered Orchard Lake Seminary in Michigan, where many seminarians from Poland study while adjusting to the United States. Once there, he had many choices of dioceses to which he could apply. His classmates were shocked to learn he passed up places like Venice, Florida, Houston, Texas and Los Angeles, California to go to Buffalo. He had visited Buffalo twice and found that he loved the people and felt very much at home when he was there. He remarked that, “This diocese has given me so many opportunities; I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else.” He also mentioned that he has many wonderful places to visit now that his classmates have chosen other locations.

Father Mazur was ordained a deacon by Bishop Mansell in 2003. He spent a year at St. Andrew’s in Kenmore and still keeps in touch with many of the friends he made there. After he was ordained to the priesthood in 2004, he returned to Poland to say his first Mass. His wonderful teacher, mentor and friend, Father Peter preached at that Mass. When he returned to Buffalo he was assigned to St. Paul’s in Kenmore for a year and a half. He was then reassigned to St. Teresa of the Infant Jesus in Niagara Falls as administrator for another year and a half.

In 2008 five parishes in Niagara Falls were merged together to form the new parish entity of Divine Mercy. Father Mazur was appointed as Pastor of Divine Mercy Parish and considers it a very successful merger. They were able to use many of the statues and other meaningful things from the five parishes that closed so that everyone had something of their own to add to the new parish. Divine Mercy has a vibrant choir, bereavement group, religious education, and a growing St. Vincent de Paul group. They have a food pantry to help local families as well as social events and prayer time together. In May of 2011, Father Mazur was given the additional assignment of Pastor of St. Mary of the Cataract Parish in Niagara Falls. He is currently the Pastor of both St. Mary and Divine Mercy Parishes.

Father Jacek enjoys hiking, music, and animals. He has a dog and a few doves as pets. He also likes meeting new people and traveling. He has been back to Poland a few times to visit his family. He celebrated his sister’s wedding and a year later baptized her daughter. He would like to visit more friends around the United States and see more of his family in Poland but his new position keeps him very busy.

He very much enjoys his priesthood. Celebrating the sacraments and being there with people who are in need of the assistance of a priest are most special to him. He wishes he had more time for counseling people who need help. Father Mazur was involved with WLOF Radio twice a week as a talk show co-host. When he was first approached to do this he said it was the last thing he had considered doing. He felt unprepared and nervous because he is not a native speaker but the more he did it, the more comfortable he became. This is another activity he finds he can’t do any more because of the business of parish life. He has been asked to speak at a Divine Mercy Conference in San Diego, California and is very excited about participating in that. When time permits, he would like to become involved in prison ministry so he can further promote the teachings on the Divine Mercy of Jesus Christ.

As mentioned before, Father Mazur enjoys challenges. He feels that the priesthood is very mentally and physically challenging. There are many things a priest has to deal with that can be uncomfortable but each new challenge brings an opportunity for growth. One of the biggest challenges he finds is bringing lapsed Catholics back home to the Church. He finds that there are many reasons why people leave the Church and he feels it is very important to do everything he can to welcome them back home.

“Don’t be afraid to say ‘yes’ to Christ” is the advice Father Mazur would give to a man considering the priesthood. He adds, “If you hear his voice, pay attention! Don’t try to put it aside.” He feels that God has a plan for everyone’s life. By answering “yes” to His call, you will find the happiness you seek. If you ignore it, you may end up being unhappy because you are not doing what God intended you to do. He recommends that men pray for an increase in virtues and pray for the courage to say “yes” on a daily basis to God’s will. He admits it is not easy to say “yes.” Sometimes God demands so much. As in his own life, God asked him to leave everything behind to follow Him… literally!

If one thing is for sure, Father Jacek Mazur is very happy being a priest. He feels it is an adventure and he exclaimed, "I thank God every day for giving me this opportunity to serve Him and His people, to be a part of His Church and work in His vineyard. It's been nothing but a great experience and I would never want to do anything else. I love where I am, the people I serve and what I do."

November 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. PAUL BOSSI

One step at a time, one day at a time – that is how Father Paul Bossi takes life. He is currently the pastor of Blessed Sacrament Church on Delaware Avenue in Buffalo. Looking back on his 42 years of priesthood, it is easy to see how each step of his life has been guided and inspired by God.

He grew up in St. Lawrence Parish on East Delavan in the Pine Hill section of Buffalo. His mother’s family owned a commercial construction company. It was started by her father who moved from Canada to the USA in 1917 and started the company in 1925. His mother worked as a bookkeeper and his father worked as a bricklayer. His father came to Buffalo in 1936 from Detroit, Michigan and in 1939 he married the boss’s daughter and young Paul arrived, after his older brother, in 1944. His parents were very devout Catholics. His father was an usher and active in the Holy Name Society. He always wore a coat and tie to church, and their faith was a big part of their family life.

After graduating from 8th grade at St. Lawrence, Paul attended Canisius High School. In his senior year, he and six others from his class felt called to the priesthood and decided to apply to the Jesuit Order’s junior seminary. Paul was advised to spend some time in college first before entering the Jesuits. So he attended Canisius College and continued to discern his vocation to the priesthood there. He then thought about the priests who had influenced his life, Monsignor Leo Pulling, Father Harry Melly, Father Daniel Myszka and others who were a wonderful example to him when he attended St. Lawrence elementary school. Father Kerrigan at Canisius College told him to ask himself, “What is the essence of priesthood?” He thought about it and what was drawing him to this vocation. The charisma of the Jesuits leaned more towards teaching, missionary work, and education while the charisma of the diocesan priest was more centered on ministering to the daily needs of God’s people and to the liturgical life of the Church.

On a cold February evening in the middle of philosophy class during his second year at Canisius College, Paul was hit by the thought, “I need to make a decision now about what I want to do for the rest of my life.” He came to the conclusion that God was calling him to become a diocesan priest. The time seemed to fly between that February evening and the beginning of the next school year. He left Canisius College and entered St. John Vianney Major Seminary in East Aurora. He recalls praying to Jesus on the first night in the seminary, “Lord, you got me here, I don’t know how I got here so quickly and I don’t know if I should be here but, Lord, I’ll take it one day at a time with you.”

Father Paul was ordained in 1969 along with 23 other men for the Diocese of Buffalo. His first assignment, as was common in that day, was for one year in what was called the Missionary Apostolate. Back in the 1940’s Bishop John O’Hara saw a need for greater evangelization in the southern tier in the areas of Chautauqua, Cattaraugus, and Allegany counties. Many small churches were started in those areas and for many years, until 1970, the newly ordained priests staffed them. Father Paul was sent to St. Jude Church in Sardinia, New York. Once a week all the new priests met at the parish of Blessed Sacrament in Delevan, New York to share their experiences and receive whatever guidance was necessary from the director. Father Paul had never lived in a rural area before and was a bit nervous and uneasy about the move. But, fortunately, he found the people very warm and welcoming. It was a wonderful year.

His next assignment was to St. Rose of Lima Parish in North Buffalo as an associate pastor. There were three priests in residence which was the norm because of the large amount of priests in the diocese at that time. He spent six and a half years under two pastors who helped and guided him in his ministry. In 1976 a classmate who was teaching in a diocesan high school, which was one of 27 diocesan high schools, asked him to consider teaching at Baker Victory High School in Lackawanna. Thoughts of his original intent to enter the Jesuits were still in the back of his mind and he thought, “I wonder if I could teach?” He agreed to give it a try and very much enjoyed the experience. Besides teaching, he was also the Guidance Counselor. He lived with six other priests during that time and found their companionship to be a wonderful source of support and affirmation. He helped out on the weekends at Our Lady of Victory Basilica and after two years at the school, the pastor, Monsignor Robert Murphy, asked him to become the parochial vicar to that parish.
During the six years he spent at OLV, he was able to make some meaningful contributions. He was put in charge of overseeing the replacement of the church pipe organ. Having played organ in churches during high school years, he was familiar with many of the aspects involved. While at the Basilica, Father Paul also saw the need to minister to the many pilgrims who came to visit the awesome Church and grounds inspired by then Venerable Father Nelson Baker. He started by introducing a visitor’s book so people could sign in and to record their visit. This became helpful in requesting donations later to provide for the upkeep of the Our Lady of Victory Homes of Charity facilities. Father Paul also created, with the assistance of the institution director, Monsignor Robert Wurtz, a three-fold brochure about the parish and its history which he placed in all the area hotels. This promotion increased the attendance of visitors. The gift shop was re-opened and enlarged, tours were given by a group of volunteers and now many people come to this destination to witness the great inspiration of Father Baker’s dream.

Once again it was time for Father Paul to move on to another location. In 1984 he was asked by Bishop Edward Head to become pastor of Holy Cross Parish on the lower west side of Buffalo. Father Paul had been ordained for 15 years by that time but, because of the large number of priests in the diocese, it was unusually early to become a pastor. It seems strange today as many men are named pastors after only a few years of priestly ministry because of the shortage. Holy Cross Parish was a good fit for Father Paul because of his Italian heritage. It was originally founded as an Italian parish but then included many Puerto Rican families. Although he did not speak Spanish, Father Paul learned enough to be able to say Mass in that language. He very much enjoyed ministering to the people of the parish. The Italian families had spaghetti dinners and St. Joseph’s tables and with Father Paul’s blessing, the Puerto Rican families enjoyed dances and other religious and cultural activities like the “Children of Mary” group and the annual Posada. They got along together and often experienced each other’s cultural celebrations. Father Paul remarked about the unity of the parish. “It was just a matter of loving people and being with them as they celebrated the things they found important.” While he was there he began another Legion of Mary group which he also started at St. Rose of Lima and Our Lady of Victory. They were all very open to this great devotion to Our Lady.

While at Holy Cross, Father Paul helped start a new regional school that would serve the students of all the parishes in that region, now referred to as a cluster of the new vicariate. There were quite a few parish elementary schools that had closed and he worried about what would happen to the families of these parishes who wanted a Catholic school for their children. After meeting with all the parish leaders in the region, they came to the conclusion that it would be best to have one new school supported by all. Catholic Academy of West Buffalo was very successful from the start, at first with an enrollment of 600 students. Two sites were needed to accommodate everyone. Today, after 23 years, the school is still strong with about 225 students but only one campus at the location of the former Cathedral School next to Blessed Sacrament Parish on Delaware Avenue.

Social justice issues are of great important to Father Paul. He became involved in remedying situations involving the marginalization of members of his community while at Holy Cross. Block Clubs were started to deal with rising crime rates in the area and to give the residents a chance to take ownership of their problems. Due to certain needs in the 1990’s, Father Paul became involved with a group called VOICE-Buffalo in an effort to bring attention to the needs of the people living in poverty and crime areas. He points out that the Catholic Church is the largest charitable organization on the planet and feels that we need to take the Gospel values to the streets. The Church has a strong social justice theology that goes back to Pope Leo XIII and right up to the present with many documents given by our United States Conference of Bishops and our late Holy Father Pope John Paul II. He stated that, “Our Church should strive to be involved in issues outside the doors of the church which impact and affect the poor and marginalized.” Influenced no doubt by the time he spent at Our Lady of Victory, Father Paul noted that Father Baker saw the needs of his day and sought to help people. He saw abandoned children and youth and so took them in at an Orphanage and Protectory. He saw the need of unwed mothers and so started the Infant Home and later started a maternity hospital, and more. Toward the end of his life in his 90’s, Father Baker said that if the Lord had given him more years he would have built a home for the elderly and started a junior college so as to meet the educational needs of everyone from early childhood on.

In 1995, when Monsignor Paul Juenker was retired as pastor of Blessed Sacrament Church, the site of the Catholic Academy of West Buffalo, Bishop Edward Head asked Father Paul to take over that parish as pastor. The bishop knew that Father Paul was instrumental in the creation of that regional school and wanted someone there as pastor who had a vested interest in preserving it. When it was started in 1988, it was the only regional school in the nation. Bishop Head was very proud of its existence and saw the value of it succeeding. Father Paul now acts as Canonical Administrator for the school. Students in the school come from 27 different zip codes and 25 different parishes. The students are the largest recipients of the Bison Fund Scholarship program in the Western New York area.

As far as his priesthood is concerned, Father Paul states that, “I am very happy in my ministry!” He feels that there is such a variety of experiences every day. “There is always something new in parish work,” he added. In his days at St. Rose of Lima, he was also involved with a group of priests who formed a vocation team and spoke at local high schools to promote vocations to the priesthood. He very much enjoyed talking to young men about being open to the possibility of God’s call to them as priests. He gave talks with priests from different religious orders such as Franciscans, Maryknollers, Divine Word Fathers, Oblates, Barnabites, Jesuits, and others. Monsignor Richard Nugent was the Diocesan Vocation Director at the time and asked Father Paul to join. They would each talk about life in their situations as priests so as to give the young men a more complete vision of what priesthood is about. Father Paul would often tell the students, “You may not feel as if God is calling you to the priesthood. If it’s not you, the guy next to you might have a vocation. Pray for him.” He would pray with the group, “Lord, you’re calling some here to the priesthood. We pray that they could be open to your invitation.”

The loss of population in Western New York, as well as the shortage of priests, has created some problems for the priesthood. The financial aspects of being a pastor is challenging with less people contributing to the needs of the parish. Many priests now live alone in a parish, and that is a challenge. Father Paul finds that this can hinder a sense of support and companionship that he enjoyed as a younger priest. Father Paul encourages priests to become involved in groups that are formed to bring them together in a spiritual environment such as Emmaus and Jesus Caritas groups. He finds that Jesus Caritas group which he belongs to is a wonderful blessing for his ministry and his priesthood. He recalls that he was also involved in an ecumenical spirituality and prayer group which included laity, nuns, and protestant ministers. Their meetings consisted of prayer and discussion. This provided him with a bond to other religious groups within his community. Contributing much to the needs of the Church, Father Paul was involved in the Church Musicians’ Guild as moderator for over 18 years. He was elected to the Priests’ Council and the Priests’ Personnel Board. Bishop Henry Mansell and Bishop Edward Kmiec appointed him to multiple terms as the Episcopal Vicar of Northwest Buffalo.

“The Lord is ever active calling men to ‘Come follow me,’” exclaims Father Paul. He advises men to pray about it, think about it, and ask the Lord how they can be generous back to Him with the blessings they’ve been given. He believes men should consider themselves disciples of the Lord wherever they are. Some are being called to be full time disciples for the Lord, but every Catholic is called to live out their faith in one way or another – as consecrated religious or as husbands, wives, or single people. If you find yourself called to the priesthood, Father Paul suggests, “Take it one day at a time. God will give you the grace you need to get through every day.”

October 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. SEBASTIAN PIERRO

Thoughts of the priesthood began to surface for Father Sibby when he was in the fifth grade at Holy Cross Grammar School. The Felician Sister who taught the class at Holy Cross Parish School on the West Side of Buffalo gave her students an assignment to write an essay about what they would like to be when they grew up. Young Sebastian, known as Sibby, wrote about the possibility of becoming a priest. He went on to graduate from Bishop Fallon High School and continued his studies at Canisius College. He very much enjoyed his freshman year at Canisius but somehow felt something was missing. Studying Law and Accounting kept him busy but he also found time to be involved in parish life at Holy Cross Church. As a youngster, he was very positively influenced by the exemplary priests he encountered at his home parish such as Msgr. Joseph Gambino and Msgr. Dino Lorenzetti as well as the Caligiuri brothers – Anthony and Angelo – and the Amico brothers – Richard and Charles – two sets of brothers who became priests. The wonderful influence of those priests helped Sibby to be open to the call from God that led him to speak to Msgr. Lorenzetti about the possibility of looking into the priesthood. Sibby went to visit Wadham’s Hall Seminary College in Ogdensburg, NY with the then vocation director, Father Theodore Kraus. He began his sophomore year there and upon graduation went on to Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora where he received his Master of Divinity Degree.

Nearly thirty years have passed since his ordination to the priesthood on January 30, 1982. Father Sibby fondly remembers his early assignments to Nativity of Our Lord Parish in Orchard Park where he spent five years as a parochial vicar as well as the seven years he spent in the same capacity at SS. Peter and Paul Parish in Hamburg. After spending a year and a half as a parochial vicar at Christ the King Parish in Snyder, he was assigned as Pastor of Holy Trinity Parish in Dunkirk where he spent five years and then to St. Peter Parish in Lewiston where he was the pastor for twelve years.

One of the challenges he finds about the priesthood concerns the current shortage of priests. When he was ministering in parishes back in the 80’s and 90’s, there were usually two or three priests in residence at a parish. It was helpful to have the support and fellowship of other priests in day to day ministry. It was during this time that Father Sibby served in his various assignments with Monsignor Thomas Beasley, Monsignor Donald Armbrewster, Monsignor Jim Licenthal, and Fathers Jerry Sheehan, James O’Connor, Paul Litwin, Robert Hora, and Michael Oliver who helped support and shape him in his ministry and priesthood. For the past seventeen years, Father Sibby ministered as the only priest in the parish communities of Holy Trinity and St. Peter as pastor. During this time he was dependent upon the parishioners to assist him in building up the Body of Christ in these parishes for it is impossible for one priest to do it alone. Father Sibby underwent various knee surgeries in 2008 to 2010 and has just completed a three month sabbatical which dealt with wellness in the areas of health, nutrition, physical fitness, grief and loss and spirituality. He feels it is important to find a balance between time for God, time for ministry and time for one’s self. When one of those areas is ignored, the other two will suffer. When there is a good, healthy balance, things work much better.

In September of 2011, Father Sibby was asked by Bishop Kmiec to assist Father Mark Wolski at SS. Peter and Paul Parish in Hamburg, a place he knew well. He exclaimed, “It was an easy decision for me to say yes to Bishop Kmiec since I spent seven wonderful years there.” Father Mark was ministering alone in that large parish since the departure of Father Jim Kirkpatrick who moved on in August to further studies at Catholic University. Father Mark welcomed the help Father Sibby could provide as a seasoned priest of the diocese.

Father Sibby and his younger brother, Joe, were blessed to have parents (Nick and Connie) who enjoyed 58 years of marriage. Their father passed away in February of 2010 and their mother still lives independently in the family home in Tonawanda. Father Sibby enjoys spending time with his mother and she enjoys his company along with having someone to cook for from time to time. He enjoys cooking himself as well as rooting on the Buffalo Bills and Sabres and the New York Yankees. Listening to music and reading books provide much needed relaxation for Father Sibby. For the past sixteen years, he has enjoyed the company of two golden retrievers. Harley was around for thirteen years and now Sonny is three years old. He feels that, “golden retrievers are wonderful dogs because they love you unconditionally.”

When Father Sibby was younger, he and his father spent a lot of time working on cars together. This proved to be a special bonding time for both of them. Father Sibby has owned with his dad a few classic cars such as a ‘57 Chevy, ’69 Chevy Malibu Convertible, ’73 Corvette and a ‘64 Corvette. He is now the proud owner of his “dream car” a 1955 Chevy which has been completely restored. It is a modified hot rod and he enjoys driving it and taking it to car shows and car cruises. He has even won a few awards for it.

Father Sibby enjoys his priesthood very much. He feels there is nothing he would rather do. He finds it extremely rewarding, “being able to minister to people by celebrating the sacraments, especially the Eucharist.” He feels, “The gift of Jesus Christ, his body broken, his blood poured out for us, and sharing in the ministry of Christ to do what happened at the Last Supper is the greatest blessing I can receive as a priest.” He also finds it important “to meet the needs of God’s people to the best of his ability, to reach out to the sick, the poor, to work with children and to assist people in their struggles.” Father Sibby finds celebrating the Sacrament of Reconciliation to be a most humbling experience as we are all in need of God’s mercy, forgiveness and love in our lives. It is through his ministry that he prays that he is able to bring God’s blessings and love to others.

Men who are discerning the priesthood, in Father Sibby’s opinion, need to reflect on why they are being called to this ministry of priesthood. They need to make sure the reason they want to be a priest is to follow the way of the Lord; to imitate him and be his disciple in the world today. “Hopefully a man considering priesthood has a positive relationship with the Lord in prayer; is not just full of book knowledge but wants to become a true minister of the Gospel; due to his experience of the Sacraments, his spirituality and his commitment to serve the People of God and remember that Christ came to serve and not be served,” explains Father Sibby.

Father Sibby describes his thirty years of priesthood as "positive, fruitful, life giving years for me and hopefully for those to whom I have ministered." He continued, "My priesthood has been a blessing filled with joys and sorrows, with successes and failures, filled with many friends, a gift and true calling from God who has blesed me in abundance." He looks forward to many more years of ministry and asks for your prayers for him as he prays for all the People of God in our Diocese.

September 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. RICHARD "DUKE" ZAJAC

Coaching baseball and residing in a hospital have a much less tragic connection than might be thought of when talking about the life of Father Duke Zajac. One did not lead to the other but both have provided much joy and fulfillment for Father Duke.

As a young boy, Richard Edward Zajac and his brother, Robert, spent a lot of time working at their father’s grocery store. The Black Rock Food Center was one of many businesses in the area that provided for the needs of the community. Close by were a drug store, appliance store, sports equipment, pet, and shoe stores. As Father Duke puts it, “The stores back then were like community centers. Anything you needed to maintain your life was within walking distance from your home.” Everyone knew each other and felt comfortable sharing their joys and sorrows, accomplishments and problems. The gamut of life walked in and out of the family store every day and as young Duke listened to all of it, he thought that someday he’d like to be able to help people with their problems. That, combined with the inspirational leadership of Father Walter Matuszak at Assumption Parish led young Duke to consider the priesthood as his life’s vocation. He attended Assumption Grade School and helped out as an altar server as well. Then it was on to the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary High School where he was one of 120 boys who began that freshman year. In 1967 he graduated from high school with a class of 70. In 1971 he earned a B.A. in Philosophy from St. John Vianney Seminary in East Aurora, now called Christ the King.

It was during his time in undergraduate school while working at his father’s store on summer break that his life would turn to baseball very unexpectedly. Duke was asked by the local optometrist and Assumption School Board President, Dr. Stephen Gladysz, if he would coach baseball for the boys at Assumption. Duke had played some baseball but didn’t consider himself a great player. He probably never would have taken up coaching had he never been asked but as he puts it now, “That asking opened a door to my life that has been unbelievably rich and rewarding.” He agreed to coach that summer and it changed his life. For the next fourteen summers and the fall as well, he coached various teams including the parish school team at St. Ambrose, his first assignment. He got to know the boys well and performed many of their weddings when they got older. Among them was Mike Buczkowski, the General Manager of the Buffalo Bisons, as well as Mike’s daughter whose wedding he performed years later.

After receiving a Master of Divinity Degree from St. John Vianney Seminary in 1975, Father Duke spent a year and a half as a deacon at Our Lady of the Blessed Sacrament Church in Depew and was ordained to the priesthood in May of 1976. His first assignment was as Associate Pastor of St. Ambrose Church in South Buffalo. Father Duke and the newly appointed pastor of the parish, Father Bill Stanton, arrived at their assignments the same day. The parish was in great need of renewal and together, Father Bill and Father Duke began the process. Father Duke was told earlier that, “Your first assignment makes or breaks you.” Looking back, he feels that the seven years he spent at St. Ambrose made for an extremely positive experience. When talk of reassignment came in 1982, Father Duke was greatly saddened. Facing the reality that he had to move on was very difficult. While coaching a baseball game at St. Ambrose he received word that the next chapter of his life was about to begin. An opportunity had become available earlier that summer to do Clinical Pastoral Education at Mercy Hospital, a prerequisite for certification for chaplaincy. Father Duke had taken advantage of it not realizing that an assignment to a hospital would be in his immediate future. That assignment to Sisters Hospital would lead him to help people who were in great need of comfort and that took a little of the sting out of leaving St. Ambrose. After all, that was what attracted him to the priesthood in the first place.

From 1982 to the present, Father Duke has been a Chaplain at Sisters of Charity Hospital in Buffalo. Twenty-nine years of service to those in need has brought him great satisfaction. He is a member of several boards including American Veterans Post #45 Parochial Baseball League, of which he is the current president, The Amherst Meals on Wheels, Baker Victory Services and Timon/St. Jude High School. He is the present Chairperson of the Medical Ethics Committee at Sisters Hospital and also a member of the Priests’ Council of the Diocese of Buffalo, the Ecumenical Commission of the Diocese of Buffalo, the Perinatal Bereavement Network of WNY, the Ethics Committee of the Catholic Health Care System, the Small Grants Committee of Sisters Hospital Office of Development, the Alumni Association of Buffalo Seminaries and the Catholic Health System Long Term/Home Health Care Ethics Committees. He is also a former member of several organizations.

For Father Duke, the best part and the most difficult part of priesthood are both contained in two things. The first has to do with relationships. He loves dealing with people and has made many lasting friendships throughout his priesthood. Nevertheless, it is often difficult to be with families going through tragedy such as the loss of a child in an accident or due to illness. It is also hard to deal with the many issues that surround broken families. It can be both gut-wrenching and fulfilling at the same time to minister to those in need. The second is preaching. Father Duke spends at least 24 hours preparing a Sunday homily. Besides saying Mass at the hospital, he helps out at St. Joseph Hospital and St. Ambrose Parish on the weekends. He loves to preach and he uses imagery to assist in making his point. When he was in grade school, a priest gave a homily at a May Day event. The priest used the imagery of a beatnik to lead into a description of various species of birds and how they relate to us. Father Duke recalled being fascinated with what he had to say. It made such an impression on him that he decided he would try to make his sermons as interesting as possible when he became a priest. Father Duke enjoys attending lectures and retreats at the Chautauqua Institute at least once a year.  As much as he loves preaching, it is a lot of work and extremely time consuming to produce the type of homily he desires. Throughout his years at the hospital, Father Duke has mined the fields of great preachers from the past whose books he has read and continues to read in the middle of the night after answering a call to minister to someone in need. Not able to immediately fall back asleep, the reading of those sermons serves as “wind down” from the call before he can fall asleep again.

Once inside Father Duke’s office and living space at Sisters Hospital, those things that are most important to him become very apparent. His walls are filled with pictures of family and baseball coaching memories, including a large photograph of a scene from a Diocesan championship game. Among the many awards he has received was being named Man of the Year of Parochial Baseball in 1974, 1990, and 2010. He also wears a ring he was given when he was inducted into the Western New York Baseball Hall of Fame for his 40 years of administration of the Parochial Baseball League. The wall space that is left is filled with books he uses as references for his well thought out homilies. He has even authored a few books of his own filled with the best of his homilies called, Life Injections/Connecting Scripture to the Human Experience, volumes I, II and III. He has also written a book with Robert Duggan called Living the Word/Not Only on Sunday.

Father Duke recommends to anyone considering priesthood that they make it a way of life, not just a job. It can’t be something you do just on Sunday and then put aside for the rest of the week. He expressed, “It will bring you tremendous joy as well as pain. You’ll be tired but it will be because you’ve put effort into things that really matter.”

August 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. DANIEL YOUNG

At six years old, many boys think they know what they want to do. Often it is something exciting like a fireman, policeman, astronaut, etc., which turns out not to be what they actually become when they reach adulthood. Father Dan Young felt called to the priesthood at the age of six and, after putting it on the back burner for a while, he later made it his choice for life.

He was born and raised in Wilson, NY and attended the Wilson Public School system from elementary through high school. His father was a math teacher and his mother a homemaker.  His father was not Catholic but did not object to his mother raising him and his two sisters in the faith. His parents were childless for the first eight years of their marriage. Father Dan’s maternal grandmother, a convert to Catholicism since her marriage to his grandfather, was inspired to help her daughter and son-in-law become parents. She and her daughter began praying the rosary with the intention of bringing children into their family. They had a great devotion to our Blessed Mother and a “never say never” attitude. Their prayers were answered with the birth of Father Dan’s older sister Debbie. After that, Father Dan was born followed by another sister Diane. When baby Dan’s parents brought him home from the hospital, his grandmother consecrated him to the Sacred Heart of Jesus with a prayer: “God, if you want this child to be a priest, I pray for this.” Father Dan knew nothing of this as he grew up, but clearly another prayer was answered.

In the small town of Wilson, NY, Dan and his sisters, at the prompting of their mother, became very active in the community as well as in their parish of Our Lady of the Rosary (now merged and called St. Brendan on the Lake). He was greatly influenced by Father Frank Skupien (now Monsignor). His influence and example fanned the flames of a fire already burning inside his young heart. When Dan was only thirteen years old, his mother died from cancer. His father carried on his mother’s wishes and dutifully dropped the children off for Mass every Saturday evening.

Dan went on to graduate from Daemen College with a degree in Humanities. He had a lot of course work in Elementary Education and wanted to be a teacher like his father. During college the desire to become a priest grew even stronger. He attended retreats and was very active in campus ministry. Upon graduation a job became available at Daemen College as a financial aid technician. Dan was working at that job for about a year when his father passed away. Much to his amazement, his father converted to Catholicism before he died. Never say never!

After another six months passed, Dan decided to look into priesthood as the call continued to increase not only from God but also from many around him who saw the spark of vocation growing. He entered the John Paul II residence on the campus of St. Rose of Lima Parish. This was a place, no longer in existence, for men discerning the priesthood to live while they finished up coursework needed to enter Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora. He was ordained in 1995 by Bishop Edward Head at St. Benedicts, the parish he belonged to at the time. There were five men ordained that year, each in their own home parishes as was the custom at the time. Father Dan remembers feeling, “I’m not worthy.” With both his parents gone by then, he remembers thinking they most likely approved his decision. He also wondered what the future would hold. He had a great devotion to Divine Mercy and still does. When he was walking up the aisle he thought, “Lord, I’m putting my whole future in your hands and I trust you.”

His first assignment was to Infant of Prague parish in Cheektowaga. He spent ten weeks there as a seminarian and a year there as a deacon. At that time it was also customary to spend the first year of priesthood at the same place. After that, he spent a little more than seven years at Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary in Harris Hill. Father Dan was then assigned pastor of two linked parishes, St. James Major in Westfield and St. Thomas More in Ripley. At that time, he was the youngest priest to be named a pastor. It was then on to St. Anthony and St. Joseph parishes which he eventually had to close and merge with St. Patrick’s in Lockport. The new name became All Saints. In Medina the same situation occurred where Father Dan had to merge three parishes, this time to form Holy Trinity. In September of 2008 he was named pastor of Good Shepherd and St. Augustine parishes which soon became merged. The name Good Shepherd was retained: One God…One Parish…One Heart…Two Worship sites. He has been at this assignment for three years and finds that even though the two worship sites are in two different counties (Niagara and Erie), things seem to be working out well since the merger.

Father Dan expressed a great love for celebrating the Eucharist. He remarked that, “The Eucharist is the source and summit of who we are as a person and as a community of faith as a church.” He also feels that hearing confessions is one of the most important things he does as a priest. Bringing people back to Christ in Reconciliation is such a blessing both for him and for them. “Sometimes,” remarks Fr. Dan, “I hear people say, “Bless me Father for I have sinned. It’s been 30, 40, 50 years since my last confession. It is such a tender Sacrament. People are so vulnerable and they want to be reconciled with God and the church.” This brings him great joy because he knows that it brings great joy to God.

One of the greatest challenges during his priesthood has been his involvement with church closings and mergers. He noted, “People know they are the church, the body of Christ, but the buildings still mean something and there’s an emotional attachment.” He tries to move people to see the greater picture while still being the understanding shepherd they need. Sometimes this can be difficult. “We are still Roman Catholic, even if the church building closes or changes. It is difficult because we are human and change is hard.” Not everyone always agrees if you have made a good decision or not! When he was an assistant pastor, one of the greatest challenges he faced was conflict management. Trying to help the parishioners to see the wisdom and value of a pastor’s decision when it might not make sense to them at the time, is one example of this and Father Dan feels priests must pray for guidance from the Holy Spirit.

When Father Dan finds some free time he enjoys gardening and reading. He is a great lover of antiques as well. He likes to relax on his day off and enjoys going out to dinner or seeing a movie with friends. He appreciates being able to walk or bike ride near the waterfront.

St. Luke’s Mission on the East side of Buffalo relies on the generosity of priests to help them out. Father Dan is the Associate Spiritual Director for the lay people who make a special commitment to the mission of St. Luke’s, referred to as Associates of St. Luke’s.  Father Dan came a year after the mission began and has been helping out ever since. He is not assigned by the bishop but is given permission to minister to them by saying Mass, hearing confessions and spiritually guiding them when needed. Several other priests, such as Father Jack Mattimore, SJ, help at St. Luke’s as well. Father Dan sums up his feelings by saying, “I enjoy it because it grounds me in what Christ wants us to be doing as far as serving the poor.”

Another way Father Dan donates his time is as Spiritual Director for the people who are involved with the Catholic radio station, WLOF. He helps when they have their fund drives by saying Mass in the chapel at the station as well as speaking words of promotion on the radio. He prays and gives advice to Jim and Joanne Wright, co-founders of the station. He would like to be even more involved with them but finds that there just aren’t enough hours in the day.

For any man discerning the priesthood, Father Dan advises him to have a very good prayer life. “He’s got to be before the Blessed Sacrament who is giving him the vocation.” An hour a day would be optimal in Father Dan’s estimation. He would give the same advice to a woman contemplating religious life. He adds, “In this lifestyle, we’re sustained by prayer.” He also feels that a potential priest should seek out the company of a priest whom he trusts to talk about what the priesthood is like. A retreat is another way of taking time to really discern what God is calling you to do. It is a time of reflection. Men should also listen to those around them as another way of discerning the Holy Spirit. If people are saying, “You should be a priest” or “Have you ever thought of being a priest?” there is probably something there and God may be leading them in that direction.

Having felt called to the priesthood as early as six years old, Father Dan knows this is what God had in mind for him since even before his grandmother offered him as an infant. He is “thrilled”, as he puts it, to be a priest – even on the most difficult of days. He can’t imagine finding fulfillment in any other vocation and his peaceful contentment is inspiring.

July 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. ART SMITH

In his forty years of priesthood, Father Art Smith has covered the gamut of service opportunities available to him. The oldest of eleven children, he was born in the parish of St. Thomas Aquinas in South Buffalo where he would later serve as pastor. In search of a bigger home to meet the needs of their growing family, his parents moved to St. Ambrose Parish and then to the parish of St. Martin of Tours. It was there, in the fifth grade, that young Art first considered the priesthood. Sister Thomasine assigned a project in which the students were asked to make something that would be a model of the Catholic Church. He built an altar complete with a cloth and candles. It was proudly displayed on the window sill at St. Martin’s School. He was also greatly influenced by the associate pastor of St. Martin’s at the time, Father S. Paul Ayoub. Father Ayoub encouraged him in music as he studied the piano and organ and helped him and other students to develop a great devotion to the Blessed Mother through the Sodality.

He spent his high school years at the Diocesan Preparatory School on Dodge Street in Buffalo. It was similar to other Catholic boys’ high schools except it was geared toward the priesthood. After that he graduated with a Bachelor of Arts from St. John Vianney Seminary in East Aurora (now Christ the King) in May, 1971.  He was ordained to the priesthood on May 29, 1971 at Our Lady of Victory Basilica. There were 25 young men ordained that day and OLV was the only place large enough to accommodate the multitude of family and friends who attended. In 1989 Father Art earned his Master of Divinity degree from Christ the King Seminary.

During the first three years of his priesthood he was Administrator of St. Mark Church in Rushford. He was then assigned as Associate Pastor of St. Bernadette Church in Orchard Park. During that time he also served as Chaplain at Baker Hall in Lackawanna from 1976 to 1981. He moved on to become Associate Pastor of Our Lady of Victory Basilica in 1981 and was assigned as
Chaplain of the Erie County Holding Center as well as Campus Minister at Daemen College from 1984 to 1987.

Breaking somewhat from the traditional life of a parish priest, Father Art became the co-founder and Executive Producer of Daybreak TV Productions, a non-profit subsidiary of the Communications Department of the Diocese of Buffalo as well as the Executive Producer and anchor of Real to Reel Television Magazine from 1984 to 1987. In 1983 he was an intern at ABC’s Channel 7 where he produced special faith-based shows. From 1987 to 1991 he was Director of Program Development for the Catholic Telecommunications Network of America (CTNA) of the U. S. Catholic Conference (USCC) and the National Conference of Catholic Bishops (NCCB).

Father Art returned to parish life in 1991 when he was assigned as pastor of SS. Brendan and Jude in Alfred-Almond as well as Campus Minister at Alfred University and Alfred State College. While there he was a member of the Board of Directors of the Interfaith Volunteer Caregivers Program in Hornell and a member of the Alfred Area Interfaith Council. He enjoyed getting to know the students and instituted a lunch experience he called “Soup and Sacrament,” where students would talk about their faith and have the opportunity for confession as well if they desired. He was then assigned as pastor in 1995, 50 years later, to the church where he was baptized, St. Thomas Aquinas in South Buffalo. It was very special to return to St. Thomas because it was also the parish in which his parents were married. As it turned out, he buried his parents from that church as well. In 2006 Father Art became a member of the South Buffalo Catholic School Board and in 2008 he became a member of the South Buffalo Ecumenical Association and a chaplain at South Buffalo Mercy Hospital.

In August of 2010, Father Art Smith began anew when Bishop Edward U. Kmiec asked him to become the pastor of St. Mary of the Lake Parish in Hamburg. He has been there for almost a year and just celebrated his 40th anniversary of priesthood. He recalled that the day of the celebration at St. Mary’s of the Lake had very similar weather to the actual day of his ordination. It was a beautiful blue-sky day, sunny and warm. He remembers his ordination day as if it were yesterday. He rode a school bus from Christ the King Seminary to the OLV Basilica. All the big moments of ordination -  processing in with all his family there, laying prostrate on the floor as the litany of the saints was sung, having Bishop McLaughlin place oil on his hands as he pledged obedience - are still vivid in his memory. He enjoys very much the opportunity to once again meet new people. “The people of St. Mary’s are so kind and so gentle,” remarked Father Art. He also admits he loves being near the waters of Lake Erie.

Father Art has been playing the piano most of his life. He finds it very relaxing and he loves to incorporate it into his daily liturgies. He plays and sings the opening and closing hymns while the congregation sings along. Besides the piano, he plays the guitar and trumpet. He very much enjoys painting and drawing, reading, swimming, boating and of course, communications technology and television production.

As far as the priesthood goes, Father Art feels the Eucharist is the central focus of his life. He enjoys preaching and teaching and “sharing the sacramental life with everybody from birth to death.” He adds, “The sacramental life of the church and all of its dimensions is most meaningful for me.” He also enjoys the people to people contact. Rich and poor, known and unknown, large families, small families, the experience of getting to know all his parishioners as they gather weekly and sometimes daily, is very rewarding.

The changing demographics of the church can sometimes lead to loss and grief. The recent Journey in Faith and Grace which led to the downsizing of some of the churches in the Diocese of Buffalo hit Father Art particularly hard. While he was at St. Thomas Aquinas as pastor, they had to close the school because of lack of financial stability. It was very difficult on the school families. When St. Thomas Aquinas was linked with St. Martin of Tours, the parish once again felt the sense of loss. Another example of diminishment was when nearby St. Barbara’s Church was leveled after it was closed. It was such a towering structure and then to see it as just a plot of grass where it once stood was very disheartening, expressed Father Art. He added, “Loss of what was can be a very challenging part of priesthood.” But change is inevitable and the future holds many new possibilities for the church. Ever full of hope, Father Art remarked, “That puts a positive spin on what can be a very negative thing.”

Father Art feels that, “the priesthood is probably one of the most unique vocations in the world. You get to help people develop their gift of faith through the sacramental life of the church.” He added that, “you can bring the richness of God into the lives of people.” Every man who becomes a priest has the opportunity to use his unique gifts and talents to do this. Father Art uses his gift of music as well as his insights into breaking open scripture as a preacher and a teacher. “A priest can express his individuality in priesthood and still be a part of the general ministry of the Catholic community,” exclaims Father Art. He enjoys his priesthood and finds himself happy most of the time. When he experiences moments of doubt, hurt, loss and frustration, he often finds that his faith and trust in God carry him through. He will turn to the Psalms when he feels down and always finds a line or two to meditate upon in order to put things into proper perspective. Often, when he needs a lift, one of those “Ah-ha” moments will come along to reinforce and rejuvenate him in his vocation. As he puts it, “Life comes together and makes sense and you can move on.”

Father Art has had so many varied life experiences as a priest. He has been blessed to have been active in several different kinds of ministry. Blessed also are the people who have benefited from being a part of his ministry.

June 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. DAVID RICHARDS

For Father Dave Richards the call to become a priest came first as a whisper, then, as sometimes happens when whispers are ignored, it came more like a decree. As he was living the life he thought would make him happy, God intervened to let Father Dave know that He had different plans in mind.

Father Dave is the oldest of four children in his family. His father was a police officer who lost his battle with Leukemia at the age of 28. At that time Dave was 8 years old, his sisters Liz and Molly were 6 and 4 and his brother John was 2. Father Dave related that, “My mom devoted her life to ensuring that we had a good education, food on the table, and a heated home. She was a very faith filled person and I think that just carried over to us.”

As members of St. Aloysius Parish in the Buffalo/Cheektowaga area, Dave attended St. Al’s elementary school until grade 6. He then attended Nardin Academy Elementary School for grades 7 and 8. He went on to Canisius High School and then Canisius College where he graduated with a degree in Economics. He began a job in sales but felt the need for a change by the end of 1999. In February of 2000, he joined his two best friends in the Silicon Valley area of California. There he was driven to accumulate wealth partly as a form of following the “American dream” but also with a strong desire to donate money to help find a cure for Leukemia.  Beyond the money he made at work, he raised funds by competing athletically. “We were committed to raising thousands of dollars while training for a specific event. I did a couple of Ironman competitions and a bunch of triathlons including a few adventure races. It was absolutely amazing!” recalls Father Dave.

During this time, he met Jennifer and fell in love. After dating just over a year, they got engaged on January 11, 2004. Looking back, Father Dave remembers that there was this calling he felt to which he had never responded. He had spoken to a few priests along his journey in life concerning a feeling of being called to the priesthood, but he always left the conversations feeling that was not the life for him. The call gradually became stronger and he recognized how unfulfilled he felt in his career.  He was torn, however, by the strong feeling of love he had for Jennifer.

He remembers specifically that the date was March 8, 2004 when God expressed His will in no uncertain terms. Father Dave recalled that, “there was a clear, succinct message that was practically laid out for me in black and white and almost bullet points. They were directions. Basically, I was being directed to discern the priesthood. God was asking for my undivided heart in the priesthood.” It was at that moment on March 8th that he decided he needed to drop everything he was doing in California in order to move back to Buffalo and enter the seminary. “It was excruciating!” recalls Father Dave. “I had never felt pain like that in my entire life.” It took several months to heal from that break. As time went on, by the grace of God, he was able to move forward.

He entered Christ the King Seminary in August of 2004 and was ordained to the priesthood on October 9, 2010 by Bishop Edward Kmiec. His first assignment was as parochial vicar at St. Gregory the Great Parish in Williamsville where he currently resides. As Father Dave put it, “Things are going fantastic!” He went on to say that he has had so many “firsts” in his seven months as a priest.  He celebrated his first wedding, his first funeral, heard his first confession, all of which have happened many more times as would be expected in a big parish.

Father Dave really enjoys celebrating the sacraments of Eucharist and Reconciliation. He finds that he is growing more used to preaching and feels that “it is a really good way to be creative.” He enjoys including catch phrases that we use today to relate to bible passages from long ago. Hearing confessions is a very powerful experience for Father Dave. He feels privileged to stand in the place of Christ and let God work through him to forgive the sins of others. He also mentioned that God often works through others to help him as well. He noted that every day is different and brings with it its own challenges and blessings. It’s good to be flexible when working in different situations with different people. He has seen people at their happiest as well as at their saddest moments. He recognizes that sometimes those who are suffering just want someone to be present with them, to rest with them in their time of distress.

Sometimes Father Dave feels it is difficult to carve out time for prayer in the midst of a busy parish life. This, he realizes, can be spiritually dangerous. It's easy to get caught up in daily activities and put off time for prayer but Father Dave realizes that his prayer life is the foundation that sustains him. Without it, over time, everything else suffers as well. To be able to make holy hour in front of the Blessed Sacrament every day would be ideal according to Father Dave, but most days other pressing issues win out. Finding a good balance between prayer time and other responsibilities is something he strives for daily.

In the winter, Father Dave enjoys snowboarding when he has the time. Summer interests include golf, running, and riding his road bike. He currently plays on two summer league softball teams but admits that as things get busier in his life it may be difficult to keep up with everything.  Besides sports, Father Dave also devotes some of his free time to playing his guitar.

For those who feel called to the priesthood, Father Dave suggests staying close to the sacraments, especially Eucharist and Reconciliation. He is very fond of a quote by Archbishop Timothy Dolan’s mother, “Trust in God, be yourself and everything’s going to be O.K.” Father Dave feels that there is a sort of surrender that needs to happen to someone who is seeking to do God’s will. “You have to be willing to let go and let God take the wheel!” He also recommends spending time in prayer as the best way to stay in touch with God and His will for you.

Humbly, Father Dave admits that he still is and always will be in a continual growth pattern. He feels blessed to have been influenced by many Holy Priests like Father Jack Mattimore when he was growing up. His great uncle was a Jesuit priest and there are several Carmelite nuns on his mother’s side of the family. Father Dave likes to think that those religious members of his family, as well as his dad, are all up there in heaven praying him through the challenges of his priesthood and celebrating his joys as well.  He is very happy being a priest and says, “I can’t imagine any other reason God made me.”

May 2011 Priest of the Month - MOST REV. EDWARD M. GROSZ, D.D.

On May 29, 2011, Bishop Edward Grosz will celebrate forty years as a priest in the Diocese of Buffalo. Forty years of a life spent learning and teaching, shepherding and serving in so many capacities.

Bishop Grosz is the middle child of three sons born to Joseph and Helen Grosz. He shares a birthday with Monsignor Nelson Baker. Both were born on February 16 although Father Baker had the date some 100 years before Bishop Grosz. Young Edward Grosz grew up in Buffalo’s Black Rock section and attended Assumption School. When he was in the second grade the Felician Sister who taught him used to leave candy bars in his desk leading him to believe he was the “teacher’s pet.” She used to tell him, “Someday, Edziu, you are going to be a priest.” He was also greatly influenced by  Reverend George P. O’Neill. Bishop Grosz carries a prayer card from the funeral of Father George in 1975 because Father George had such an impact on him as a spiritual director and mentor. Another priest who made a huge impression on Bishop Grosz was Father Daniel Pokornowski. He was on the faculty at the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary in Buffalo when young Edward applied. Father Dan knew Edward before joining the faculty and saw a priest in the making. When Edward didn’t perform well on the entrance exam due to extreme nervousness, Father Dan recommended he be admitted anyway. “It was God’s plan”, remarked Bishop Grosz, “If he hadn’t been there I wouldn’t have gotten in and I might have become a tire salesman or something instead of a priest!” It was then on to St. John Vianney Seminary in East Aurora where he received a Bachelor of Arts degree in philosophy and a Master of Divinity degree. He was ordained to the priesthood on May 29, 1971 by Bishop James A. McNulty at St. Joseph New Cathedral, Buffalo.

For five summers Bishop Grosz attended the University of Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana, where he earned a Master’s Degree in Liturgics. In Buffalo he was assigned to Transfiguration Parish on the East Side of Buffalo where he served as assistant pastor. Following that, he was assigned assistant pastor at St. Luke’s and Blessed Trinity parishes, both in Buffalo. He also served as weekend assistant at St. Joseph’s Cathedral, Buffalo. His pastorates included St. Philip the Apostle Parish in Cheektowaga, St. Stanislaus Kostka and Holy Trinity Parishes in Niagara Falls, and St. Stanislaus Bishop and Martyr Parish in Buffalo. In 1996 he was named episcopal vicar of the Western Niagara vicariate and served in that capacity until his appointment in October 2003 as pastor of St. Stanislaus Parish in Buffalo. He then served as episcopal vicar of the Southeast Buffalo Vicariate.

In addition to his parish assignments, Bishop Grosz had significant experience in administrative positions. From 1975 to 1980, he was the executive secretary of the Diocesan Liturgical Commission. In 1976, Bishop Edward D. Head named him director of the Diocesan Office of Worship, a position he held for 14 years until he received his first pastorate at St. Philip the Apostle Church. In November 2003, he became the chaplain of the Western New York Division of the Polish American Congress.
 
Bishop Grosz held and continues to hold a number of positions on local, state and nation-wide boards and committees. Among those, he was the diocesan coordinator for the visit of Pope John Paul II to Toronto as well as coordinator of pilgrimages to the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, D. C.

In 1987, Bishop Grosz became the official liaison between the Diocese of Buffalo and the Ukrainian Byzantine Catholic Community of Buffalo. He received bi-ritual faculties from Rome giving him the ability to minister in Ukrainian Byzantine parishes on occasion. He has also been very involved in dialogue between the Catholic Church and the Polish National Catholic Church.

Bishop Grosz was named a Monsignor on October 15, 1988 and was appointed Auxiliary Bishop of Buffalo and Titular Bishop of Morosbisdo by Pope John Paul II on November 22, 1989. He was ordained a bishop and installed to these positions at St. Joseph’s Cathedral in Buffalo on February 2, 1990.

Despite his many other obligations, Bishop Grosz found time to write columns and articles for religious publications. He wrote a liturgy column for the Western New York Catholic, the monthly Catholic newspaper of the Diocese of Buffalo, and publications including The Priest, Pastoral Life, Modern Liturgy, Maria Legionis, Priestly Heart newsletter, Comfort My People newsletter, Eucharistic Minister, and The Catholic Digest. The Bishop has also authored two books, Celebrating the Marian Year (United States Catholic Conference, Washington, DC, 1987), and I Come to Serve (Pueblo Publishing Company, New York, 1987), as well as the booklet, “Walking With Jesus, The Way of the Cross,” (Pauline Books and Media, Boston MA, 1999).

On May 24, 2004, the College of Consultors of the Diocese of Buffalo elected Bishop Grosz diocesan administrator while awaiting the installation of Bishop Kmiec. For 11 years, he served as chaplain for the Villa Maria Motherhouse of the Felician Sisters in Buffalo.

When asked why he became a priest, Bishop Grosz named three main factors that influenced his life and ultimately his decision to answer “yes” when God called. First was the wonderful way the priests at his home parish of Assumption interacted with their parishioners, old and young, when he was growing up. They were there for more than just Sunday Masses. Those priests took part in everything from teaching religion in the school, to attending baseball games, treating altar servers to special outings, and in general, being present to the people to whom they ministered all week long. The second was the influence of the Felician Sisters who taught in school. “The Felician Sisters taught respect and were present wherever and whenever needed,” commented Bishop Grosz. Third was the encouragement of families and lay people in the parish. Families respected the priesthood and encouraged vocations in their own sons.  Parishioners often mentioned to young men, like Bishop Grosz, that they thought they would make good priests. These three factors combined to nurture vocations and can serve as suggestions to promote vocations today.

Bishop Grosz enjoys his role as spiritual guide and hopes he is an inspiration to those with whom he interacts. He feels it is a privilege to administer the Sacraments, especially Reconciliation and the Eucharist. It is of great value to him to be with people when they are most vulnerable and hurting as well as when they are joyful in their celebration of the Sacraments. He finds it challenging to balance his daily schedule with what is expected of him. Bishop Grosz feels that today, more than ever, people need good priests modeling virtuous lives for others. “We are battling so many negative aspects in our society today such as secularism, modernism, and anti-religious sentiment” laments Bishop Grosz.

To someone considering the priesthood, Bishop Grosz begins by asking, “Where is the spirit leading you? Why do you think you’d like to be a priest?” This gives a point of departure from which he can proceed to help them discern. He always advises them to become more prayerful. He suggests they give God more of their time by attending daily Mass as often as possible, getting involved in parish life wherever feasible and talking to priests they admire. He also feels it is very important for priests to tap those who seem to be heading in the direction of priesthood on the shoulder to encourage that possible vocation. It is the responsibility of priests to create an environment where the seed of vocation can grow. As he put it, “Priests beget priests.”

Bishop Edward Grosz is very happy being a priest. He says, “There are good days and bad days like in any life. There are moments when you feel like you’re on Calvary and moments when you feel like you just emerged from the tomb.” Overall, the feeling is one of fulfillment and joy in a life he wouldn’t trade for any other.

April 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. RICHARD CSIZMAR

Father Richard Csizmar gives his parents, four brothers and three sisters credit for preparing him for life in the seminary and as a priest. The family owned Csizmar’s Restaurant when Father Dick was growing up and he recalls how working together, sharing, caring, and enjoying each other’s company provided him with the social and business skills needed to succeed in priesthood. He recalls that, “They first taught me how to live and love in a family.” His family’s experience of owning a restaurant was mirrored in Tom Dudzick’s play, “Over the Tavern” Father Dick and his family saw the play together when it showed in Buffalo and they found that the Dudzicks and the Csizmars had a lot in common.

Young Richard attended elementary school at Ascension School in North Tonawanda. He fondly remembers his fifth grade teacher, Sister Marie Louise Schum, who encouraged every girl to be a nun and every boy to be a priest. She inspired him to accept the call he felt even then.

He graduated from Bishop Duffy High School in Niagara Falls in 1960. When he was a sophomore in high school, he was named newsboy of the week because of his success as a paper boy. The paper featured an article honoring him for his award but his girlfriend at the time was not pleased to read that he wanted to become a priest. His guidance counselor, Father James Cassidy, asked him what he wanted to do with his life. He responded, “I want to be a priest,” to which Father Cassidy replied, “You want to go to Princeton?” He went on to receive the degrees of A.A. in classical languages from the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary in Buffalo; B.A. in philosophy from St. John Vianney Seminary (now Christ the King) in East Aurora; and M.A. in Religion and Religious Education from Catholic University in Washington, DC. He also participated in summer courses at Stonehill College, North Easton, MA; Georgetown University in Washington, DC; Franciscan University of Steubenville, OH; College of St. Joseph in Orange, CA; and the University of Rochester.

Father Dick, as he is affectionately called, was ordained to the priesthood at St. Joseph’s Cathedral, Buffalo, by Bishop Pius Benincasa on May 25, 1968. “It was an awesome experience!” he recalls. “All of a sudden, life changed for me. I achieved what I had wanted since the fifth grade.” On the day of his ordination, he visited his grandmother at Kenmore Mercy Hospital.  She was too ill to be with him so he came to her with Communion and anointed her. She passed away the following January.

He served at St. Elizabeth Church in Cherry Creek and Nativity of Mary, Harris Hill before being assigned to Notre Dame High School of Batavia in 1969. For the next twenty-five years he served there in various capacities: instructor of religious guidance, the school’s first development director, director of spiritual life, and associate principal. Over those years, Father Csizmar served as curriculum committee chairman, religious guidance department chairman, moderator of student retreats, moderator of the Sports Boosters Club, Assistant Athletic Director, and for fifteen years served as tennis coach. In addition, he also served on a human relations team for the Batavia City School District.

In 1976 the Lay Advisory Board of the Diocese of Buffalo awarded Father Csizmar a grant to study religious education at Prince of Peace Abbey, Canon City, Colorado. In 1992 he received the prestigious St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Award for meritorious service to Catholic Education. Also, he has been recipient of the Religious Educator of the Year Award by the Diocese of Buffalo and Educator of the Year Award by the University of Rochester. In June of 1998 he was installed in the Notre Dame High School Hall of Fame for outstanding service to the school.

Over his twenty-five years at Notre Dame, Father led student retreats for most of those years. Since 1976 he has been spiritual moderator of the Notre Dame charismatic prayer group. He served as weekend associate at St. Anthony’s and St. Joseph’s Parishes and also assisted at Masses at St. Mary’s Parish for three years.

In September 1994 Father Dick was assigned to St. Joseph’s and St. Mary’s Assumption Parishes in Albion, first as administrator, and as pastor since December 31, 1994. He has since presided over the merger of the two parishes into Holy Family Parish. On November 1, 1995 he was appointed by Bishop Henry J. Mansell to the new position of Episcopal Vicar of Orleans, the delegate of the Bishop of Buffalo to parishes in Orleans County. In January of 2010 Bishop Edward U. Kmiec appointed him to the new position of Episcopal Vicar of Eastern Niagara-Orleans, now covering the eastern part of Niagara County and all of Orleans.

In Albion, Father has been a leader in the ecumenical movement, serving as president of the Albion Ministerium for three-and-a-half years and vice president for many years. This group provides a dozen gatherings for over 15 congregations in the Greater Albion area, highlighted by the annual Baccalaureate Service for Albion High School, a summer ecumenical picnic, luncheons during Lent and Advent, and services for Thanksgiving and Good Friday. This group led a service which brought over 450 people together at a Noon Worship Service in 2001, three days after the 9-11 attacks.

Sharing in the Sacraments with people has been one of the highlights of priesthood for Father Dick. He enjoys being involved with them at the special moments in their lives from Baptisms to Funerals and everything in between. He has been honored to have baptized and married a niece, a cousin, and the son of close friends who are also his god children. He loves dealing with young families, especially those with teenagers as most of his priesthood years were spent in a high school environment.

The challenges of priesthood for Father Dick include fundraising and keeping schools and parishes functioning financially. Father Dick incorporates creativity into every aspect of his ministry in order to help people overcome the challenge of keeping their faith lives new and exciting. Sometimes he feels it is hard to know how people are hurting and how to respond to them.

Father Csizmar is in the minority of men who actually enjoy shopping. He likes buying gifts for those close to him for Christmas, birthdays, and special events. He enjoys sports and follows the Buffalo Bills and Sabres as well as the Cleveland Indians.

Father Dick sees the priesthood as being a very exciting life. He feels it produces wonderful challenges and is a great way to serve people and bring them closer to Christ. He sees it as a very fulfilling life where there is a natural inroad to the lives of others. He feels privileged to be trusted by so many and to be able to share with them and pray with them. He advises that if priests will love their people and let the people love them, they will be happy and at peace with where they are. All in all, he exclaims that his life as a priest is, “Much more fulfilling than I could have ever imagined.”

March 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. RICHARD CILANO

Bishop Kmiec and Father Richard at Unity Celebration

Father Richard Cilano is one of a very few people who have received two sacraments not normally administered to the same person. Having experienced thirty years of marriage and five years of priesthood, you might say he has been blessed to have the best of both worlds.

In the fifth grade, young Richard was impressed and inspired by the associate pastor of his parish, Father Joseph Nothnagle. This priest was a happy, holy man who trained him as an altar boy and Richard wanted to be just like him. So he set his sights on priesthood. After graduating from St. Andrew’s Grammar School in Rochester, he attended St. Andrew’s Seminary High School and St. Bernard’s Seminary and College where he received a BA in philosophy. Along the way, he met the woman who would soon become his wife. He went on to receive a Teacher Certification in English from SUNY Brockport. Richard spent the next 32 years as an English teacher in the City School District of Rochester. Together, he and his wife Mary raised four children. With retirement nearing, Richard and Mary made plans to enjoy more time together. Unfortunately, that time never came.

Mary Cilano suffered a pulmonary embolism in 1999 and died in the arms of her husband.
 A few months later, Richard wondered if it would be possible to resume his studies for the priesthood or if that door had been closed forever. When he inquired at his home Diocese of Rochester, they told him that he was four years past the maximum age of 50 required to enter the seminary. He didn’t have to look much farther than the neighboring Diocese of Buffalo, which has no such restriction, to receive a positive response. His youngest daughter, Anne, was a high school junior at the time and she became the first to find out.

One day at the kitchen table, he explained to Anne that he felt that God was calling him to be a priest. He knew that Anne was the one of his four children who would be most affected by this decision and wanted to receive her permission. She replied, “Dad if you think God is calling you to be a priest, that’s what you should do.”

“All my children were happy that I would now have something to do with the rest of my life,” Father Richard said.

In 2001 Richard entered Christ the King Semionary and was even given credit for previous religious studies. In May of 2005, he graduated with a Master's of Divinity Degree. He spent time as a Transitional Deacon from June to November 2005 at Prince of Peace Church in Niagara Falls. On November 19, 2005, at the age of 60, he was ordained a priest at St. Joseph's Cathedral by Bishop Edward Kmiec. Father Richard remembers thinking on that day, "It was incredible to me that God would bring this around a second time. I was blessed in marriage and again in priesthood." Father Richard celebrated his first Mass as a priest the day after his ordination at Prince of Peace Church.

His first assignment was as parochial vicar at Nativity of Our Lord Parish, Orchard Park. In December 2007, he was made pastor of Immaculate Conception Parish, East Bethany and St. Mary Parish, Pavilion. On August 15, 2010, the feast of the Immaculate Conception, the two parishes merged to form Mary Immaculate Parish. The merger of the two parishes was celebrated at a Mass presided by Bishop Kmiec at the Pavilion site. The celebration continued with a picnic held at the East Bethany site.

Father Richard finds the celebration of the Eucharist, preaching and performing baptistms to be among the most enjoyable aspects of priesthood. The most challenging would be administration work, especially all that goes along with the merger of two parishes. In reflecting on the comparison of married life and priesthood, Father Richard says that they are very much the same. They both involve total dedication and are both life giving. In marriage the dedication was to his wife and children. In the priesthood one has full dedication and fidelity to God and His people. It is life giving in the sense that Father Richard shares God's life and love with the people he shepherds.

His free time and vacation time are spent mostly with his children and grandchildren. He is a "family man" whose family has grown now to include those to whom he ministers.

The advice Father Richard gives to those considering the priesthood depends on their age. When talking to younger men, he reminds them that there are a lot of things they can do with their lives. They should not eliminate the possibility of priesthood. With older men, he relies on his own experience and advises them to consider where they are in their lives and how God is calling them to serve. They should consider the obligations they have to family and follow their inclinations. The Holy Spirit speaks to different people in different ways as well as through different people and it is the responsibility of all to listen and act in union with the promptings of the Spirit. To sum it up, Father Richard exclaims, "Always remain faithful to the Church."

Father Richard can't imagine being happier doing anything else other than being a priest. Although he once had different plans for his retirement from teaching, plans that didn't work out, he is very happy. He hopes that he radiates the same joy that he saw in Father Joseph who inspired him as a boy. He revealed that, "My greatest joy as a priest would be to inspire someone else to enter the priesthood."

February 2011 Priest of the Month - VENERABLE NELSON H. BAKER

February 2011 features a priest who is near and dear to the hearts of many Western New Yorkers even though he went on to his eternal reward 75 years ago. He has many nicknames, among them, “Padre of the Poor,” “Apostle of Charity,” “Little Man of God” (due to his short stature – just about five feet tall), but he is known to most as “Father Baker.” He was born February 16, 1841 and this year is the 170th anniversary of his birth.

Nelson Baker was the second eldest of four sons born in Buffalo, NY to Lewis Becker (later Baker) and Caroline (Donnellan) Baker. His father, a German Evangelical Lutheran, was a retired mariner. Lewis opened a grocery and general goods store on Batavia Street (now called Broadway) in Buffalo and is said to have instilled an astute business sense in young Nelson, who worked there after graduating from high school in 1858. When he was nine years old his mother, a devout Irish Catholic, had Nelson christened a Roman Catholic.

In early July 1863, Baker enlisted as a Union Soldier as part of the 74th regiment of the New York State Militia during the Civil War. His regiment, which saw duty along the Pennsylvania front at the Battle of Gettysburg, helped quell the New York City draft riots. After returning home from his military service, he and his friend, Joseph Meyer, another Civil War veteran, started a successful feed and grain business. Already feeling a strong affinity toward his Catholic faith, he joined the St. Vincent DePaul Society and began taking Latin classes in the evenings at St. Michael’s residence in Buffalo, which would later become Canisius College in 1870.

With thoughts of the priesthood surfacing in his life, he decided to take a steamer trip along the shores of the Great Lakes to sort out his future. When he returned to Buffalo, he was firm in his decision to begin the process of becoming a priest. His mother was thrilled with the news while his father, brother, and former business partner had reservations.

He entered Our Lady of Angels Seminary (now Niagara University) in September 1869. While a seminarian in 1871, he was taken ill with erysipelas, known in the Middle Ages as “St. Anthony’s Fire,” an infection of the skin which causes painful swelling and high fever. At one point he was so close to death he was given last rites. Nelson’s long road to recovery, which involved learning to walk again, took almost a year. After recovering, he went with a large group on a pilgrimage to Europe. While in Paris, France the group toured the Shrine to Our Lady of Victory. It was noted that this visit to the Marian shrine in France marked the beginning of his lifelong devotion to Our Lady of Victory. While in Rome, the group briefly met Pope Pius IX at the Vatican.

Father Nelson Baker was ordained on March 19, 1876 (the feast of St. Joseph) by Bishop Stephen V. Ryan at St. Joseph’s Cathedral in Buffalo. His first assignment was at a parish in Limestone Hill (now known as Lackawanna, NY) which consisted of St. Patrick’s Church, St. Joseph’s Orphanage, and St. John’s Protectory. Of course, this was the future site of Our Lady of Victory Parish and Homes of Charity. He stayed there for five years and was then transferred to St. Mary’s Parish in Corning, NY (then part of the Diocese of Buffalo). He only spent one year in Corning and in 1882 was recalled to Lackawanna as Superintendent.

Upon his arrival back to Limestone Hill, he was met by a group of creditors who informed him that the three institutions had amassed a sizeable debt and they demanded immediate payment. His prior experience as a businessman was instrumental as he endeavored to handle this crisis. Besides using up his remaining personal savings, he began the “Association of Our Lady of Victory.” Membership in this group was 25 cents a year. Father Baker, with the help of postmasters in towns across the country who provided him with the names and addresses of Catholic women, wrote to the women requesting help in caring for the children residing at the orphanage and protectory. He also started a journal, The Annals of the Association of Our Lady of Victory, in 1888 to solicit more help. Later, in 1895 it would be known as Victorian Magazine and last until the early 1970s. By 1889 his efforts had been successful and the creditors were paid in full. In answer to his prayers of never falling into debt again, a gas well was miraculously discovered on the land of the Our Lady of Victory Homes in 1891.

Father Baker was horrified by the news of infant bones being dredged out of the Erie Canal. The practice of dumping unwanted babies in the waterway was becoming all too common. In response, Father Baker expanded his ministry to include the construction of Our Lady of Victory infant home, which opened in August 1908, to offer refuge, prenatal care, and adoptive services for infants and unwed mothers. Understanding the need for confidentiality, he made it known that a crib would be left inside the door to the infant home into which anyone could surrender an unwanted newborn any time with no questions asked.

Honored in his community as “Buffalo’s most influential citizen of the 20th century,” his name was given to a major bridge on Route 5 in Lackawanna. He has also received church honors, both during his lifetime and since his death. He was named Vicar General of the Buffalo Diocese in 1902, given the title Monsignor in 1905, and Rome commended his religious leadership on June 23, 1922 by naming him Prothonotary Apostolic ad instar Participantium, an honor accorded to only five other clergymen in the United States at that time. He unceasingly promoted devotion to the Eucharist and Our Lady of Victory.

Father Baker was constantly making improvements and upgrading the facilities in his care to accommodate more and more people in need. His final and most magnificent tribute to his patroness came in the form of constructing the Basilica of Our Lady of Victory. With no funds available for such a project, Father Baker realized he would need to reach out to those who had been so generous in the past. He asked the people in the Association of Our Lady of Victory to donate $10 blocks to the building of the basilica. There was an outpouring of support for the beloved priest from all over the nation. He spared no expense and utilized the finest materials imported from Europe, Asia, and Africa. It took only four years to complete and in May 1926, the year of his Golden Jubilee (50 years of priesthood), the OLV Shrine was consecrated, 100% debt free.  Later that year in July, the OLV Shrine was named a Minor Basilica by the Vatican.

He administered the Basilica Parish with the adjacent Homes of Charity (orphanage, elementary school, home for infants, facilities for unwed mothers and maternity hospital) for the rehabilitation of countless underprivileged men, women and children until late in life. Father Baker died on July 29, 1936 in Lackawanna. Tens of thousands attended his wake service and funeral. On March 11, 1999, his earthly remains were moved from the cemetery into the basilica. Currently, OLV Basilica contains a museum and gift shop honoring Father Baker. It is a treasure for the local community and a valuable destination for anyone visiting the area.

In the summer of 1987, the Congregation for the Causes of the Saints approved the initiation of Father Baker’s cause and confirmed the title “Servant of God – Nelson Baker.” This is the first of four stages of being named a saint. The next is “Venerable” then “Blessed” and finally, “Saint.” On January 14, 2011, Pope Benedict XVI authorized the Congregation for the Causes of Saints to promulgate a decree recognizing Father Baker’s “heroic virtue,” a prerequisite for his eventual beatification. He is now to be considered “Venerable!”

In October 2008, this Vocation Website featured another Father Baker - Father David Baker. (See archived priests.) He is now serving as parochial vicar at Our Lady of Victory Basilica. As you can imagine, visitors to the Basilica are perplexed when it is announced on Sunday that the Mass will be said by Father Baker! After every Mass at OLV the following prayer is said for the canonization of Venerable Nelson H. Baker:

“Lord, you gave us Your Servant Nelson Baker as an example of service to the poor, homeless, and young. By Father Baker’s ardent concern for those in need, inflame our hearts and lives with compassion for the poor, justice for the oppressed, hope for the troubled, and courage to those in doubt. We pray through the intercession of Our Lady of Victory, if it be Your will, that Yo
ur servant, Nelson Baker, may one day be canonized.  Amen.”

January 2011 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. RICHARD SIEPKA

Father Richard Siepka describes himself as one of the last “Lifers” of the Diocese of Buffalo. By that he means that he was one of the last priests who began studying for the priesthood at the age of fourteen and stayed with it ever since.

After graduating from Resurrection School in Cheektowaga in 1970, Father Rich began his studies at the Buffalo Diocesan Preparatory Seminary. In 1974 he would be among the last class to graduate from that high school. After that it was on to Wadhams Hall Seminary College in Ogdensburg, NY. He graduated in 1978 but instead of following the path to priesthood locally, he decided to travel to Rome to continue his studies. He arrived the day before Pope John Paul I was installed. He and his classmates were thrilled to be there for the installation but were disappointed to have missed the election process. Little did he know that in a short time the opportunity would return. He attended the funeral of the first Pope John Paul and witnessed the election and installation of Pope John Paul II. In 1982, Fr. Rich was ordained to the priesthood at his home parish of Resurrection in Cheektowaga by then Bishop Edward Head. He then returned to The North American College in Rome for one more year and graduated in 1983.

His first assignment as a priest back in the United States was to St. Andrew’s Parish in Kenmore where he spent four years. He was then transferred to Christ the King Parish in Snyder. During his first year there, he noticed an opening advertised for a faculty position at Wadhams Hall Seminary-College in Ogdensburg. He enjoyed the time he had spent there as an undergraduate student and he also expressed a real love for parish life which led him to want to share that fondness with seminary students. Opportunities like that didn’t often occur so Father Rich applied and was accepted.

While at Wadhams Hall, Father Rich held various titles. In 1992, after the death of the President Rector of the college, Father Rich was appointed to that position. He stayed as Rector there until 1996 when he desired to return to the Buffalo area to be closer to his aging parents. He thought he’d be appointed to a parish but instead, then Bishop Mansell asked him to become Rector of Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora. Father Rich spent twelve years as Rector there and joked that God made up for the time he went to Rome to study instead of attending Christ the King Seminary.

In 2008, Father Rich was appointed pastor at St. Andrew’s Parish in Kenmore, the very same place he spent his first assignment as parochial vicar. He was happy to once again be a part of parish life. He finds that as a priest he really enjoys “being able to serve the people of God during the most significant moments in their lives.” He comforts them at the funerals of their loved ones, rejoices with them in the celebration of the Sacraments, and engages himself in the lives of the students at St. Andrew’s School.  Father Rich is also pleased to serve his family as he did when he recently baptized his great nephew.

The business end of the priesthood can sometimes present challenges. Most priests do not enter this vocation looking forward to dealing with administrative issues, but it’s all part of the ministry. Keeping the school running during difficult economic times can be unsettling but the benefits of having a school far outweigh the hassles.

Possibly stemming from his studies in Rome, traveling is one of the ways Father Rich likes to spend his time. He has been involved in running trips to various locations and really enjoys the opportunity to do so.

Recently, Father Rich interviewed Confirmation candidates from his parish and his advice to them is the same advice he would give to anyone considering the priesthood. “God has a calling for each and every person and his plan fits their person well. This plan is the best way to be the most fulfilled and happy.” Father Rich also feels that people should explore whatever occupation or vocation they feel called to. God doesn’t call people to lives where they are going to be miserable. God is always calling us to be the best people we can be. One shouldn’t consider where he will be the most successful or how he can make the most money but rather how he can best use the gifts and talents God gave him.
 
It’s hard for Father Rich to believe he’s been a priest for 28 years and that 20 of those years have been spent as faculty member or administrator of two seminaries. Being a priest is far from dull and boring. There are always new challenges and different opportunities around every corner. The time has passed so quickly for Father Rich because he has been following the plan God had for him all along. Looking back, he admits that at fourteen years old most people don’t know what they want to do for the rest of their lives. He recalls, “God led me along the right path and I listened to what He had to say. I’m glad I guessed right!”

December 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. RYSZARD BIERNAT

A native of Limanowa, Poland, Ryszard Biernat grew up on a farm the second youngest of nine siblings. As a boy, thoughts of the priesthood never entered his mind. His family was not overly religious. They attended Mass on the weekends and he went to religious education classes because all the Catholics in Poland did, but he didn’t get involved much beyond that. “Church in Poland is very different than it is here,” recalls Fr. Ryszard, “It’s very formal. You go to Mass in a suit and tie and there aren’t a lot of social things. The priests really don’t mingle with people, where here it seems the priests and bishops are more accessible to the people.”

He earned a degree in electrical engineering but reminisced, “I wasn’t sure what to do with my life. I was finishing school and I wasn’t sure where to go from there.” Little did he know at the time that God had big plans for his future and was about to let Ryszard in on those plans. At 20 years old, he recalled, “I went for a walk in the woods one night, kind of searching for some direction. That’s when I felt God’s presence. It’s hard to explain the experience in words, but it was very powerful – the most powerful experience I’ve ever had of God in my life. It certainly changed me and changed my path.” After that, thoughts of becoming a priest became stronger. He attended seminary in Poland for two years and explained, “Our bishop was encouraging us to look into other dioceses because our diocese in Tarnow had too many priests. That is why I chose to come to the United States.”

Ryszard arrived at SS. Cyril and Methodius Seminary in Orchard Lake, MI in 2002, a Polish seminary where both English and Polish were spoken. He stayed for two years and then transferred to Christ the King Seminary in the Buffalo Diocese. “Christ the King was challenging for me at first, mostly because I wasn’t used to reading and speaking in English exclusively. Getting used to the culture differences was tough as well. It helped that Christ the King was a smaller seminary, because I could get more individual attention, which was helpful, and because I could get to know everyone. When I started having American friends that I could socialize with and share experiences with was when I really started liking it here.”

While studying at Christ the King, he experienced a variety of parishes during the summers between semesters including St. Francis of Assisi in Tonawanda, St. Martin de Porres in Buffalo and St. Mary of the Angels in Olean. He spent his time as a transitional deacon at Our Lady of the Blessed Sacrament in Depew. He also served at the Franciscan Center in Buffalo, a temporary shelter for troubled young men, and participated in the Central City Practicum, a field education experience in social outreach on Buffalo’s East Side. He spent a month in silence one summer at a Trappist Abbey in South Carolina. “The silence was wonderful; it wasn’t hard at all for me. It gave me time to really re-examine my call to the priesthood, which I had never done to that degree before, so having that time to reflect on it really deepened my relationship with God.”

Fr. Ryszard was ordained to the priesthood August 8, 2009 by Bishop Edward Kmiec. After celebrating his first Mass at St. Francis of Assisi in Tonawanda and then another Mass at St. Mary of the Angels in Olean, he returned to Poland to celebrate Mass and enjoy a long awaited reunion with his family. His first assignment was as parochial vicar at Nativity of Our Lord Parish in Orchard Park. It was there that he had the opportunity to rekindle the hobby he enjoyed as a youth, beekeeping. When he was in sixth grade in Poland he saved some money and bought his first bee hive. He maintained it until he left for the U.S. in 2002 at which time his mother took over the responsibility. There was enough land at Nativity in the cemetery to set up a hive again, so Fr. Ryszard got right to it. He was transferred to St. Amelia’s Parish in Tonawanda on September 11, 2010. The bees remain in Orchard Park but Fr. Ryszard says he can still check on them when needed.

Besides beekeeping, Fr. Ryszard enjoys snowboarding, cross country skiing and rollerblading, all sports he picked up since he arrived in the United States. He also likes to keep in shape by lifting weights. The winters are long and he feels it’s best to find ways to enjoy them. He also owns a Yamaha motorcycle, something he always wanted to try and now really enjoys. Recently, he has decided to learn Latin and German. He is a man who likes to explore his many interests.

The celebration of the Eucharist is what he enjoys most about the priesthood. He notes without hesitation, “I feel most secure, most myself, most at peace right there behind the altar.” He finds that it can be challenging to deal with so many people who all have different expectations concerning their priests. One person likes humor in the homilies, another does not. Another thinks, “Why would I bother coming to Mass unless it’s going to last at least an hour?” while someone else wants Mass to last just fifteen minutes. Fr. Ryszard believes you can’t please everyone so you have to meet them where they are and go from there. He also finds the ministry places many demands on his time, however, it is all time well spent.

He encourages those considering priesthood to “give it a shot!” He feels that at some point you have to make up your mind so why not enter the seminary and give as much time to God as possible in discernment? The time spent at the seminary will never be wasted because you develop as a person so you don’t lose anything. He also feels that it is better to look into it than to always wonder if you should have.

Finally, Fr. Ryszard relates that he could have been happy doing a lot of things, beekeeper, farmer, chemist…but none of them would have been as fulfilling for his entire life as the priesthood.

November 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. CHARLES AMICO

I was born in Buffalo in 1928, the fifth of six children. My parents were immigrants from the Sicilian region of Italy. They were both very devout Catholics from the town of Mussomeli, well-known for its fervent Catholicism and as a nurturer of numerous priestly vocations.

Growing up in Holy Cross Parish on Buffalo's lower West Side, I became an altar server in fifth grade. I greatly admired the priests of the parish, especially Father (future Bishop) James Navagh, Father (future Monsignor) Joseph Schieder, Father (future Bishop) Pius Benincasa, and Father Raymond Bosch. What impressed me particularly was their happy spirit and how generously they treated us altar servers with parties, picnics, movies, and sports. Little wonder that more than a few of us boys decided to enter the Seminary.

At the time Holy Cross Parish had no parochial school but provided a thorough catechetical program, staffed by the dedicated Missionary Sisters of the Divine Child. Classes were held twice weekly for one hour right after a full day at the public school.

After sixth grade, I transferred to the St. Louis Parish parochial school. This meant walking a mile to and from school, even though I was only eleven years old. There were several of us doing this from Holy Cross Parish so it was no great chore. There, in grades seven and eight, I was taught by the equally dedicated Sisters of St. Joseph. The eighth grade teacher, Sister Gregory, was widely known for fostering priestly vocations.

At the age of thirteen, I began high school studies at the "Diocesan Preparatory Seminary" (then called the "Little Seminary of St. Joseph and the Little Flower"). There I spent four happy years of high school and one year of college. We were given an excellent education, integrated with athletics and many other activities. The staff of priests was exemplary.

In 1946, shortly after World War II, at the age of eighteen I was sent with two classmates to Rome at the Urban College (Seminary) of Propaganda Fide for seven years leading to priestly ordination. The Seminary is located on a hill facing the Vatican. From my window I could see St. Peter's Basilica and late into the night the light in the window of Pope Pius XII.

The seminarians were from about thirty-five countries - all living together as brothers. The superiors couldn't do enough to provide a genial atmosphere. These were among the happiest years of my life.

Of course, from Rome I enjoyed occasional visits to my parents' birthplace in Sicily where I met my grandmther - in her upper nineties - and other close relatives. This proved to be a very important influence in my life, retracing my roots and discovering how deeply religious they were.

I was ordained a priest in Rome on December 21, 1952. I celebrated my first Solemn Mass in Mussomeli on Christmas Day. The day before, the whole population of twelve thousand turned out to greet the "new priest." If the Pope himself had visited the town, the reception could not have been more solemn.

Upon my return to Buffalo, I served in three parishes over five years before being sent once more to Rome, this time for two years leading to a doctorate in theology in 1960. These were especially exciting times, coinciding with the first two years of the pontificate of the charismatic John XXIII.

Returning to Buffalo in 1960, I began teaching in various seminaries: the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary, St. John Vianney Seminary in East Aurora, and various places abroad. Since 1990 I've been a theology professor at Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora.

At the age of eighty-two, I look back over fifty-eight years of priesthood with gratitude to God for the grace of achieving not only one but both of my boyhood dreams - to be a priest and to be a teacher.

October 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. JERRY SULLIVAN

Father Jerry with great-nephew, Jacob

W. Jerome Sullivan was born to the family of a traveling salesman and along with his older sister and two younger brothers, moved five times before the age of nine. His father worked as a pharmaceutical salesman covering a large area of New York State. Finally settling in Williamsville, Jerry was influenced by Msgr. George Zimpfer, a pastor of great vision at SS. Peter & Paul Church, who built a strong Christian community and was in many ways ahead of his time.

The Catholic faith and music, always present in his home, were very instrumental in forming young Jerry. His mother, Gertrude, a teacher, served as organist and choir director at their home parish, St. Felix in Clifton Springs, NY. His father, William, a natural salesman, was successful because he cared for all he encountered on his routes. As he got older, Jerry would travel with his father during the summer months to help with the driving. He remembers that his father knew the daily Mass schedule for all the areas he visited and made good use of it. This attention to faith undoubtedly influenced Jerry’s future vocation choice. The Sullivan home was often the gathering place for the entire neighborhood, hosting daily softball games during the summer months.

When he was 14 years old and in the eighth grade, Jerry’s teacher asked the class if anyone was interested in taking the entrance exam for the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary. Young Jerry’s hand went up. His friends were a little surprised but he felt it was something he really wanted to do. After six years there, the future Fr. Sullivan completed his college education at St. Bernard’s in Rochester in 1958. He was then assigned to the North American College in Rome to begin theological studies at the Pontifical Gregorian University. He was ordained to the priesthood on December 20, 1961 at St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome. Not long after, in 1962, he received his Licentiate in Sacred Theology.

He then returned to the Diocese of Buffalo and began his ministry in the missionary apostolate at St. John Fisher Parish in South Dayton. Within a short period of time he was asked to return again to Rome to continue his studies. In 1966 Fr. Jerry earned his Doctorate in Church Law from the Lateran University in Rome. It was exciting for him as a young priest to be in Rome while the Second Vatican Council was in session. Returning once again to Buffalo, he served as Assistant Chancellor for the diocese putting to good use his Doctorate in Canon Law. He had a real desire to work with the poor, so in 1969 Fr. Jerry began twenty-one years of urban ministry in parishes, first as a parochial vicar at Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Buffalo until 1974, then as administrator of Queen of All Saints in Lackawanna until 1980, along with Assumption in Lackawanna until 1977, and as pastor of St. Mary of Sorrows in Buffalo from 1980 until 1990. He was given the title Monsignor in 1988 and served as Vicar for Central City from 1987 to 1988. While serving in the city, Fr. Jerry encouraged neighbors to come together and organize themselves uniting for such issues as municipal housing tenants’ rights, a just share of government presence and funding, equal opportunities for minorities throughout the area, in short, advocacy for those whose voices needed to be heard. He also enjoyed singing with the Central City Choir. His time spent in urban parishes was a blessing not only to the people he served but to himself as well. He said, “I originally came into Central City that the poor might hear the Gospel. I realized more each day that it was most often the poor who lived the Gospel and made it clearer for me.”

From 1990 to 2007 he served as Pastor of St. Mary of the Lake Parish in Hamburg. He successfully led the growth of that parish in the building of a new church facility. During his time as pastor, he also served as Coordinator of the Priests’ Personnel Board from 2003 to 2009. He served on the boards of Catholic Central School, Christ the King Seminary, and Immaculata Academy. In other service, he has been on the Diocesan Review Board since 2005, a Consultor for the Diocese of Buffalo since 2006, as well as Bishop’s Liaison for Retired Priests, positions he presently holds. He served in various other capacities during his priesthood, too many to name here. He was also honored at the Cure of Ars in 2004.

Family has always been important to Fr. Jerry. They are mostly concentrated in the Depew and Rochester areas and his brothers and sister have brought the joy of thirteen nieces and nephews and twenty-three great-nieces and nephews into his life. He also enjoys being involved in the continuing formation of priests. During his time in the Chancellery when he didn’t have the benefit of a parish, the well-being of his brother priests became a focus.

The early exposure to music as a child with his mother’s influence and later as an adult with the influence of his talented brothers and sister, continues to be a source of enjoyment for Fr. Jerry. His favorite kind of music is jazz and classical. He also enjoys sports, especially baseball and golf, reading, in the areas of religion and history, and he loves to travel – especially by car. Maybe because of all that time spent with his father along the sales route, he exclaimed, “I love to drive!”

Working with the poor in the inner city really helped Fr. Jerry feel closer to Jesus. When he reflects on the best part of being a priest, he remembers spending time with people who had so little and yet loved God so much. They had no place else to go but to God and it was God who saw them through. Praying and singing with them during the celebration of the Eucharist at Mass was a very powerful experience. There were also times when Fr. Jerry found himself with people who were at the lowest points in their lives because of tragic events. Seeing parents grieving over the loss of a young son, yet still strong in their faith, gave Fr. Jerry a renewed sense of his own faith. He remembers in so many cases feeling privileged to share in these times and, “being grateful that God had intervened” in situations that seemed impossible to survive. “Blessed are the poor…” takes on a whole new meaning. He recalled, “You’re so close you can touch God’s grace.”

The challenges of priesthood, for Fr. Jerry, involve stressful times such as the building of a new church when it doesn’t seem financially attainable and having to take action when people use poor judgment and need to be corrected. It is often difficult to unite opposing groups of people who have to learn to get along or deal with administrative paperwork that seem endless.

Of course every vocation has its challenges – married, single or religious life. Fr. Jerry asks men considering the priesthood, “Why not go for it?” It’s hard to know what the ministry of a newly ordained priest will look like in the future but when Fr. Jerry began in the early 1960’s during the start of Vatican II the future was uncertain then as well. He recalls the words to an old hymn, “We’ve come this far in faith, leaning on the Lord” and feels that if we trust in God, there is nothing to fear. Fr. Jerry exclaims that through it all his priesthood has been a most rewarding time.

September 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. JAMES WAITE

Father James Waite is the Pastor of St. John the Baptist Parish in Lockport. Fr. Waite grew up in Buffalo at All Saints Parish. He is a graduate of St. Joseph Collegiate Institute and Canisius College. Before he was ordained to the priesthood, he was an Instructor of General Education and Chair of the Graphic Design and General Education Departments at Platt College in Newport Beach, CA. He graduated from Christ the King Seminary with a Master of Divinity Degree. After his ordination in 2004, he served as a parochial vicar at Fourteen Holy Helpers Parish in West Seneca and at St. Gabriel’s Parish in Elma. Fr. James is a member of the Diocesan Committee for the Continuing Formation of Priests.

“I became interested in priesthood as a child. My grandfather was kind of a hero to me because he could fix anything and was very wise. When he died, I was ten years old. I remember attending his funeral and thinking, ‘I wonder if he accomplished what he had hoped to in his life.’ I began thinking about what kind of a difference I could make in my own life and reasoned that being a priest would be a great way to serve God and others.

I continued thinking about priesthood through high school and at Canisius College. While in college, I was in a pre-theology program run by the Diocese at the former John Paul II Residence. I went to Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora for a semester and then decided I needed to give the idea of priesthood a rest. I wanted to see what else I might do in my life, so I moved to California and went to school for Graphic Design. I still enjoy computers and design today and do not feel at all that those years were wasted. I had a great time serving on the faculty of Platt College. The school hired me to teach General Education courses and teaching is still a great love of mine. In the past year, I have served as an adjunct Lecturer for Christ the King Seminary in their Continuing Education Department.”

While in California, a friend from Buffalo came to visit James and their conversation turned to his interest in the priesthood. James showed his friend the nice car he had, the nice income, the nice California weather…but somehow it all seemed hollow to him at that point. He knew in his heart that God still wanted him to be a priest.

“In a leap of faith, I called the Diocese of Buffalo Vocation Office and asked if I could resume my formation towards priesthood. I was re-accepted at the Seminary and reconnected to my beloved Western New York.

In my career as a priest, I have always promoted technology as a way to evangelize. When the position of pastor for St. John the Baptist was announced, the parishioners said they were looking for several qualities in a pastor: someone with energy and fresh ideas, a priest who could preach well, and a priest who could bring the parish into the twenty-first century. Those are still the goals I have for myself in shepherding the parish.”

August 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. F. PATRICK MELFI

The idea of becoming a priest wasn’t even on the radar when Francis Patrick Melfi was a young boy. The youngest in the family of seven, he grew up in Olean with three sisters and three brothers. “I was an altar server growing up but can’t say I was a model altar server,” recalls Fr. Pat. After high school he spent four years in the Navy. During those four years he remained close to his Catholic Faith. Fortunately for him, there were Marines aboard the ship he was on and typically a priest was assigned to the Marines. When they were out to sea the priest would say Mass every day and Pat would make it a priority to attend. Going to Mass helped him feel connected to home which was a comfort when dealing with being so far away.

Thoughts of the priesthood began to surface after the Navy when he deliberated about what to do next. At the time he was living in Richmond, VA attending college. He felt close to the Franciscans having been baptized by a family friend who was a Franciscan and growing up in Olean so close to St. Bonaventure University. He went to Washington, DC to speak to friars from a branch of the Franciscans called the Capuchins. They sent him to Cleveland to learn more about their order but that didn’t seem to feel right to him at the time. Pat returned to school and graduated with a degree in Mathematics. He took a few education courses before graduation so that he could teach math but never really felt “on fire” enough about the subject to do it justice in the classroom.

Whenever he visited home, he would attend Mass and speak with the parish priest. The priest asked Pat if he had ever considered the priesthood and encouraged him to give it another try. This time, Pat looked into the diocesan priesthood. He moved into the John Paul II Residence in order to more seriously discern the possibility of this vocation. While there, he attended classes at Canisius College to fulfill Philosophy and Religious Study requirements. It was a valuable year spent there but after it was over he didn’t feel called to enter the seminary.

After obtaining a degree in Civil Engineering, Pat went to work for the State of New York as an engineer designing bridges. During his years with the State, Pat found the job rewarding in the sense he was able to make a contribution to his community. He always remained close to his faith, becoming involved in various ministries at his parish and keeping in touch with priest friends he had made.

A defining moment came in the 2000 Jubilee Year, when he and a friend from work decided to make a pilgrimage to the Holy Land. It was led by three Dominican Priests and included a trip to Rome as well. Fr. Pat remembers that while in the Holy Land the Bible “came alive” because he was walking in the very places Jesus walked when he taught and preached. Rome was very inspiring as well and it was on this pilgrimage that he began to think, “Yeah, I could do this!” About the time he returned, Catholic radio was entering the air waves and he found himself listening and learning more about his faith. Another co-worker had mentioned about becoming a minister and Pat thought, “Me too!”

In 2001 he made the call to Fr. Leon Biernat who then was the Vocation Director for the Buffalo Diocese. In May 2001 he ran into Fr. Joe Gatto whom he knew from the John Paul II Residence and told him he was thinking about entering Christ the King Seminary. Fr. Joe said, “Well…what are you waiting for???” Pat had the small matter of a house to sell and a job to put on hold. He would need to enter the seminary in August which gave him only three months to sell his house. It seemed that the right time had finally come as he signed the contract for the sale of the house the day he headed out to the seminary.

As he looks back, Fr. Pat remembers feeling God was always there with him. He credits his faith to his father. After dinner and the chores were finished, his father would often sit and read the New Testament with Pat. His father would explain anything that seemed hard to understand in an effort to endear his son to the Word of God.

When he entered Christ the King Seminary there were eleven other men in his class. As time went by, a few left, got sick, entered other dioceses, etc. and by the time he was ordained on May 27, 2006, there was only one other priest ordained with him, Fr. Todd Remick. Fr. Pat remembers feeling overwhelmed in a good sense. He was really touched by it all especially when the other priests in attendance approached for the “laying on of hands” during which they prayed over him. He felt a special bond with his fellow brothers in Christ.

Fr. Pat spent the first three years of his priesthood as a parochial vicar at St. Christopher in Tonawanda and was named to his current position of Pastor of Our Lady of Peace in Salamanca and St. Patrick in Limestone in 2009. As a priest, Fr. F. Patrick Melfi finds it a privilege to be with people in their time of need. In situations of bereavement he feels it is not always easy to know what to say but just being there helps to comfort people. He very much enjoys celebrating the Eucharist and bringing people together as well. He finds it challenging to be a pastor after only three years of priesthood, but with the challenge comes the sense of bringing people closer to God. Fr. Pat also mentioned the administrative end of being a pastor can be challenging as decisions have to be made that affect the whole parish.

Fr. Pat enjoys exercising and reading as well as golfing and keeping up friendships with fellow priests and others. He advises those considering priesthood to be open to the idea and to allow themselves the opportunity to explore it. Listen to the advice of people you trust and don’t just rely on what you are thinking and feeling at the time. There will always be challenges no matter what vocation you choose in life. Rely on your faith and take the time to find out what God intends for you. As he reflects back on all the starts and stops along his way to the priesthood, Fr. Pat feels that he really can’t see himself doing anything else.

July 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. PETER J. KARALUS

Celebrating Mass at Our Lady of Knock, Ireland - May 2010

When God calls a man to the priesthood, it often begins as just a whisper. In order to hear and respond to God’s call, it helps if the conditions of his life enable him to do so. When Fr. Peter Karalus was growing up, St. John Kanty Parish in Buffalo was not merely some place his family visited for an hour on Sundays; it was like a second home. His parents were very involved in the life of the parish, as was Peter and his two older sisters. All three children attended elementary school there and Peter was an altar server. He remembers well feeling very comfortable anywhere on the parish grounds, even sliding down the banister of the rectory staircase as a young first grader while his family spent time visiting the priests. Fr. Mark Wolski grew up with Fr. Peter’s mother and Fr. Peter remembers priests always being around in his life. When he entered the seminary, friends and relatives mentioned that they “told him so” when he was younger. They knew he would make a good priest and they often encouraged him in that direction. Finally, he was making good on their prediction. It brings a smile to his face to think that on his ordination day his picture was taken at the top of the rectory staircase…a place he knew well!

After graduating from St. John Kanty Elementary School, Peter followed in his sisters’ footsteps to St. Mary’s High School in Lancaster. Many of his classmates did the same as the Metro Bus made it easily accessible. He graduated in 1987 and went on to study at the University at Buffalo. At first he thought he might like to be an engineer but by Thanksgiving of his freshman year he came to realize that very few engineering students had developed a sense of humor and he couldn’t see himself working with them for the rest of his life. So he changed his major to Art History and graduated in 1991 with a Bachelor of Arts. He specialized in Museum Studies and wanted to work in a museum using art as a way to teach.

During the summer of 1989, Peter spent time studying at Richmond College in London, England. He was awarded the Evelyn Rumsey Lord Fellowship in 1990 which stipulated that he study in a country whose language he did not speak. He spent time in Eastern and Western Europe just after the fall of the Berlin Wall and had his first real experience of the Catholic Church as Universal. While attending Mass in Budapest, he felt connected to home as he was comforted by the ebb and flow of things while not understanding much of what was being said. It was then that he began to seriously address the issue of becoming a priest.

In 1996 Peter earned a Master of Divinity from Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora. While studying Theology and Church History at the seminary, Peter felt especially prepared because of all the visual aids he had accumulated in his Art History classes pertaining to the Church. He was ordained a Transitional Deacon that same year and on May 17, 1997 was ordained to the priesthood. There were six men ordained that day. It was the biggest group the Diocese of Buffalo had seen in a long time and remains the largest group to be ordained together to this day. Fr. Peter remembers feeling like they were brothers in Priesthood journeying together. They tried to stagger their first Masses and receptions so that they could attend each others events and celebrate together. With family in town staying at his parents’ house, Fr. Peter decided to spend the night before ordination at St. Joseph’s Cathedral. He remembers the long walk down the aisle of the packed cathedral as they processed in and the cold floor as they lay prostrate. He profoundly recalls the Laying on of Hands when he felt, as he put it, “the infusing of the spirit of ordination flowing through the hands of the bishop and his brother priests.”
Fr. Peter spent his year of Diaconate and his first year as a priest at St. Joseph & St. Mary’s Parishes now called Holy Family in Albion. He was then assigned as Parochial Vicar at St. Gabriel Parish in Elma from July 1998 to December 2003. Bishop Henry Mansell, who ordained Fr. Peter, then named him administrator of St. Martin Parish in Langford, St. Mary Parish in New Oregon and St. Frances Cabrini Parish in Collins Center from December 2003 to February of 2006 at which time Bishop Kmiec named him Pastor of the three churches. Along came the Journey in Faith and Grace and the three parishes merged into one at the Langford site called Epiphany of Our Lord. Fr. Peter is currently the pastor there.

In addition to his responsibilities in Langford, Fr. Peter continues on the Council of Priests, a position he has held since June of 2005. He is currently the secretary of that group as well as a delegate to the Priests’ Council of New York State. For four years he has been on the College of Consultors in the Diocese of Buffalo and has been the Episcopal Vicar of the Tri-County Vicariate since September 2009.

Fr. Peter serves on the Board of Trustees at St. Mary’s High School in Lancaster, his alma mater. He also serves as the Coordinator for the Diocesan Delegation to the Summer High School Youth Conferences at the Franciscan University of Steubenville in Ohio and has done so since 1999. One of Fr. Peter’s great gifts is working with and inspiring young people. He has served as World Youth Day Coordinator for groups in the Buffalo area and has accompanied delegations to Paris, France in 1997, Toronto, Canada in 2002, Cologne, Germany in 2005 and is looking forward to Madrid, Spain in 2011. He is thrilled to be able to combine his love of traveling with inspiring the youth of the Diocese of Buffalo to be proud of their Catholic Faith.

Besides traveling, Fr. Peter enjoys photography, swimming, biking, reading and of course, the arts – both visual and performing. He spends time whenever he can with his family. His two sisters each have two daughters and keeping up with all the events and celebrations connected to his family fills what little room is left in his schedule.

Fr. Peter finds the celebration of the Eucharist to be “the most amazing thing I do every day.” Standing in the person of Christ and being able to be the instrument the Lord is using to feed his people, forgive sins, lead people to marriage, welcome their children through the waters of Baptism, and send their loved ones home to the Lord when their earthly lives have ended is totally exhilarating, totally exhausting and totally what ordination is all about. His priesthood is not just for him, it is for him and his community. He has enjoyed every community he has had the pleasure to serve; all have graciously welcomed him and even made his family feel as if they belonged.

“It’s not all a bed of roses, though”, admits Fr. Peter. The schedule of a priest can be really challenging. “There are challenges across the board and you have to keep reminding yourself and others that you’re only one person and you can’t do it all.” It’s difficult to address all issues in a timely manner. Another difficult aspect of the priesthood is dealing with tragedy. When people are going through a tough time they often look to their priest for answers. Fr. Peter admits he doesn’t have all the answers, no one really does. He feels that even if he can’t give answers, at least he can provide a sense of comfort just by being there for them.

When Fr. Peter entered the seminary, he recalls the priest who was the parochial vicar in his parish while he was growing up telling him, “It’s a wonderful life!” Fr. Peter stresses that priesthood, like life in general, is what you make of it. Men considering priesthood should ask themselves what gifts they have that they can bring to their priesthood. A priest needs to be joyful and happy and show this to the world. It is a privilege to be a priest, admits Fr. Peter but if you think you are going to be privileged as a priest then you are in it for the wrong reasons. He feels that, “nothing great comes easy.” God calls but He does not do all the work. The men who respond have to do their part as well. Jesus called certain men to be his disciples. They had their specific gifts and talents but they had their flaws as well just like those who are called to the priesthood today. It’s good to be open and to let your vocation unfold with a joyful spirit.  A sense of humor is important. You have to be able to laugh. God gave us this life, it is a gift and He wants us to enjoy it all while loving and serving Him. A man who entered the seminary once told Fr. Peter that it was at World Youth Day in Germany when Fr. Peter was asking him to be involved in a powerful evening of prayer and music with people from many nations that he felt called to serve God as a priest. Once again, the Universal Church setting was inspiring a vocation to the priesthood and this time Fr. Peter was the instrument God was using to inspire someone else.

June 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. GREGORY FAULHABER

We are blessed to have Christ the King Seminary here in the Diocese of Buffalo. Not every diocese can boast a major seminary in their midst. Christ the King Seminary is a place where seminarians study to become priests, lay people come to take classes, earn degrees, go on retreats, and have all kinds of other gatherings. Father Greg Faulhaber is currently the Vice-Rector, the Director of Formation, and Professor of Moral Theology at Christ the King Seminary. He remembers feeling called to the priesthood at an early age. He said, “It was the only vocation that I ever pursued seriously.” When asked why he wanted to be an altar server in the sixth grade, he responded that he was interested in becoming a priest and that was the path he pursued.

On October 14, 1953 Joseph and Mary Faulhaber welcomed Gregory into their family. He was the third of eight children in a family whose roots were deep in Lancaster, going back to at least 1850! After graduating from St Mary’s Elementary School, Greg entered the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary in Buffalo in an effort to continue on the road to priesthood and graduated from there in 1971. He decided not to go onto the undergraduate seminary at Wadhams Hall in Ogdensburg which would have been the next step. At the time his father was not well and he wanted to stay closer to home. Somewhere in the back of his mind he also felt that maybe he should slow down on this trek to the priesthood just in case it wasn’t really for him. Looking back on those years he spent at Canisius College, he felt they did a lot to confirm his vocation to the priesthood. Greg continued playing basketball and baseball, sports he loved in high school, sang in the folk group, worked as a janitor, dated, and taught 9th grade religious education. It was the time spent teaching religion and working with the students and other teachers outside of the classroom, coaching sports, doing retreats, going on bike hikes, etc. that most solidified his decision to become a priest. He graduated from Canisius in 1975 with a BA in Math and German and then entered Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora where he graduated in May of 1979 with a Masters in Theology.

Ordained a Transitional Deacon on October 28, 1978, Rev. Mr. Greg Faulhaber was assigned as a Deacon Intern at St. Gregory the Great Parish in Amherst from May 1978 to October 1979. When he began at St. Greg’s, there was no youth group and he was asked to help start one. There were 100 young people at his first meeting and the St. Greg’s youth group is still going strong to this day.

On October 19, 1979 Father Greg was ordained to the priesthood at St. Joseph’s Cathedral by Bishop Edward Head. He said his first Mass at his home parish of St. Mary in Lancaster two days later on October 21. His first assignment as a priest was to St. Barnabas Parish in Depew where he again hit the ground running. They were in immediate need of a Director of Religious Education for the 1500 students at the parish and Father Greg arrived just in time. He spent six years at St. Barnabas and was then re-assigned in November 1985 to St. Amelia Parish in Tonawanda. At both St. Barnabas and St. Amelia, Father Greg enjoyed sharing his love of sports as well as the Catholic Faith with the young parishioners.

He moved on, once again, in August 1989 to become Campus Minister and Director of the Newman Center at the University of Buffalo, South Campus. He noticed that there were quite a few students attending Mass at St. Joseph Church near the campus and became involved in the process of merging the Newman Center and the Church. The result: St. Joseph-University Parish. Father Greg was there for one year when the bishop called because the Franciscans ended their administration of Christ the King Seminary. He asked Father Greg if he would consider going back to school to study Moral Theology so he could eventually teach at the seminary. He agreed because he felt that, “This institution is so important for the diocese and the future!” and began studies in September 1990 at the Catholic University of Louvain, Belgium.

While studying in Europe, he continued to engage in youth ministry in Germany, Holland, and Belgium. He held retreats and became involved in parishes, military bases, and campus ministry whenever he could work it out amidst his studies. He graduated in June 1994 with a PhD in Moral Theology and began teaching full time at Christ the King Seminary in August 1994.

Besides teaching and directing the formation of seminarians at Christ the King, Father Greg helps out as a regular weekend associate priest at his home parish of St. Mary in Lancaster, along with assisting at a number of other local parishes. He also has given over 100 presentations to various groups, organizations, confirmation classes, etc. and has been a member of many advisory boards and committees as well as an advocate and defender of the bond on the Marriage Tribunal. He has had several pamphlets and articles published as well as a book titled
Politics, Law and the Church – An Examination of the Relationship Between Catholicism and American Law.

Father Greg enjoys sharing who God is with people at important moments in their lives. He loves participating in all the things he does as a priest at the seminary and at various parishes throughout the diocese whenever they ask for help. He enjoys several sports and has a real knack for tinkering with all types of machinery. He still gets together with his ordination classmates once a month for lunch or dinner and they always celebrate the anniversary of their ordination with a Mass and dinner with their parents. The big anniversaries are celebrated with a larger group of family and friends.

Father Greg’s family had a great deal of influence on his decision to answer “yes” to the call to priesthood. When he was growing up his family lived next door to his cousins. He remembers playing with a favorite cousin who was the same age as he. This cousin died very young and Father Greg remembers the wake being in the family home. He also remembers feeling very strongly that death is not an end. The opportunity to encourage others beyond their grief was a strong motivation on his journey to the priesthood. His family prayed the rosary together and their faith was strong. They had a baseball diamond in the back yard and Father Greg recalls that their house was where the neighborhood convened to play baseball almost every day during the summer and football under the lights at night in the fall.

Father Greg’s brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews and other relatives still get together just about every Sunday. “They are an important part of who I am,” states Father Greg. Even in high school and college he babysat, changed diapers, coached their sports teams, attended events they were involved in, and much more. He was the celebrant at his younger sibling’s weddings and has always been closely connected to all of them. They worked, played, and prayed together. During the 1990s he was on a town league fast-pitch softball team with his four brothers and oldest nephew with most of the team being made up of relatives.
 
Because of his unique position at the seminary, one of Father Greg’s greatest challenges involves evaluating the seminarians. He feels it is difficult to confront people about unpleasant issues. However, difficult as it is, it has to be done. Father Greg observed that sometimes one bad priest can do more damage than three or four good priests making a positive contribution. Ultimately though, he realizes that he is never alone in his work. In observing the importance of working with God and following in His ways, Father Greg mentioned his favorite Psalm, Psalm 127, “Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build.”

When Father Greg finds himself speaking to seminarians or future seminarians, he advises them to pursue their hearts and desires and to find what energizes them. Not everything is always exciting in the priesthood. There are hard times as well but if a man is not interested in the things a priest does, priesthood is probably not for him. It is not a place to run from life, rather, a priest has to embrace life maybe even more than others.

May 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. RON SAJDAK

Sometimes what looks like a detour in a person’s life actually ends up being part of God’s plan all along. Fr. Ron Sajdak’s road to the priesthood seemed to take a detour away from a religious order vocation to a secular life of serving the poor, only to end up back on a different road to a diocesan priesthood vocation.

Born and raised in Sloan, NY near Cheektowaga, Ronald Sajdak was the youngest of four children. He attended St. Andrew Grade School and credits his experience there as having influenced him greatly in his desire to become a priest. As early as the second grade he felt called to the priesthood.

After graduating from John F. Kennedy High School, he entered Wadhams Hall Seminary College in Ogdensburg, eager to continue on that road to the priesthood. During his junior year of college he attended a retreat at a Carmelite Monastery. At that retreat he felt a strong sense of belonging even though he had no knowledge of what they were all about. He attended another retreat a year later and came to the conclusion after hearing a talk about the “Thirst for God” that he needed to spend more time developing a better relationship with Jesus Christ before moving forward towards ordination. He really wanted to slow down and get to know the Lord better, so instead of going to Christ the King Seminary to continue his studies for diocesan priesthood, he applied to the Carmelite Monastery with the intention of becoming a religious order priest.


In 1977 he left Buffalo and moved to Boston, MA where he entered the community and spent two years as a novice. After professing his simple vows, he relocated to a monastery in Washington, DC where he began graduate studies at the Catholic University of America. In 1983 Ron felt that his need for contemplation and time spent seeking a deeper relationship with God had been met and what he needed now was a little “reality therapy.” He decided to leave the religious community but continued to live in Washington for the next ten years.

He worked with the homeless poor at S.O.M.E. (So Others Might Eat) and also as the Director of Religious Education and Worship at the Church of Our Lady of Sorrows in Tacoma Park, MD. While at Our Lady of Sorrows, he began a vibrant Youth Ministry Program reaching out to immigrant African, Haitian, and Island Youth. He also promoted Multi-Cultural/Multi-Lingual Events and Celebrations. In May of 1989 he attained a Masters in Theological Studies from Washington Theological Union Seminary.

In 1990, while listening to an African American priest preach during Mass one Sunday at a “Rejoice” Conference for African American Catholic Gospel Musicians held at Howard University, Ron felt God asking him why he was sitting there in the congregation when God needed him up front doing what the priest was doing.  At first he thought, “Been there, done that!” but in time he continued to feel God calling and decided to give the priesthood another look.


The thought of returning to Buffalo, after being away so long, made him a bit uneasy. He had grown so much in the time he had been away. He felt that if he returned, he might not be welcomed back and some may treat him as if he were still the boy who left so long ago. In a dream he saw his deceased father with his arms opened telling him, “Never be afraid to come home.” It was a difficult decision to make as Ron loved the work he was doing and the friends he had made but he remembers thinking, “God, if you haven’t already given away what you wanted me to do, I’m ready now.” He applied to Christ the King Seminary and upon being accepted decided to return home.

In May of 1995 he earned a Master of Arts in Pastoral Ministry degree from Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora. He was ordained a Transitional Deacon on June 24th, 1995 by Bishop Henry Mansell and ordained to the priesthood by Bishop Mansell on May 4th, 1996.

He spent time as a deacon and also his first year of priesthood at St. John the Evangelist in Buffalo. He was then assigned to St. Bernadette in Orchard Park from August 1997 to July 2002. Fr. Ron became pastor of St. Martin de Porres in the city of Buffalo in July 2002 and that is where he currently resides.


Fr. Ron has held several positions throughout the diocese in conjunction with his desire for peaceful relationships among all God’s people. He was Programs Director of the South Buffalo Ecumenical Association from 1995 to 1997, a member of the Hamburg Association of Churches and the Hamburg Ministerium from 1997-2001, reorganized the Justice and Peace Committee at St. Bernadette Parish in 1998, was a board member of the Interfaith Hospitality Network of Greater Buffalo (IHN) 1998-2002, and has been chaplain for the Buffalo Catholic Worker from 1997 to the present.

While he was serving as parochial vicar at St. Bernadette, he was led by the Spirit to minister to African refugees arriving in Buffalo and formed what now is known as ROTA: Reaching Out 2 Africa. Over the years, this ministry has helped African refugees from Sudan locally with humanitarian assistance, welcomed and assisted African clergy, and has worked internationally.

Through his years as Pastor of St. Martin de Porres, the church community has welcomed three African Bishops to visit Buffalo, participated in digging a clean-water well, and the building of a young women’s dormitory at the St. Charles Lwanga Butende Technical Institute in Uganda. In April of 2009 Fr. Ron returned from a mission trip to Sudan Africa where he and “Lost Boy of Sudan,” Fidele Diing Dhan broke ground for a new medical clinic in the Village of Koiyom, Aweil State, Southern Sudan. Bishop Edward Kmiec has also appointed Fr. Ron Chairman of the Justice & Peace Commission of the Diocese of Buffalo in 2004, the Clergy Personnel Board in January 2010 and most recently, Director of the Pontifical Mission Society/Buffalo in March 2010.

Had it not been for the “detour” he took on his road to the priesthood serving the poor in Washington, Fr. Ron might not have been inspired to “reach out” as he has to such a vast global community.


Having been ordained for 14 years, Fr. Ron feels that there are many aspects of the priesthood he enjoys. At the top of the list of his Sacramental joys is the Eucharist. He also very much appreciates the beauty of “Laying on of Hands.” Fr. Ron loves to watch God work in healing ministry. On Sunday morning, the 9:30am Mass at St. Martin de Porres is vibrant and spiritual as is the congregation. There are no missals in the pews; instead you’ll see bibles. The chapter and verse of each reading is announced and the congregation is encouraged to go directly to the bible to find it.

The challenges in Fr. Ron’s life include the re-visioning of priesthood in light of the shortage of priests. Because of the way the world has changed, priests are now being challenged to pastor in new and creative ways to more people. His experiences have led Fr. Ron to look at the way he pastors from a more “missionary” point of view. Lay people are becoming more involved in parish life out of pure necessity. They have a deep respect for the Sacrament of Priesthood in that they recognize that the priest is the only one who can bring us the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. Everyone has a role to play in sustaining parish life and now parishioners are being called upon to do their part. Fr. Ron feels that people need to take ownership of their Faith and participating in parish life is the best way to do that. Ultimately, God is in charge!

When he gets time for himself, Fr. Ron likes to read and enjoys seeing movies. He has a real love for live Jazz music. He and his brothers and sister take turns caring for their mother who is in a nursing home. He has an incredible love for the Lord and he feels anyone considering priesthood should share this feeling as well. “You can’t be a priest because of what a priest does, you have to want to be a priest because of who a priest is,” asserts Fr. Ron. Men considering priesthood should have a deep prayer life and should constantly be praying for a better prayer life. They should pray to know God better, pray for Him to reveal Himself more clearly, and to let them know what He wants of them.
 
Fr. Ron thinks the best way to weather the sacrifices you are called to make as a priest is to have a personal relationship with God. It’s about making the distinction between doing the things we want to do and doing the things we are called to do. If you’re only doing the things you want to do, you’ll be doing them alone. If you do the things you feel called to do, you will surely be doing them with God.

April 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. MARK NOONAN

While there is no typical "road to the priesthood" story, some involve more miles than others. The journey of Fr. Mark Noonan is both extraordinary and inspiring and the road he followed was filled with twists and turns winding through Belize in Latin America and Rome, Italy before returning back to the Western New York area.

One of eight children, Mark Noonan grew up with five sisters and two brothers in Cheektowaga, NY. His family belonged to St. Aloysius Gonzaga Parish in Cheektowaga and he attended school there for grades K-8. He went to St. Joseph’s Collegiate Institute for high school and graduated in 1994. In 1998 he graduated from the University at Buffalo with a dual degree in Political Science and Philosophy.

As a child, he thought of becoming a priest. This, he believes, was a consideration of many young Catholic boys at the time. Around the age of 14 or 15 years, young Mark’s thoughts tended away from the priesthood and towards girls. During those years he played music and sang at church on Sunday with a group of guys he grew up with, which he credits with keeping him close to God. In high school and college he dated a lot but never quite found the girl he was looking for. After graduating from UB, Mark decided to try law school. He entered Cleveland-Marshall Law School right after college but would end up spending only one year there. Although he was quite successful as a student, God had other plans. When one opens himself up to the will of God, one must be ready to change course mid-stream.

While living in Cleveland, Mark joined a Catholic young adult group and found himself attracted to one of the girls in that group - a beautiful, happy, and deeply committed Catholic; just the type of person he thought could be the one for him. Some people mentioned that she attended Perpetual Adoration at the church they belonged to. They advised Mark that she usually showed up later in the evening to pray. Thinking he would run into her there, he began to go to that chapel late in the evening in hopes of meeting her, even though he did not yet believe that Christ was truly present in the Eucharist. However, every time he went there with hope of meeting her, she was not there. As time passed, and he spent many late nights praying in that chapel, he really began to grow in faith. The more time he spent in that Adoration Chapel, the less he came in hope of finding the girl and the more he began to believe that Christ was truly present before him in the Eucharist.

Just after Easter, during his second semester at law school, he went before the Blessed Sacrament late one evening and felt that it was truly God who was calling him to be a priest. For a moment he thought, “What about law school?” but when the moment passed, he thought, “I’m done with law school; it is over.” Mark commented that, “It was really my belief in the Eucharist that led to my vocation. Once I started to believe what the Church professes, namely that Christ is truly and substantially present in the Eucharist, I knew I could do whatever he was calling me to do. And it was clear at that point that God was blessing me with the call to the priesthood.”

Over the next year as he worked to pay off his student loans, Mark became familiar with a religious order called the Society of Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity (S.O.L.T.) and decided to join them. In May 2001 he entered SOLT, a missionary community made up of Priests, Sisters, and Brothers. He spent his first year with SOLT teaching in Belize at the mission of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel High School. In 2002, SOLT sent him to their seminary in Rome. He and the other SOLT seminarians studied at the Pontifical University of St. Thomas Aquinas (The Angelicum), which is run by the Dominican Fathers. While there he had many incredible experiences including the opportunity to sing in one of the Papal Choirs, to meet Pope John Paul II, and to attend the canonization and beatification of many Saints and Blesseds, including Blessed Teresa of Calcutta. He was there when the Pope passed away, and following his death, Mark waited in line for seven hours to view his body. Upon finally approaching the casket, he spent an hour praying there in the middle of the night. A week later he and his brother seminarians slept on the street in order to attend the Pope’s funeral. Fr. Mark was also present in St. Peter’s square on April 19, 2005 when the white smoke blew from the Sistine Chapel and Pope Benedict XVI was elected and introduced as our Holy Father. During those years Fr. Mark explained that he received countless blessings through the help and guidance of many saintly priests. In June of 2005, he graduated from the Angelicum.

During his time in Rome, Fr. Mark discerned that he was being called to serve as a parish priest. Although he loved the missions and missionary work, he did not feel at that time that he was being called to religious life. He decided to return to Buffalo in order to become a priest for our Diocese. Because of all the training he had already received during his years with SOLT, he only spent three semesters at our diocesan seminary, Christ the King in East Aurora. During his time there he was inspired, yet again, by the priests he encountered in our diocese, particularly Fr. Paul Seil as well as the current rector of the seminary, Fr. Peter Drilling – whom Fr. Mark credits with helping him transition to the diocesan life and into the priesthood. Fr. Mark loved the great fraternity he found amongst the Buffalo seminarians, particularly his friendship with his only classmate, Fr. David Baker. He describes the relationship amongst priests and seminarians as one where “iron sharpens iron.”

He spent the summer of 2006 at St. Joseph’s Parish in Albion and beginning in January 2007 he spent a year at Queen of Heaven in West Seneca. He was ordained a Transitional Deacon on April 20, 2007 and ordained to the priesthood on December 1, 2007 by Bishop Edward Kmiec. Fr. Mark was assigned first to Nativity of our Lord in Orchard Park and then to St. Amelia in Tonawanda where he currently resides.

In thinking about the priesthood, Fr. Mark mentions that being a priest is far better than he thought it would be, yet more challenging as well. He relates, “The day I was ordained a priest I just meant every promise I made so profoundly. I thought of all the great priest-saints who have inspired me, like St. John Vianney, St. Louis de Montfort, St. Edmund Campion and others on their ordination day, and resolved to follow their example and give myself completely to our Eternal Father. As the Second Vatican Council taught, ‘A man cannot fully find himself except through a sincere gift of himself’, so I strive to give everything in myself to God and in service to his children on earth as a spiritual father. As priests, we belong to Christ so deeply. I just cannot imagine myself not having that depth of relationship with God. My heart is His forever!”

Fr. Mark particularly loves celebrating the Sacraments as they pour out God’s graces on His people. When he says Mass at a nursing home, he sometimes just anoints all the participants when it is over. “They are all so elderly, sick and frail, it just means so much to them. They really love it!” he exclaims. Whenever he preaches on the benefits and importance of going to the Sacrament of Reconciliation, he inevitably finds that people thank him in the weeks that follow, telling him outside of the confessional that they had not been to confession in years, but feel their life has been restored to grace and peace through that Sacrament. Above all, Fr. Mark is thankful for the opportunity to be a conduit of God’s grace.

The priesthood is a challenging life as well, one that involves trying to juggle many responsibilities. Fr. Mark feels that there are so many demands placed upon priests today and most people cannot imagine how much they are. He prays daily, and encourages others to pray that more and more young men in our diocese will answer “Yes!” to the call to serve as a priest.

An avid sports fan, Fr. Mark enjoys keeping up with his favorite professional teams including the Sabres, Bills, and Red Sox as well as playing a few sports himself. He likes to golf and he became a pretty solid soccer player during his years in the Seminary in Italy. He enjoys hiking and driving to places that are secluded so he can pray. In Italy he used to enjoy praying in the beautiful churches when no one else was there. He would often pray by the tomb of the patron saint of his home parish, St. Aloysius Gonzaga. He truly believes that prayer is the fuel that keeps him going. He prays a Holy Hour every day and is happy to live the promises of his ordination by praying the full Liturgy of the Hours each day. He commented that “if your prayer life is neglected, your identity will soon disappear and for a priest, nothing could be worse.”

“Guys have no idea how glorious a life it is to be a priest; to be so close to God!” exclaims Fr. Mark. He explained that if a man feels called to the priesthood, he can be assured that it will be the pathway to the greatest happiness. “God’s will always coincides with the deepest desires of our heart, even if we do not initially recognize it. So if you want to be truly happy in life, then seek out God’s will and do it!” However, Fr. Mark is clear to relate that, “men should only make the decision to start out on the path to the priesthood in freedom and without pressure or coercion. Indeed, all of us are free to choose and follow God’s call wherever it leads. Our task is to seek it with a sincere and generous heart. In order to discover God’s plan, you must really look into your heart and ask the deepest questions. God will not fail to answer.”

Fr. Mark invites all to join him each day offering the following centuries old prayer for vocations that more young men in our diocese will respond to the call:
O God, who wills not the death of a sinner, but rather that he be converted and live. Grant, we beseech you, through the intercession of the Blessed Mary, ever Virgin, and all the saints, an increase of laborers for your Church, fellow laborers with Christ to spend and consume themselves for souls through the same Jesus Christ, Your Son, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God forever and ever. Amen.

March 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. TED JOST

Edward F. Jost, Jr. was born in Kansas City, Kansas on February 15, 1961. Only one short year later he would be hospitalized for "osteomyelitis," a disease of the bone, and would spend the next several years in and out of the hospital. At three years old, Ted's family moved to Buffalo in the winter of 1964 and thankfully his condition was corrected. Since his father was an English professor at Canisius College, Ted's family moved nearby.

He grew up playing baseball in Delaware Park and in high school he served as a waiter at the priests' residence at Canisius. At the age of eight, Ted began talking about a vocation to the priesthood. Most people did not seem very supportive of the idea and it took a "back seat" to a new love, the arts. Because of his bone condition, he had to be careful about contact sports. He began drawing and painting and found that he had artistic talent.

When his brothers joined a local drama club, Ted discovered that, after the initial shock of standing in front of people, he really liked drama and he participated in several high school productions. Still, the idea of being a priest continued to present itself in his thoughts and prayers. He tried to put it out of his mind and, after graduation from high school, was determined to attend Niagara University which feature wonderful Theatre and Religious Education Departments.

During college, Ted worked as a carpenter for his first three years and helped to build the sets on which he performed many memorable roles, from Joseph in "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat" to Don Quixote in "The Man of La Mancha" to Hamlet in "Hamlet." After his third year at NU, he earned his membership in the Actors Equity Association (the stage actors' union) while performing as St. Peter in the 1982 Artpark production of "Jesus Christ Superstar." At the start of his final year at NU, Ted took a work study job as a Sacristan at the chapel and attended daily Mass, retreats, and missionary trips to the inner city of Philadelphia with his priestly mentor, Rev. Stephen Macher.

Even though thoughts of the priesthood were still with him, he decided to pursue a scholarship at USC in Los Angeles. He would spend four years there and four more in New York City, attending discernment retreats with the Vincentian priests and others while pursuing his acting career.

Finally, in the spring of 1990, he decided that the lifestyle of an actor was simply not what he was looking for. As much as he loved the "art," his life became a "business" and one that was not always in keeping with his values as a Catholic person. So he returned home to Buffalo and entered Christ the King Seminary in an effort to join the priests of the diocese and hopefully help others find their vocation in life. As he likes to put it, his experience "playing heroes" on stage helped him to actually want to become one in reality!

Fr. Ted was ordained a priest in 1996 and served his first few months of priesthood at St. Vincent de Paul in Springbrook. St. Vincent de Paul was the same parish he spent time in as a seminarian and a transitional deacon. From 1997 to 2000 he was assigned as a parochial vicar at St. Christopher in Tonawanda. He then served at Our Lady of Victory Basilica in Lackawanna from 2000 to 2003 and after that at Fourteen Holy Helpers in West Seneca until 2006. He was made pastor of the former Ascension Church in North Tonawanda and then administrator and pastor at the former St. Albert the Great. In 2007 the two churches merged to form St. Jude the Apostle where Fr. Ted is currently pastor.

It was during his time at St. Christopher's in 1998 that he created "The Parable Players," a group of teens who perform high energy, humorous adaptations of bible stories. These teens are from all over the diocese and they perform during the summer months in the green space outside of St. Joseph's Cathedral, at lawn fetes, parish picnics, nursing homes, and other events. Fr. Ted is still going strong with the Parable Players and enjoys the opportunity to combine his love of the priesthood with his love of the arts.

To any man considering a vocation to the priesthood, Fr. Ted advises them to ask themselves if the feeling of wanting to be a priest is something that keeps coming back. If it does, then he suggests talking with people who support the idea. Too often people who are well meaning may try to steer men away from the idea of becoming a priest. It is a good idea to find people who support vocations to the priesthood such as the Diocesan Vocation Director or the local Serra Club. It's also not a bad idea to look into entering the seminary to really see if it is for you, keeping in mind that you are free to leave at any time if it does not seem to be working out.

Most importantly, spend time in prayer asking God what it is He wants you to do. Fr. Ted spent several years pursuing other interests before seriously thinking about the priesthood. In some ways he feels like he lost those years that he could have spent as a priest, but in other ways he feels that the time was not wasted. He had a lot of life experiences which have made him a better priest in the long run. Living on his own taught him to budget his money which helps him as a pastor to budget the parish expenses.

Fr. Ted is very happy in his vocation as a priest. He finds it a privilege to be Christ to others. People think that the priesthood is such a solitary life but Fr. Ted feels just the opposite. "The priest is at the center of the parish family," exclaims Fr. Ted, who talks about his priesthood as "a life lived with and for others." Occasionally he finds it challenging to carve out time for himself. Another thing he finds somewhat difficult is maintaining friendships in an atmosphere where people's opinions vary about what a priest should be and who he should befriend. While negotiating boundaries within friendships is something we all deal with, it seems sometimes harder for priests because they are supposed to be there for everyone and not show favorites.

The call to priesthood was always there for Fr. Ted although he had other interests and talents. For Father Ted, being ordained to the Sacred Priesthood of Jesus Christ in his beloved Roman Catholic tradition was a lifelong dream and he is very happy with his decision. Like the late Pope John Paul II, a profound inspiration to Fr. Ted and many young men during his pontificate, Fr. Ted feels that spirituality and the arts are a perfect match. At their best, both search the depths of the human heart, seeking meaning and purpose in life.

February 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. DINO LORENZETTI

From his humble beginnings at St. Gerard Parochial School, Msgr. Dino Lorenzetti has accomplished a great deal in the service of Our Lord and others. He graduated from Hutchinson Central High School and went on to receive a degree at the Chown Business School of Canisius College. His education continued when he entered Christ the King Seminary which was located at St. Bonaventure University in Olean, NY at that time.

Dino J. Lorenzetti was born July 23, 1921 and with a mere 20 years of life under his belt, began his time of service to our country in the U.S. Army Air Corps during WWII from 1941 to 1945. He served in the United States, Africa, and Italy.

On May 30, 1953, he was ordained to the priesthood. He served as Associate Pastor at Holy Cross in Buffalo, Our Lady of Lourdes in Buffalo, St. Mary of Sorrows in Buffalo, Christ the King in Snyder, and St. Louis in Buffalo. In addition to his assignments as associate pastor and later pastor for several parishes, he served as the director of the diocesan Office of Family Life for nearly 20 years. Msgr. Lorenzetti also served on the advisory board of the National Family Life Bureau, was a moderator for the Foundation of International Cooperation and for the Diocesan Guild of Catholic Physicians, a member of the New York State Catholic Committee, and was active on the Interfaith Committee for the Buffalo Diocese. He also lectured for the Air Force, Army, and Navy in the Alaskan Command on education and family life. In January of 1968 he was given the Papal Honor of Very Reverend Monsignor.

Msgr. Lorenzetti went on to become Pastor at Holy Cross in Buffalo from July 1968 to June 1975. He then became the Pastor of Our Lady of the Sacred Heart in Orchard Park from March 1977 to July 1996. He officially retired in 1996, however, he has remained very active. Msgr. Lorenzetti lives at the O'Hara Residence for retired priests but travels the diocese to celebrate Mass and offer spiritual guidance, lightening the burden of his fellow priests whenever and wherever he is needed.

In 1992 Msgr. Lorenzetti received the Cure of Ars Award from Christ the King Seminary. This award celebrates the care of souls in the spirit of St. John Vianney who was the pastor, or Cure, of a small town in France called Ars. Msgr. Lorenzetti has been dedicated to the care of souls for 56 years and he shows no sign of slowing down. Among other distinctions, he has received the St. John Neumann Award from the Federation of Catholic School Parents, the Judge John D. Hillery Scholarship Foundation Award, the St. Christopher Award from the Catholic Youth Organization, the Spirit of Mercy Award from Mount Mercy Academy, and the Mater Christi Award from Immaculata Academy. On January 28, 2010, he was awarded the Bishop's Medal at the Making a Difference Dinner celebrating Catholic Schools. This award is well deserved as Msgr. Lorenzetti has influenced the lives of so many Catholic School Children in such a positive way.

Both his parents are deceased and Msgr. Lorenzetti has a brother and a sister. Both are married with children. He has many hobbies including travel, reading, and being interested in just about everything and everyone whom he encounters.

"The best part of my priesthood," Msgr. Lorenzetti shares, "would be administrating the Sacraments, preaching, and witnessing the gospel to the best of my ability." He continues, "To a vocation candidate I would say that in my 56 years in Priesthood, I have had many challenges and attractions to the married life, yet in no way would I exchange the joy of my vocation for any other."

A man who has been blessed with many years of life, Msgr. Dino Lorenzetti uses those years to bring God's people closer to Him. When preaching at Mass, he is often heard saying, "I love all you beautiful people!" - and he really means it! He has a great sense of humor and is always positive and optimistic. Msgr. David LiPuma recently remarked that, "Msgr. Lorenzetti is the kind of priest that others look up to and say, ‘That's the kind of priest I want to be!'" He truly believes and lives the ideal that it is better to serve than to be served.

January 2010 Priest of the Month - REV. SEAN DiMARIA

"Be honest with yourself" is the advice Fr. Sean DiMaria would give to anyone interested in becoming a priest. He knows from experience that following God's will and not your own is the only path to true happiness. Fr. Sean remembers well feeling called by God to be a priest as early as seven years old when he made his First Communion. Inspired then by Fr. Charles Slisz, he thought, "I want to do what he does, I want to be like him." Like a lot of men who feel called to the priesthood early in life, Fr. Sean didn't answer "Yes" right away.

The earliest years of his life were spent in South Buffalo. Baptized at Holy Family Parish, he went on to attend kindergarten at St. Agatha. The DiMaria family then moved to North Buffalo and became parishioners of Holy Spirit. Sean attended PS 81 for grades 1-5 and then he, along with his parents, older sister Joan and younger brother Mark, moved once again, this time to Lake View. His father passed away in 2008 and his mother still resides in Lake View as a parishioner of Our Lady of Perpetual Help. He attended the parish school, Southtowns Catholic, for grades 6-8 and graduated from Frontier High School in 1985.

Having been involved in the Lake View Fire Department since he was 16 years old, Sean set out to answer the call he had always felt to a life of service. He officially joined after graduating from high school at the age of 18.  Along with his involvement at the fire station, he worked at Wendy's Food System, Inc. and then with his brother at Kruszka Flooring Co. He was employed at Sorrento Cheese from 1990 to 1996.

After high school, he fell away from the Catholic Church and the fire department filled his need for a sense of community. He remarked that it was during this time he felt he grew from a boy into a man. As good as it seemed to be, there was still something missing. He decided to make Mission at his parish and that became a turning point in his life. Not necessarily right away, but as time went on he felt that experience led him back to the Catholic Church. He remembers feeling embarrassed to start attending Mass again after having been away so long but he did return and he began to get involved. He taught Confirmation class in the parish and was inspired once more by a priest. Fr. Jim Bastian got him thinking again about the possibility of becoming a priest, a thought that never really left him completely.

Entering the seminary meant spending more time in school. Sean had never been a strong student and the thought of going back was not appealing. After discussing the possibility of priesthood with a friend, she told him he should at least look into it. They went to the Catholic Center in downtown Buffalo to talk to someone but it was closed. Feeling it was an omen, Sean thought that would be the end of it. His friend Kristen had other thoughts and drove him to Christ the King Seminary where he was able to speak to Msgr. Fred Leising. The rest, as they say, is history.

He attended Wadhams Hall College Seminary for four years of undergraduate Study. As daunting as it seemed, Sean described it as a wonderful experience. He really enjoyed his time there and felt he gained a great deal from it. The next four years were spent at Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora. He was assigned to St. Paul's in Kenmore for a summer and the following year as a deacon.

Ordained to the priesthood on May 28, 2005 Fr. Sean remembers thinking, "It's finally here!" He said there was a lot to remember during the whole ceremony but he felt absolutely sure he was doing what God had called him to do from the time of his First Communion. Ordained with him were Fr. Marko Ilnitskyi and Fr. Darrell Duffy. His first assignment was SS. Peter and Paul Parish in Hamburg. He spent three years there as parochial vicar and then moved to his current assignment as pastor of SS. Brendan and Jude Parish with worship sites in Almond and Alfred as well as Blessed Sacrament Parish in Andover.

Fr. Sean enjoys celebrating the Sacraments, especially the Eucharist. He finds the demands on his time to be great now that he is pastor of three worship sites. He knows it's important to carve out time for prayer no matter how busy you may become. He sometimes worries that his prayer life suffers with all the constraints on his time but he is conscious of keeping his priorities in line. His dog, Riley, has been a great companion and keeps him busy as well. When he gets the time, he loves to read and enjoys following hockey and sometimes football and other sports.

As stated earlier, he feels that vocation candidates should be honest with themselves. They shouldn't be afraid to look into the priesthood if they feel they are being called. He remembers feeling a great deal of support while he was in the seminary. The faculty and staff are there to help but seminarians should always feel they can leave if they don't think becoming a priest is what God is calling them to do. The seminary is a great place to discern the call to priesthood and it should be viewed not so much as a final commitment but rather as a continuation of a person's search. Fr. Sean feels it's tough for guys in today's world to consider priesthood because the culture emphasizes materialism and selfishness. He recommends, "If you want a life that's beautiful, look to serve God and others. You'll receive a lot of graces and blessings and you're sure to find real peace and happiness."

December 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. DAVID G. LiPUMA

Msgr. David LiPuma will tell you that he probably wouldn't be where he is today if it was not for his grandmother, Grace LiPuma. She truly lived her Catholic faith by incorporating the Gospel values in all she did. She lived next door to David, his parents and two older brothers, and attended daily Mass. From the time he could walk, David would join her. She took young David by the hand and led him to Christ. Looking back, time spent at daily Mass was very influential in his decision to become a priest, as were prayer and time spent together as a family around the dinner table.

As far back as Fr. David can remember he was involved in one way or another at his parish. He was baptized in 1960 at Our Lady of Pompeii Parish by the then newly ordained Msgr. Robert Wurtz. From childhood, his life was enhanced by great models of priesthood. Msgr. Wurtz, who was there from the beginning, later became a great friend and mentor. Another positive role model was one of the Associate priests who served at Our Lady of Pompeii, Fr John Sardina. One Mother's Day before David had even made his First Communion, Fr. Sardina took him by the hand and led him to the sacristy. He put him in a surplice and cassock and David joined his two older brothers as an altar server. From that point on he recalls that he wanted to become a priest. He later told Fr. Sardina that he put him in his first surplice and cassock and he is still wearing it to this day! He attended elementary school at Our Lady of Pompeii and went on to St. Mary's High School, also in Lancaster. During elementary school and high school, he worked as a paperboy.

After high school, he entered Wadhams Hall Seminary-College in Ogdensburg. Tragically, while he was there his mother passed away after a battle with cancer. Five months later, his father died from a heart attack. His grandmother then became both mother and father to David and his two older brothers.

He furthered his education at the North American College in Rome, Italy, where he studied at the Pontifical Gregorian University and San Anselmo University. On his ordination day, July 25, 1987, Fr. David remembers leaning over to hold the hand of his then 87 year old grandmother. He thought, "You're the one who led me by the hand to this church and now you're here to see this!" She lived to be 104 years old, almost twenty years after Fr. David's ordination. He smiles as he recalls that she wanted to make sure he was well grounded in the priesthood before going on to her eternal reward. That year there were five men ordained to the priesthood by then Bishop Edward D. Head. Each man was ordained on a separate day in his home parish.

After ordaining Fr. David, Bishop Head assigned him to serve as parochial vicar at St. Leo the Great Parish where he spent three years. He was then assigned parochial vicar and assistant to Bishop Edward M. Grosz at St. Philip the Apostle Parish in Cheektowaga where he spent another three years.

In 1993, he became acting director of the Office of Worship and Catechumenate. He became director in 1995. Fr. David was given an additional assignment in 1993 as chaplain to the Carmelite Nuns at the Monastery of the Little Flower of Jesus on Carmel Road in Buffalo. To this day he celebrates Mass there and it is one of the highlights of his priesthood. The Carmelite Sisters are very dear to Father David and they hold a very special place in his life and ministry as a priest.

Bishop Henry J. Mansell announced in 1997 that he was appointing Fr. David LiPuma to the positions of secretary to the bishop and vice chancellor. Eleven years later, Fr. LiPuma still serves in that capacity. Bishop Edward U. Kmiec bestowed upon Father David the title Monsignor in 2008. Having joined many years ago, he became a fourth degree Knight of Columbus in 2008 as well. 

Msgr. LiPuma enjoys many aspects of his priesthood. When he was assigned to parish life, he loved the give and take with people. Greeting people at the doors of church, being with people during good times and in their struggles, getting to know them and becoming a part of their lives were all extremely rewarding aspects. He finds being secretary to the bishop a very unique ministry. Father David enjoys visiting the parishes of the diocese with the bishop for Confirmations and other special occasions. He views parish life as the heart of the diocese. His admiration is great for the priests who minister in our parishes day in and day out working with people and being present and Christ-like to them often quietly and without a lot of recognition. As a priest you get to bring Christ to the people through the Sacraments, and most especially in the Sacrament of the Eucharist and you, in turn, bring the people to Christ as they grow in their faith and knowledge of God and the Church. He feels it is a great life!

The priesthood also has its challenges, especially in the very secularized society in which we live today. Father David realizes it is important to be real with people and sometimes difficult to deal with so many different personalities. You have to be secure in yourself and realize that you can't please everyone. Fr. David finds it disappointing that fewer and fewer Catholics participate in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. It is so healing and helpful and yet people have lost sight of its value. There are so many distractions in people's lives. A real challenge of priesthood, according to Fr. David, is trying to help people see the Church as relevant in their lives. He believes that if people felt more connected to the Church, they would be more interested in coming and being a part of it.

Physical exercise is an important part of reducing stress for Fr. David and walking provides much needed relief. He also enjoys spending time with family and friends and traveling.

All in all, Msgr. David LiPuma finds his life as a priest to be very satisfying and meaningful. As a Catholic who believes in the body, blood, soul, and divinity of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist, being called to the priesthood is an honor and a privilege. At the end of the day it's rewarding to be able to say you have given your life to God. He often finds that he helps people in ways that he isn't always aware of just by being present to them. Fr. David believes that a good prayer life is irreplaceable. One's relationship with Christ is the most important connection he will ever have and spending time in prayer is the best way to nurture that bond. Without it, priests as well as lay people can become empty and ineffective.

If you've ever seen him in action, you can't help but appreciate all that it takes to make the events of the bishop look so seamless and smooth. Led by the hand of his grandmother to Christ, he now lends a hand as a servant of Christ to others.

November 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. MICHAEL UEBLER

After completing an Associates of Science Degree in Engineering Science at Erie Community College, Michael G. Uebler was all set to go to the University at Buffalo or Syracuse University to complete his studies for a career in Chemical Engineering when thoughts of the priesthood started to surface. Deciding to look into this first, he entered Wadhams Hall Seminary College in Ogdensburg, NY and eight years later was ordained a priest by then Bishop Edward Head.
 
Rev. Michael Uebler or "Fr. Mike" as he is known grew up in Cheektowaga along with three brothers and three sisters. He attended Infant of Prague Elementary School and Bishop Neuman High School. The Franciscan Sisters from Williamsville taught him at both schools. Later, Fr. Mike would teach at St. Mary's High School in Lancaster with the same Franciscan Sisters. Even to this day, one of his parishioners, Sister Pat Hartley, is a great help to him. He expresses much gratitude for the presence of the Franciscan Sisters in his life.

Ordained on December 12, 1982, Fr. Mike's first assignment was to St. Edmund's Parish in Tonawanda as a Parochial Vicar. Youth ministry was his main responsibility. This led to a teaching position which lasted for nine years at St. Mary's High School in Lancaster. While there, he worked in Campus Ministry, directed Student Services and Student Retreats, and taught New Testament. One of Fr. Mike's greatest joys is performing wedding ceremonies for his former students.

His next assignment, after St. Mary's High School, was as pastor in Arcade and East Arcade for seven years. He was impressed by how important Church was to the people in that area and he loved being part of those small communities.

Presently, Fr. Mike is the pastor of St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Tonawanda. He feels that this parish is a very important part of the City of Tonawanda. He visits the school every day and works closely with the Generations of Faith Program. Fr. Mike enjoys sharing in people's lives through the sacraments and fortunately there is a lot of sacramental work at St. Francis. How fitting that he should become pastor of a parish that shares the name of the order of Sisters who influenced his life so positively!
 
Fr. Mike's second cousin, Luke Uebler, is presently studying at St. Mark's Seminary/Gannon University in Erie, PA. Fr. Mike enjoys the priesthood and is very happy to have answered "Yes" to God's call. He hopes and prays that Luke and all those studying for the priesthood will experience that same joy.

October 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. RUPERT WRIGHT

A self described "people person," Msgr. Rupert Wright loves his priesthood which is certainly evident in the number of other priests as well as lay people he has positively influenced.

He was born on January 16, 1930 and grew up in Jamestown, NY. The first-born son of an English-Irish father, Rupert Aloysius Wright, and an Irish mother, Catherine Barrett Wright, he would later be joined by two brothers, Richard and Julian. His father operated a clothing business, Wright's Fashions, and the family lived in the same home in which his mother, Catherine, was raised. Eventually, Richard became an orthodontist. He and his wife Carolyn live in Fredonia, NY. Julian, who died suddenly at the age of 50 in 1986, was owner and manager of the family business, now called Wright's Suburban Stores in downtown Jamestown, the Lakewood Mall and the Millcrest Mall in Erie, PA.

Young Rupert attended SS. Peter and Paul Parochial School in Jamestown. The Sisters of Mercy, who taught him throughout elementary school, had a great influence on his formation leading to his priestly vocation. He attended Jamestown High School and was accepted at Georgetown University to study Law. Two factors came into play which changed his plans concerning Georgetown. First, he received a state scholarship which restricted the colleges he could attend to those in New York State. Second, and probably most importantly, he attended a men's retreat at the Columban Center in Derby, NY toward the end of his senior year in high school where he felt he was being called to the priesthood. Msgr. Wright considers senior year in high school to be a very "touchable moment" in life for most as it is then that people begin to seriously consider what they would like to further study and some day become. He enrolled in Niagara University for two years in the College of Arts and Sciences and then entered the Seminary of Our Lady of Angels located on the campus of Niagara University. The Seminary predates the university itself. He received his Bachelor of Arts degree in 1952 and after four years as a seminarian, was ordained a priest on May 26, 1956 at St. Joseph's New Cathedral by Most Rev. Joseph A. Burke, D. D.

Fr. Wright's first assignment was to the Missionary Apostolate. He was named Chaplain of Cattaraugus and Allegany Indian Reservations and Administrator of St. Isidore Parish in East Otto. In Lent of 1957, he was assigned to St. Stephen Parish on Grand Island as an associate to Msgr. Edward Schwegler. After Monsignor Schwegler was critically hurt in an automobile accident, the young Fr. Wright became the administrator and ran the parish for five years. For the next five years he was Parochial Vicar at St. Mary Magdalene at Fillmore and Urban on the east side of Buffalo. At the time, it was an old German Catholic parish of 1,000 families but changing times have resulted in its current status as the Antioch Baptist Church. From Buffalo's East Side, he moved to South Buffalo in 1968 as Parochial Vicar at St. John the Evangelist. The pastor at St. John's was ill and Fr. Wright was challenged to supervise the building of a new convent.

While serving as Parochial Vicar at the various parishes, Fr. Wright took on additional responsibilities in the diocese. He became the Diocesan Director of the Legion of Mary from 1967-1973, a member of the Senate of Priests in 1970, serving as its president from 1973-74. In 1973 Bishop Head appointed Fr. Wright to a one year term on the College of Consultants. At that same time he was serving on the Priests' Retirement Board and a year later on the Priests' Personnel Board.

He suffered deep personal loss in 1973 with the death of his mother and in 1975 with the death of his father. 1975 also brought good news when Fr. Wright was appointed by Bishop Head to his first pastorate at St. James Major in Westfield and then in 1977 as the Coordinator of the Priests' Personnel Board. He received his first papal honor in 1980 when he became "Rev. Msgr." Rupert Wright. In 1982 he went on to become the second pastor of St. Amelia Parish in Tonawanda, one of the largest parishes in the Buffalo Diocese. He continued to serve the diocese outside of his busy life as pastor in 1982 by becoming a member of the Diocesan Finance Council. From 1985-86 he served on the Pastoral Council. From 1984-89 he was a member of the Priests' Council and from 1984-86 was Coordinator of Region 17 (now referred to as "Vicariates" rather than "Regions"). In 1986 he became a member of the Television Advisory Board. Also, that year he would experience the tragic and sudden death of his younger brother, Julian.

He served as pastor to the 3,000 families of St. Amelia's for 12 years. By that time it had become the second largest parish in the diocese. In 1994 at the age of 64, Msgr. Wright moved on to become pastor of the largest parish in the diocese, St. Gregory the Great, with its 5,000 families. Some were surprised that he would want the responsibility of such a large parish but he commented that, "In this day and age, it's easier to run a big parish than a small one. There are pressures, yes, but you have bigger staffs and a bigger pool of volunteers." No doubt, his earlier experience of running parishes when the pastors became unable to do so, prepared him well. He was very appreciative of the help he received at the parishes he served and never hesitated in listening to good advice. He cited God as the most important thing and only reason for parish administration and organizations.

A humble, inspirational, lovable, priest, Msgr. Wright has a way of bringing out the best in people as he brings them closer to God and His Son Jesus Christ. St. Gregory the Great was fortunate to have Msgr. Wright as their pastor for 12 wonderful years. While he was at St. Greg's he received several awards: The Cure of Ars Award from Christ the King Seminary in 1997 and both the Bishop's Medal from Most Rev. Edward U. Kmiec and the Humanitarian of the Year Award from the Brothers of Mercy in 2005. In 2006, as he celebrated 50 years of priesthood, the "Celebrate Catholic Education" Medal was presented to him at the 6th annual Celebrate Catholic Education Dinner.

Retired July 16, 2006, Msgr. Wright lives at the O'Hara Residence, a retirement home for priests. He enjoys the companionship of the other retired priests in a setting where they have their own apartments yet come together to share meals and prayer. They have a genuine care and concern for one another. Msgr. Wright still helps at St. Andrew Parish in Kenmore whenever he can. He considers the best part of priesthood to be saying Mass and administering the Sacraments. He feels that the Sacraments are not emphasized enough and therefore can be overlooked in their importance. Looking back, the most challenging part of priesthood was keeping up with the many ministries he was responsible for as pastor. He felt pressured to ration his time so he could fit everything in.

To those who may be interested in the priesthood, Msgr. Wright advises a good prayer life. He reminds them that they will always be drawn to be married and have a family so there are certain things they will have to do without. If they can relate well to people (as Msgr. Wright surely does), they will find the warmth and love of a family in their parishioners through the grace and blessing of God.

September 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. JAMES KIRKPATRICK

Having just completed his first year of priesthood, Fr. Jim Kirkpatrick expressed his happiness at having answered “yes” when God called. SS. Peter and Paul in Hamburg is his first assignment as a priest. Spending a year in a large parish has given him lots of experience saying Mass, hearing confessions, baptizing, and presiding at weddings and funerals.

Growing up in Sanborn, NY, Jim was greatly influenced by Fr. Herold Nuwer who was then pastor of Immaculate Conception Church in Ransomville. From the time Jim was about ten years old until he was well into his seminary studies, Fr. Nuwer was the pastor at his hometown parish. Jim was youngest of the five children born to Judy and Jim Kirkpatrick. Welcoming him into the world on July 21, 1979 were his sister, Jamie and three brothers, Dennis, Billy, and Greg. He attended Colonial Village Elementary School and Niagara Wheatfield Jr. and Sr. High School. He then went on to Canisius College and spent one semester as a Biology major. After that he switched to Political Science. He thought he would become a teacher or professor some day.

Jim worked the same steady job summers and school breaks from the age of seventeen until he entered the seminary. He was employed at Yankee Doodle Brochure Distributors, a local family owned business. The owner, who was also a parishioner, asked Fr. Nuwer if he knew of a reliable young person who would make a good employee. He recommended Jim who held that job for the next seven years distributing brochures all over Western New York.

About halfway through his junior year in college, Jim felt called to the priesthood. He had thought about it before, having discussed the idea with Fr. Nuwer, his mother, and grandmother. Looking back, he remembered knowing lots of great priests when he was growing up. It was appealing to Jim to serve God like they did. He spent time praying about his future, talking to friends and family, as well as Fr. Leon Biernat, the vocation director at the time. After graduating from Canisius College in May of 2002, he entered Christ the King Seminary in August of the same year. Although still somewhat unsure about becoming a priest, he was willing to give it a more serious look.

Jim’s pastoral year was spent at St. John the Baptist Parish in Lockport. He was assigned as a deacon to St. Benedict Parish in Eggertsville. His first summer assignment as a seminarian was to St. Vincent de Paul Parish in North Evans. He had very positive experiences at all the parishes he was involved with. On ordination day, May 17, 2008, Fr. Jim remembers being very happy. He was just taking it all in, absorbing all that was going on, and enjoying being in the moment. Bishop Edward U. Kmiec ordained him and two of his classmates, Fr. Jim Fugle and Fr. Bob Zilliox. Fr. Jim Kirkpatrick was thrilled to share the day with two of his good friends.

Fr. Jim enjoys the company of the people he serves at SS. Peter and Paul and is happy to be a part of their lives. He finds it a real privilege to be with people during important moments such as their weddings, baptisms, and even funerals. It’s comforting to know that when they look back on these times they will remember the priest who celebrated their joys with them and mourned their losses.

Priesthood has its challenges and for Fr. Jim it is sometimes difficult to counsel those who need help. While he is very knowledgeable in many areas, his experience is limited by his youth. This is a challenge that will surely dissipate with time.

Fr. Jim enjoys the company of his fellow priests, especially his classmates, on his days off. He joins them for lunch and sometimes a movie. He also spends time with his parents, siblings, as well as four nieces and two nephews when he gets the chance. He likes to play video games, assemble and paint models, read and write short stories. He enjoys running as a way to stay in shape and alleviate stress. Fr. Jim follows college football, baseball, soccer, and auto racing.

To those considering the priesthood, Fr. Jim advises listening to God as well as trusted family and friends. He encourages everyone to develop a good prayer life, especially those discerning priesthood. He feels people should always take decisions, large and small, to prayer and not just think about them analytically. If men allowed the influences of society to pull them away from what they felt called to be, no one would become a priest! For Fr. Jim, the priesthood has given him the opportunity to make a positive impact on society, particularly those to whom he ministers. So far it has been a wonderful life and it has given him opportunities to do things he would not have otherwise done like ministry to prisoners and the poor. He finds it a humbling experience to preside at the Liturgy of the Eucharist.

Having expressed the desire to be a teacher and a writer, Fr. Jim has joyfully discovered that through his priesthood he is able to be both. Being open to God’s plan has led him to great happiness. Fr. Jim feels that it is extremely fulfilling to be a priest and that there is nothing else he would rather do.

August 2009 Priest of the Month - ST. JOHN VIANNEY

Because our Holy Father, Pope Benedict XVI has declared this the year of the priest, our featured priest for the month of August will be…

ST. JOHN (Jean-Baptiste-Marie) VIANNEY
The Curé of Ars
Patron Saint of Parish Priests

On May 8, 1786 John Vianney was born in the quiet town of Dardilly, France, close to Lyons. His was a simple life. He was the son of Matthew and Marie Beluze Vianney, farmers in their small town. His education was limited to a smattering of several different subjects and he found the study of Latin to be particularly difficult. As the violence of the Revolution aged on, Catholicism was outlawed causing priests to flee for their lives and Mass to be celebrated in secret wherever possible. John's father, Matthew, often harbored priests on the run and the family would sometimes set out in the middle of the night to attend Mass in a nearby barn.

Although his education was lacking, he was extremely advanced in matters of spirituality. His love and admiration for those brave, holy priests planted seeds of a vocation in young John's heart. The bells of Notre Dame rang out on April 18, 1803 announcing the resurrection of Catholicism in France. This opened the door for John and others to study for the priesthood. In 1813, after only two months of study in the major-seminary, he was dismissed for his inability to master Latin. With a little help from Fr. Bailey, Curé (Pastor) of the church that the Vianney family attended in nearby Escully, John was readmitted to the seminary andonce again he was dismissed. Fr. Bailey pleaded with the Vicar-General, citing John's great devotion to prayer and the Church. John was allowed to continue his studies. With much help and some compassion for his academic weaknesses, John was ordained to the priesthood on August 13, 1815 by Msgr. Simon who was Bishop of Grenoble.

Fr. John's first assignment was to Escully to assist Fr. Bailey, the priest who first recognized and encouraged his vocation, urged him to persevere when things seemed impossible, and interceded when others had dismissed the idea of him ever becoming a priest. Fr. Bailey was a true mentor and friend to Fr. John. In 1817 Fr. Bailey died leaving Fr. John Vianney extremely distraught. He later wrote, "I have seen some beautiful souls, but none so beautiful!" He mentioned his mentor's name in prayers at Mass every day.

In February of 1818, Fr. John Vianney became the Curé of Ars, a small town in France. Twenty-two miles from Lyons with only sixty families, Ars was considered the Siberia of the diocese. As Fr. Vianney spent time visiting those sixty families, he came to realize that most of them had become lax in the practice and beliefs of their Catholic faith. This disturbed him greatly and he began to work the teachings and truths of the Catechism of the Catholic Church into his homilies. At first, his attempts were met with much anger and criticism because the parishioners had become comfortable with their sinful ways of life and resistant to change. With much prayer and fasting, Fr. Vianney was able to elicit, through God, the conversions he so desired. He would often spend hours in front of the Blessed Sacrament, deny himself food, and sleep on the floor in an effort to attain graces and blessings for his parishioners.

As time passed, taverns started closing and people began to desire more virtuous, holy lives for themselves. This pleased the Curé of Ars a great deal but it did not come without cost. There were those who remained defiant and insisted on making trouble for Fr. Vianney by sending letters of false accusation to the Bishop's office and causing inquiries to be made concerning his behavior. Later in his life, Vianney wrote, "If on my arrival in Ars I had foreseen all that I was to suffer there, I would have died on the spot."

People experiencing conversions started coming to him in droves seeking the sacrament of confession as well as his advice and insight into their problems. They began coming first from his parish, then from all of France and eventually other parts of the world. During the last ten years of his life, he spent from sixteen to eighteen hours a day in the confessional. His bishop forbade him to attend the annual retreats of the diocesan clergy because of "the souls awaiting him yonder." The number of visitors to his confessional reached twenty thousand a year in 1855. By 1859, the last year of his life, the number grew to 100,000. So profound the enlightening was his advice, people sometimes waited three days to have him hear their confessions. With his blessing and encouragement, Mother Marie de la Providence founded the Helpers of the Holy Souls.

In spite of his humble beginnings and lack of education, Fr. John Vianney transformed the lives and souls of so many people from all walks of life. He remained humble and dedicated to prayer and fasting throughout his life. It has been said that his was the fuel he used to continue his ministry to so many. He died on August 4, 1859.

Many miracles were attributed to him including obtaining money for his charities and food for the orphans in his care, supernatural knowledge of the past and future as witnessed in his advice during confession, and healing the sick, especially children. He was quoted as saying, "Man is a beggar who needs to ask God for everything...a pure soul can ask everything from God, even miracles, and He will refuse him nothing." His greatest miracle of all was the way he lived and served God during his life. His greatest motivation was not saving his own soul but the souls of others. Clearly though, his own soul was purified beyond imagination in the process.

Pope Pius IX proclaimed him Venerable on October 3, 1874 and on January 8, 1905 he was enrolled among the Blessed. Pope Pius X declared him to be a model for all parish priests and he was canonized a saint in 1929 by Pope Pius XI. His feast day is celebrated on the date of his death, August 4, and so it is fitting that this holy, patient, gentle, insightful, exemplary priest be honored as our priest of the month for August.

July 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. LEO McCARTHY

On November 19, 1932 a servant of God was born. Leo McCarthy became the eighth child in a family that would eventually grow to twelve. Leo started life in Springbrook, NY, was baptized, made his First Communion and completed his first four years of school at St. Vincent Parish. His father referred to him as the "wonder boy" because he said he always "wondered what that boy" would become.

His family then moved to Alden, NY where St. John the Baptist Parish became like a second home to him. He had a strong Catholic family. His father and his grandfather on his mother's side greatly influenced who he would eventually become. Catholicism was woven into everything they did. The pastor of St. John the Baptist parish at that time was Fr. Bertrum Trautman, whose nephew would later become Bishop Trautman. Fr. Trautman had a great impact on Leo's young life, especially while serving as an altar boy. After his eighth grade graduation he entered the Minor Seminary called St. Joseph the Little Flower where he boarded because of the distance between Alden and Buffalo. Msgr. Paul Juenker was an exceptional mentor for the young Leo at the Minor Seminary.

He went right from the Minor Seminary to the Major Seminary of St. Bonaventure. While at Bonaventure, his father passed away at the young age of 57. Leo was able to visit him shortly before he died. His father told him not to leave the seminary to take care of the family because God would provide and he would better serve people as a priest.

He was ordained at St. Joseph's Cathedral by Bishop Burke on February 21, 1959. In those days, the men were ordained but then had to return to the seminary for a few more months to finish their education before being assigned. In that interim they could say Mass but could not hear confessions. As he lay prostrate on the floor of the Cathedral during his ordination ceremony, Msgr. Leo recalled that when he was about four years old his father told his older brother "Bud" that when he became a priest he would buy him his first chalice. Little Leo told his father that it was not Bud but he who would eventually become the priest. His father told him it would be a cold day before he would be ordained. The 21st of February turned out to be quite bitter and stormy and many people didn't even make it to the ordination due to the weather. It was indeed a cold day just as his father had predicted!

During the summers between the years of school in the Minor and Major Seminary, Msgr. Leo worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant, did various neighborhood jobs such as cutting lawns and bringing wood to stores earning one cent for each piece he delivered. He worked at a lumber mill and did dry walling and roofing. It was even more backbreaking work in those days because they didn't have the equipment that exists today.

After his ordination, Msgr. Leo recalled that Msgr. Richard Nugent had a very positive impact in his life as a priest. Msgr. Leo's mother (another incredible influence in his life) gave him a very special blessing the morning of his first Mass before they left for St. John the Baptist Church. He cherishes that blessing to this day.

Msgr. Leo's first assignment as a priest was at St. Mary in Little Valley where he spent one year. He then spent five years at St. Teresa's in South Buffalo and then went to St. James in Depew. While at these parishes, he became very involved with the youth. He coached football, track, and various other sports. Being musically inclined, Msgr. Leo led the St. Teresa Boys Choir, "The Savios". Their recordings can be found on CD today. He was in charge of the altar servers at these parishes as well.

He was "temporarily" assigned to St. Joseph's Cathedral for the next ten years where he continued to reach out to the youth in a positive way through sports and music. While at the Cathedral, he became involved in the Police Athletic League (PAL) where he once again took up coaching as a way to reach the youth. He explained that he didn't go to be one of them, rather he went so they could be one with him. While at the Cathedral, Msgr. Leo was chaplain for the boy scouts, the Buffalo Police and Erie County Sheriffs, the Port of Buffalo, the Catholic telephone and postal employees, and also served as Great Lakes area chaplain.

During his priesthood he was very interested in promoting vocations and was a vocation counselor in South Buffalo as well as at St. Mary High School in Lancaster. He was the Holy Name Moderator for the West Side of Buffalo and eventually became the Diocesan Moderator. He was very involved in the Serra Club of Buffalo whose main focus is promoting vocations to the priesthood and religious life. This came about because of his involvement with the altar servers. He believes that bringing boys into that atmosphere at church has a great impact on them.

He recalled a time when he was an altar server. He loved to serve Mass and one day, arriving early, decided to try on the priest's vestments. He was checking his look in the mirror when he noticed the Mother Superior, who was principal of the school, standing behind him. Her first response was, "Leo, what are you doing??!" Too scared to answer, he didn't say a word. Then she asked him if he wanted to be a priest and he responded, "No, I want to be the pope!"

Msgr. Leo couldn't recall a time when he didn't want to be a priest. He noted that priests don't really need altar servers, it's the altar servers who need the priests. The Mother Superior who found him dressed as a priest at such a young age supported him in many ways and encouraged him. She told him she would be an old nun hobbling down the aisle with her cane at his ordination. As it turned out, she was in the hospital at the time, and after his ordination Msgr. Leo made it a point to visit her and give her his blessing. She couldn't come to him so he went to her. Years later, at her request, he also presided at her funeral Mass.

After his time at the Cathedral, Msgr. Leo was assigned his first pastorate at St. Matthew Church on the east side of Buffalo. Here he also had a choir and headed up the altar servers. When asked about the most challenging part of priesthood, he recalled an incident while coaching inner city children where there was not a lot of structure in the families. Sometimes he would have only a few kids show up for a practice and sometimes more. One day a man approached who seemed to be under the influence of both drugs and alcohol. He was swearing out loud and disrupting the practice. One of the boys said to Msgr. Leo while they were in a huddle, "We don't talk like that, do we, Father!" That kind of response made the challenges seem worthwhile.

It was also challenging, as a pastor, to maintain the Catholic schools but worth the effort. The financial aspects of keeping a school running can be overwhelming, yet Msgr. Leo noted that Catholic schools are about more than just money, they are about the heart and soul of the young. He insisted that anyone who wanted their children to attend Catholic school and couldn't afford it should come and see him. He always found a way to make it work for them.

Back in the seminary, Msgr. Leo expressed a desire to become a missionary priest. Both Msgr. Juenker and Msgr. Leo's father encouraged him to see the missionary work that needed to be done right here in his own back yard. His assignments, especially at St. Matthew's in the central city, made him realize the truth in that advice. He remained there for ten years and then it was on to his next assignment as pastor of Immaculate Conception in Wellsville where he stayed for seven and a half years. St. Joseph's in Batavia was home for the next thirteen years where, of course, he became involved with the choir, altar servers, and coaching.

He reluctantly retired from St. Joseph's and is now living at Blessed Sacrament Parish on Claremont Avenue in Tonawanda. Still a very vibrant, active priest, he makes time to mentor the youth. On February 21, 2009 Msgr. Leo McCarthy celebrated fifty years of priesthood. He considers the heart and summit of the priesthood to be the celebration of Mass. One of the greatest rewards for him is the opportunity to be present to the youth who so desperately need good role models. He considers it a blessing to be able to give back to the community, most especially the youth, the enthusiasm and joy he receives from his life as a priest.

On advising young men to consider the priesthood he tells them not to worry so much about what they want to be but rather, pray to know what God wants them to be. So many times people are afraid to follow God's will because they think they will not be happy. Msgr. Leo then asks, "Why would God, who loves you so much, want you to do something that will make you unhappy?" Exemplifying many of the caring, nurturing qualities of Pope John Paul II, he did, in a way, finally become a pope!

June 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. FREDERICK D. LEISING, Ph.D.

I began my life in the Clarence Center / Swormville area of Erie County. So, my roots were agrarian, both of my grandparents being farmers. I am the eldest of five children. My father was a block / bricklayer and carpenter. My mother was a housewife. I had two sisters and two brothers. One brother and sister are deceased, dying together in an auto accident in 1964. My father died in 2005. My mother still lives.

St. Mary, Swormville was my original parish. I attended several grammar schools since my dad's work led to frequent moves. I graduated from eighth grade from St. Mary, Swormville. I spent six years as a boarder and student at the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary, 654 Dodge Street in Buffalo. I then spent six years at St. John Vianney Seminary in East Aurora. Post ordination I matriculated in graduate studies in philosophy at Notre Dame University. I have two graduate degrees; one in theology and one in philosophy.

I was ordained on May 29, 1971 at St. Joseph New Cathedral by Bishop James A. McNulty. My first Assignment was as parochial vicar at Fourteen Holy Helpers parish in West Seneca. In 1976, I went to Batavia and taught at Notre Dame High School for a decade. I then became pastor at Assumption, Portageville and St. Mary, Canaseraga, for one year.

Sent to Christ the King Seminary, in 1987, I was Director of Formation for seminarians, Vice-Rector and instructor in philosophy. In 1990, I became seminary Rector for six years.

In 1996, I was made pastor at St. Mary, Lancaster and in 2003, pastor of Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Clarence; my current assignment.

I enjoy golf and hiking in the summers and I am an avid reader.

The best component of priesthood is meeting and serving a wide variety of people, especially in liturgical settings. Those most challenging component of being a priest is relating profoundly with people through their experiences of loss, rupture, suffering and tragedy.

I became a priest to minister to people in a multitude of ways, as well as to cumulatively grow in embracing the mystery of life. I encourage eligible candidates for priesthood. It is a rewarding life that persistently challenges you to grow into Christ and the communities you serve.

May 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. LEON J. BIERNAT

This month marks the 17th anniversary of Fr. Leon J. Biernat's ordination to the Priesthood. His main focus has been bringing young people closer to Christ and His Church. Whether through altar serving, the Life Teen program or various other clubs and organizations he either started or became involved in, young Catholics have benefited from his boundless energy and zeal for the Faith.

The son of Leon and the late Sophie Biernat and brother of Cathy, who is married with two children, Fr. Leon is a product of the Black Rock section of Buffalo and most especially, Assumption Parish. He received all of his sacraments at the very parish where his family has belonged since the late 1800's. Father Leon graduated from Assumption Grammar School (now Our Lady of Black Rock), Riverside High School, and received a bachelor of science degree in Accounting from Canisius College in 1987.

He entered Christ the King Seminary upon finishing college and graduated with a Master of Divinity Degree in 1991. He was ordained a Deacon on June 22, 1991 at St. Joseph's Cathedral and assigned to Nativity Parish on Main Street in Clarence (Harris Hill). On May 30, 1992, he was ordained a Priest at his home parish and assigned to serve as parochial vicar at Holy Spirit Parish in North Buffalo on June 12, 1992.

After serving three years at Holy Spirit, Fr. Leon was transferred to St. Amelia Parish in Tonawanda. When he arrived at St. Amelia's there was a small Life Teen program of 20 young people. Four years later as he left the parish there were over 250 high school teens in a four day a week program of weekly teen Masses, education nights, socials, athletic teams, teen prayer groups, trips, and retreats. His success was recognized as he was honored by the Diocesan Union of the Holy Name Societies in 1998 and the Town of Tonawanda which in 1999 presented Fr. Leon with the Joseph Allen Jr. Award for Outstanding Service to Youth.

On February 19, 1999, Fr. Leon was appointed Director of Vocations by Bishop Henry Mansell. He joyfully began the ministry of promoting and encouraging men to consider a vocation to the Priesthood and Consecrated Life. With a great deal of energy and enthusiasm, he embarked on new and innovative ways of emphasizing the attractiveness of a life lived for Jesus Christ. Fr. Leon established both the St. Joseph Club for High School aged young men and the Response Club for college aged men to discern a call to the priesthood. He embarked on billboard campaigns, television and radio advertising, and even lighted signs at HSBC arena and at the Galleria Mall. For about eight years he traveled extensively to parishes, parochial schools, Catholic high schools, parish religious education programs, Confirmation programs, and college campuses to let young men everywhere know that God is calling and that they should "be not afraid" to answer. 

In addition, Fr Leon helped form new initiatives across the State of New York for Vocation Promotion including a program for parents to understand church vocations and an annual retreat for college men wishing to discern the Priesthood. The Altar Server of the Year Award was enhanced greatly by Fr. Leon as it grew into a large scale luncheon at the Buffalo Convention Center immediately following the Mass with our Bishop at St. Joseph's Cathedral.

The advice Fr. Leon gives to those who show an interest in the priesthood is generally to pray, get involved in parish activities and an age appropriate group to increase awareness of what priesthood is all about. When speaking to teens, he encourages them to enjoy high school, play sports, get involved in clubs, date, etc.; with college aged men he advises them to pursue their field of interest while discerning; and for adults Fr. Leon encourages the idea of setting a time line in order to put some sort of limit on making the decision whether or not to enter the seminary. Once in the seminary, Fr. Leon advises men to give it at least a year as this too is part of the discernment process.

As a result of his efforts and accomplishments, Fr. Leon has received much recognition. The Serra Club, a worldwide Catholic lay organization of some 25,000 men and women, honored Fr. Leon with their Blessed Junipero Serra Award in 2002. This award is given to one who has made outstanding contributions to the Priesthood. He was also honored as the 2002 Am-Pol Eagle Citizen of the Year for his contributions to religion, as well as by the General Pulaski Association of the Niagara Frontier for his contributions to Polonia.

On the national level in the area of Priesthood Vocations, Fr. Leon served from 2005 to 2007 as the Vice President of the National Conference of Diocesan Vocation Directors. He also served as a faculty member for the Permanent Diaconate Formation Program and on the Board of Trustees at Christ the King Seminary for nine years. He served as chaplain and trustee for Cardinal O'Hara High School for three years.

In 2006, by appointment of Bishop Edward Kmiec, Fr. Leon handed over the reins of Vocation Director to Fr. Walter Szczesny and returned to parish life. Taking his vitality and dedication to the youth with him, he began as pastor of Our Lady of Pompeii Parish in Lancaster where he currently resides. Since his arrival, the parish has grown in ministry and attendance. He established youth ministry as his first agenda item and has lead the way in a defense for human life. Parish participation at the Annual Life Chain has increased from half a dozen to more than 140. In addition to his parish responsibilities, he serves on the Board of Trustees of St. Mary's High School and on the Town of Lancaster Youth Board. He successfully led the merger between Our Lady of Pompeii and SS. Peter and Paul in Depew; a merger which was heralded as a great success by the local media.

For Fr. Leon, a good game of racquetball is just the thing to relieve stress. He also enjoys photography and entertaining friends. On his day off he likes to reconnect with other priest friends and enjoys time in the company of his father helping with whatever needs to be done at home.

Fr. Leon finds celebrating the Eucharist and the other sacraments to be the most rewarding part of priesthood. He considers balancing the spiritual call as priest with the administrational responsibilities of the parish to be the most challenging part of priesthood. Fr. Leon Biernat continues to be a model for people young and old. He is a happy and vibrant priest who is a wonderful example of God's love and care.

April 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. PAUL D. SEIL

Growing up, Paul D. Seil experienced a great deal of South Buffalo. He was baptized at Holy Family Church, made his First Communion and Confirmation and attended school at St. Teresa's, and was eventually ordained at St. Thomas Aquinas. His father was a fire fighter and Paul, along with his parents and three sisters, moved to Boston, NY. He attended Eden Central High School and went on to St. Bonaventure University where he earned a B.A. in Theology in 1977.

After graduation, he worked in radio for a year in Niagara Falls. Paul also worked in the Department of Human Resources for the City of Buffalo as a Civil Servant for about six years. He considered the priesthood as a child in South Buffalo and again in high school and college. Since it seemed to be a persistent thought which kept returning, Paul decided to check it out. As a young person, he had been very positively influenced by Msgr. Leo Toomey and Msgr. Leo McCarthy. He was a member of the choir at St. Teresa's which was led by Msgr. McCarthy.

In 1984, at the age of 29, he entered Christ the King Seminary. On January 21, 1989, Fr. Paul Seil was ordained a priest at his home parish of St. Thomas Aquinas in South Buffalo. He had originally requested a spring ordination but none of the dates he submitted worked for then Bishop Edward Head. As it turned out, he ended up being ordained on the feast of St. Agnes which was very special because Fr. Paul had a Great Aunt Agnes with whom he was very close!

On the day of his ordination he remembers having a mix of emotions. He thought about his father who had passed away when Fr. Paul was just 21 years old and a senior in college. His Uncle Paul, for whom he was named, fought and died in France during WWII. Fr. Paul thought about him and how special it was to have his uncle's rosary which he still carries with him today. It brought him great comfort to be surrounded by his mother, sisters, and brothers-in-law. Family, past and present, were greatly on his mind on this special day. He has since gained six nephews and one niece. On the way to his ordination he rode with another priest. He went to that priest for confession so he could enter the priesthood with a clean heart as a gift to God.

While newly ordained, he put his previous media experience to use on a television show called "Real to Reel" from 1989 to the mid 90's. After that he became involved in the cooking show he currently hosts called, "Our Daily Bread" which is seen not only locally but in Boston, New York, and California as well. He always had an interest in cooking and has read a lot about it. His interest was enhanced when he spent a summer as a seminarian with Msgr. Sam Faiola who loved to cook.

He said his first Mass at St. Amelia's where he spent time during his pre-diaconate and diaconate years. Fr. Paul's first assignment was at St. Paul's in Kenmore where he spent two and a half years. He also helped during that time at Our Lady of the Rosary in Niagara Falls. He was then assigned to St. Amelia's from November 1991 to June 1994. After that he spent four years as a parochial vicar at Holy Spirit Church in Buffalo.

In 1998, ten years after becoming a priest, Bishop Henry Mansell gave him his first pastorate at St. Lawrence Church on the east side of Buffalo. While at St. Lawrence, Fr. Paul also functioned as the Director of the Office of Worship. Also, while at St. Lawrence, he truly appreciated the work done by the St. Vincent de Paul Society. The outreach of the parish was run by the lay St. Vincent de Paul group and Fr. Paul was very impressed by the wonderful service they provided for the people of the area. He spent over eight years as pastor of that parish. It was then that the Journey in Faith and Grace impacted his life. Eleven parishes in the area were brought down to three. It was a very difficult process but with fewer parishes came the opportunity for Fr. Paul to further his studies. He spent four months in Rome at the Pontifical North American College on an academic sabbatical in the Institution for Continuing Theology Education program.

March 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. JOSEPH VATTER

I am currently Pastor of my third parish assignment - All Saints Parish in Lockport. I've previously served as Pastor of St. Mary in Medina, and the Tri-Parish community of St. Mary in Belmont, St. Joseph in Scio and Sacred Heart in Angelica. I have also served as Parochial Vicar at St. Christopher in Tonawanda, SS. Peter and Paul in Jamestown, St. Martin of Tours in Buffalo Holy Trinity in Dunkirk, and St. Barnabas in Depew. I was ordained in 1978 by Bishop Edward Head.

There is no question the main reason I am a priest today is the effect the faith of my mother had on me as well as the priestly example and lifestyles of the parish priests in my home parish of St. Mary of the Assumption in Lancaster. My vocation was also nurtured by the Priests at the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary, Wadhams Hall, and St. John Vianney and Christ the King Seminaries. I would be remiss if I did not mention some of the guys I hung around with in the Seminary as well as my six year experience of working at Camp Turner as positive influences on my becoming a Priest.

Obviously, the priesthood I experienced in 1978 is quite different from the one that I am now living. The diminishing number of the fraternity has changed almost every aspect of priestly life but the call to serve is one thing that has not changed. I am sure that the many hats we wear, the time demanded upon us, the psycho-social makeup of the congregation can and does make the job a tad more stressful . . . but it also make the job so much more rewarding! People truly respect and appreciate all that you do for them.

I believe to be successful and to find life meaningful, the following elements are necessary:

  • a solid prayer life which you grow into and grows as you do,
  • a good spiritual director seen on a regular basis,
  • close priest friends as well as close lay friends,
  • outside interests and hobbies (for me they are golf, fishing, cooking and following various sports teams!)

I would also suggest attending as many study days or days of prayer as provided by the Diocese.

To anyone interested in becoming a priest, I would encourage you to really sit down and talk to priests you admire or who seem to have similar interests. I personally would tell you that being a priest is full of ups and downs, good days and bad days, as well as successes and failures.  I would also tell you that priesthood can be fun . . . in fact the majority of the time it's a "riot" filled with many laughs but most importantly that you have to have the ability to laugh at yourself.

February 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. GREGORY DOBSON

Born and raised in South Buffalo, Gregory J. Dobson was the first of Patrick and Margaret Dobson's six children. He attended St. Teresa School where the idea of becoming a priest led him to enter the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary after graduation from eighth grade. Looking back on the positive influences of his Catholic upbringing, he remembers being trained as an altar server by the austere Fr. Paul Durkin and recruited as a boy soprano for the Savios (the parish boys' choir) by the energetic and vigorous Fr. Leo McCarthy.

Deciding not to go directly into the priesthood, he earned a bachelor's degree in English and a master's degree in religious studies with a major in Scripture from Canisius College. The then "Mr. Dobson" was on the faculty at St. Martin's School in Buffalo (now known as Notre Dame Academy) where he taught junior high for eight years. He also served as vice principal, director of religious education, and director of the folk ensemble. It was during this time that his good friend, Fr. Louis Hendricks, took Greg "under his wings" and allowed him to move with him into his circle of ministry. Fr Louis used this opportunity to share his insights on many aspects of priestly devotion.

Although he enjoyed teaching, the personal example of the wonderful priests who were so inspirational to him led him to enter Christ the King Seminary to complete his journey to the priesthood. While at the Seminary he was given a pastoral assignment at Queen of All Saints in Lackawanna. After being ordained to the diaconate in 1982, he served his assignment at St. Rose of Lima Parish in Buffalo. As a seminarian, he was attracted to Paul's letter to the Colossians - especially chapter three where he found the words that became the logo and theme of his ordination, "Dedicate yourselves to thankfulness."

Fr. Greg was ordained to the priesthood on July 14, 1983 by Bishop Edward D. Head at St. Martin of Tours Church. During his first 14 years as a priest, Fr. Greg served as parochial vicar in the following parishes: Our Lady of the Blessed Sacrament in Depew, St. Mary of the Assumption in Lancaster, and Our Lady of the Sacred Heart in Orchard Park. He also took on the responsibilities as chaplain for Villa Maria Academy. As a parochial vicar, he was motivated by the joyful Rev. Msgr. Dino Lorenzetti who saw his people as good and lovely.

As was evident in his previous career as a teacher, Fr. Greg really enjoys working with the youth. This was a significant component of his ministry in all three of his first assignments. He received the Moderator of the Year Award from the Buffalo Diocesan Youth Department in 1989 for his involvement while at St. Mary's in Lancaster. He also worked with a peer group ministry, conducted workshops and seminars for youth and teachers, and led Catholic Youth Organization (C.Y.O.) meetings and retreats. He assisted as a liturgical presider for the Life Teen group at Nativity Parish in Orchard Park, was active in Christian Drama with the Renaissance Theater Group, and served as the spiritual director for the Young Adult Ministry (Y.A.M.). Other highlights of his ministry to young Catholics include traveling with his parish youth group to World Youth Day in Denver in 1993 and twice to a sister parish in Mexico. Fr. Greg also served as a team member for the diocesan Christian Leadership Institute, an intensive leadership training program for young Catholics. Villa Maria Academy honored him with an award for Dedication and Service in 1997.

In 1995 he was invited to co-host the television program, Comfort My People, a weekly media ministry focused on Scripture reflections. He was the program's Scripture commentator for eleven years enjoying a wide following throughout western New York. In 1996 the diocese appointed him honorary chairperson of the Catholic Communication Campaign.

His first assignment as pastor came in 1997 with his appointment to St. Mary of the Angels Parish in Olean. With this assignment came the additional appointment as Episcopal Vicar of the Southern Cattaraugus Vicariate. This assignment gave new meaning to his nomenclature, "A Simple Country Priest."

In 2003 he assumed the pastorship of Sacred Heart Parish in Portville, a position he maintained until the 2007 merger with St. Mary's in Olean. A champion for Catholic education, he has previously served as Canonical Administrator for Southern Tier Catholic School and continues to serve on its school board as well as Archbishop Walsh High School's board.

Fr. Greg is a frequent lecturer and guest speaker at Catholic, ecumenical, and community events. His continuing education and his travels to Mexico, Puerto Rico, Europe, (most recently, Greece), the Middle East (with St. George's College in East Jerusalem) have given life to his homilies and lectures dealing with history, the Church, Scripture, culture, and social justice issues.

Some of the region's top civic citations have been bestowed upon Fr. Greg. For his work in fostering religious unity in the community, among them was the 2002 Unity Award by the Bahai Community.

He has served on several governing boards in the Olean area as well as chaplain to the Olean Knights of Columbus and was assistant Father Prior for Youth for the State Knights of Columbus. He is the chaplain for the Olean Police Department and the Ladies Ancient Order of Hibernians. In 2006 he was appointed to serve on the Diocesan Commission for the Journey in Faith and Grace.

His life has been a happy one; a grace, a good life. His priesthood has given him much joy and the opportunity to bring Christ to many situations - some happy, some not. The most challenging thing for him right now is being so far away from his family. His parish in Olean is an hour and a half drive from Buffalo. This makes it difficult to be with his family and his parish on special occasions such as Christmas and Easter when both would want him near. Overall he feels the priesthood is a beautiful life and an extremely meaningful vocation. Fr. Greg asserts, "We are a priestly people, graced and called to rejoice in the discovery of God's presence in our lives."

January 2009 Priest of the Month - REV. JAMES D. CIUPEK

James D. Ciupek was born in Buffalo, New York and raised in Cheektowaga by two wonderful Catholic parents. He grew up with an older brother and two younger sisters and attended grade school at his home parish, Queen of Martyrs.

Jim's high school years were spent at Cheektowaga Central High. From there he went to Buffalo State College and received a Bachelor of Arts degree in Chemistry. After graduation, he left the Buffalo area to do graduate studies at Purdue University. In 1984, he received a Ph.D. in Chemistry and moved to St. Louis, Missouri to work as a research chemist for Monsanto Company.

He remembers feeling called to the priesthood as early as high school but put off answering the call until much later. While at Purdue University, he found himself becoming more and more involved in his local parish. He became an Extraordinary Minister and taught religious education. When Jim moved to St. Louis to work, he once again became very involved in the parish community.

He decided to look into the possibility of becoming a priest since thoughts of the priesthood seemed to be frequently on his mind. When he discussed this idea with a priest in St. Louis, Jim expressed his struggle with trying to choose between the priesthood and married life, as he couldn't decide which path he should follow. His priest gave him some wonderful advice. He told Jim to pray that one of those choices would grow stronger. He also told Jim that he would know when he had arrived at the plan God had in mind for him when he felt at peace with his decision.

Jim found a spiritual director and frequently spent time praying at the Carmelite Monastery in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament. After prayerful consideration, at the age of 33, Jim returned to Buffalo and entered Christ the King Seminary to begin studies for the priesthood. He received a Master of Divinity degree in May of 1996 and was ordained a Transitional Deacon the following June. Along with five other men, he was ordained to the priesthood on May 17, 1997 by Bishop Henry Mansell. Father Jim describes the experience as a time of nervousness and excitement as well as a day of great joy. He spent his first year as a priest at St. Gregory the Great Parish in Williamsville.

In 1998, he was assigned to the position of parochial vicar at SS. Peter and Paul Parish in Hamburg where he spent seven years. In June of 2005, Father Jim became the pastor of St. John the Baptist Parish in Alden where he currently resides.

For Father Jim, celebrating the Eucharist as well as helping people become more aware of a sense of God working in their lives are the best aspects of being a priest. The greatest challenge he sees as a priest, and more recently as a pastor, is the inability to meet all the ministerial needs of the people entrusted to his care. There are just not enough hours in the day to accomplish every task and address every concern.

To relieve stress and keep in good shape, Father Jim enjoys running, working out, and an occasional game of golf. On his days off, he spends time with his mother.

Overall, Father Jim feels the priesthood is a great opportunity to do something worthwhile with your life as you help people. When working in the corporate world as a chemist, Father Jim wondered how much of a positive contribution he was making in people's lives. He was earning a good salary, but not really feeling fulfilled. Now he has no doubt that he is living the life he was called to live. Fr. Jim sums it up by saying, "personally, there is nothing else I'd rather do than be a Priest."

December 2008 Priest of the Month - REV. WILLIAM QUINLIVAN

(Father Bill is currently Pastor of Blessed Sacrament Church in the Town of Tonawanda. He is a Priest Associate of St. Luke's Mission of Mercy on Buffalo's East Side and has recorded two CDs of original music.)

Call stories are always different, but the people being called usually respond the same to the Lord, from Abraham and Moses to my own vocation and, undoubtedly yours. "You want me to do WHAT??!!??" "Unworthy", "too young", "too difficult"...long before a popular TV show created the expression, "Yadda, yadda, yadda" in the 1990's, the Lord God had heard every excuse in the book. But through His grace, the book is still being written in our lives and discernment of the call. And He's still calling!

CHILDHOOD "NORMAL"? I'd love to say that my childhood was normal, but I've never been convinced that I understand what that word means. I was born into an Irish-American family, the fourth of six children. I grew up in the age of the "Brady Bunch" on television, and our three boy, three girl set up was kind of similar. Except that the Lord didn't provide us a maid or a dog. Our punch lines were better...and...we never had to squish our heads into those little boxes and look up and down as our family theme song played. Yes, our family has a theme song!! From my Dad's parents, an old Irish ditty where you fill in your family's name:
OH, WHEN FATHER PAPERED THE PARLOR - SURE, YOU COULDN'T SEE FATHER FOR PASTE - HE WAS DABBING IT HERE AND DABBING IT THERE - PASTING PAPER EVERYWHERE - MOTHER WAS STUCK TO THE CEILING - AND THE KIDS WERE STUCK TO THE FLOOR - YOU NEVER SAW THE QUINLIVAN FAMILY SO "STUCK UP" BEFORE!

Television was one of the great fascinations of my childhood and I thought I might some day work in that field; as long as they never made me put my head in a little box. But Church was more important than even television. And from about the age of eleven, I had my first sense that God was showing me something in my heart that was His plan, His call.

Here's the story... Normal? Normal kids don't end up spending six or seven nights a week involved in parish activities. I know - I was there. Many of my acquaintances were adults, and elderly ones at that. The parish priest...rather frightening. And with all due respect to his immortal soul, it's a bit of a miracle that I ever ended up ordained. Tyrannical and volatile, a temper like a pit bull on caffeine. God rest his soul!! To be fair, he could be generous and kind and humorous and loving and his devotion to the Blessed Mother and Holy Eucharist could inspire a vocation! It was the humanity of the priesthood I had to learn from an early age. He was NOT Jesus Christ...but he worked for Him, with all his human foibles. And I worked for both of them...the Divine and the human!!!

MERCY, MERCY ME. My Aunt was a Sister of Mercy. She taught in the Rochester diocese for many years and died in 1974, the year I graduated from eighth grade at my Catholic grammar school. The Sisters were always at our house and the Mercy nuns were (and still are) family. After high school I worked at Buffalo's Mercy Hospital, again with Sisters of Mercy, wonderful women of God. When I got to seminary, there was a Mercy nun on the priestly formation team. When I walk in Lackawanna's Holy Cross Cemetery, I often visit the graves of my teachers and friends who were sisters. My respect for the call of women religious is, I believe, an important part of my vocation story. So, too, is my understanding of the mystery of married life. It wasn't until I realized that I could be a good and faithful husband and father to children that I could truly see the possibility of being "Father Bill" and a spiritual father to many children in the church. My own father worked tirelessly to support us and taught by example faithfulness and sacrifice...all with a smile on his face. He had married at 33 - the Irish don't rush to commitments!

A LONG STORY SHORT? My vocation did not take the direct route to the altar of God. When my best friend growing up, Father Ray Donohue, who lived across the street and was two years older - still is!) went away to college seminary at the start of my junior year of high school, I started to question whether I had just gotten caught up in the enthusiasm of his vocation. Hanging around with other friends, I suddenly found that none of them worked Bingo, sang in the choir at church, or knew the elderly of their parishes. From there, my vocational search truly began a new series of paths.

Music has always been a part of my life. From songs about papering parlors to music ministry experiences in church for more years that I want to count (but I'll try...36 years...ouch!). I've always loved to sing. My High School Musicals were a natural draw, long before the Disney Channel made millions on the concept. Theater was not to be my life (I can hardly memorize the sign of the cross...have an Etch-A-Sketch for a memory...if I turn my head things get erased!) but God was still calling.

My undergraduate degree was in Journalism, Broadcasting, and Speech from Buffalo State College. That TV thing still drew me. I attempted to sell some scripts for TV movies and series episodes that I wrote, but was to become experienced in rejection; rejection letters...and no response from most producers and studios. My only "success" was that I happened to find an address for comedy legend Joan Rivers and sent some jokes through the mail. She bought two - at a whopping $10 a piece. I continued to send lists of one-liners, and every time she bought a few, or several, four in about four years.

The Lord's sense of humor has me laughing now. My sense of humor has taken me through life's great disappointments and heartbreaks and makes my priesthood "no laughing matter" though I still love to make people laugh. And sing. And pray!

I changed jobs more times in the next seven years that you'd need to know. I was a file clerk, portrait photographer, freelance writer/reporter for local newspapers, and even an IRS taxpayer assistant. Finally, one day I realized that I had not stopped to ask God what HE wanted. I had gotten into the habit of asking and telling Him MY plans.

While reading Sister Briege McKenna's "Miracles Do Happen" I found a line that said, "God never forces anyone to do His will. You are completely free to say 'yes' or 'no.'" I remember that I sat upright in my bed and said to myself, "That's ME!" For all those years of wandering, people had said to me in just about every job I worked, "you probably should be a priest!" People at church said it to me most of my life but it wasn't until I was ready to do whatever the Lord asked and submit my will to His...that I almost instantly could say, "YES!" Ironically, once I was reminded that I was free to say, "no thanks;" I could only say yes.

GOD CALLS...AND PROVIDES. After I said yes, the story took on greater color and vibrancy, humor and music. And I have never doubted my vocation. April 29, 1995 I was ordained a priest and I can honestly say I found the life Christ had prepared for me. I more clearly heard the call that was always there. And the Lord gets the last laugh every day.

I'm very happy to be "Father" who will "paper any parlor" He asks me to. Because I've learned that our God always provides when we say yes... He does not promise a life without suffering in ministry. It does have a cost. It does call for sacrifice, dying to self daily. But that's basic and essential to all discipleship. That's what my parents did in their vocation of marriage. The Lord has given me a leading role, no more hiding in the chorus...there's not acting involved, but lots of singing...all for Him!!

November 2008 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. JOHN ZEITLER

In 1932 John Zeitler entered the world and the family of John Baptist and Mary Schwabl Zeitler and their two daughters, Mary Ann and Jeanne. Mary passed away when John was an infant and for a year and a half his father, a Buffalo police officer, went on to raise the family alone. He remarried and his new wife, the former Bertha Butz, became the only mother young John really knew.

Early in his grammar school education at P.S. 63, John met and became close friends with his classmate, Joe Bissonette. Young Joe was later to become Father Joe Bissonette, the beloved priest who was murdered in his rectory in 1987. In both elementary school and later at Bennett High School, John excelled in sports. He played basketball, football, and baseball and was named All City in each of these sports at Bennett. In 2003 he was inducted into the Bennett High School Sports Hall of Fame and the Alumni Wall of Honor. He attended Michigan State University on a baseball scholarship and was captain of the College World Series finalists. John graduated in 1954 with a BA in Business.

Scouted by the Detroit Tigers, John played baseball for their farm system. He was sent first to the Jamestown Falcons and then called up to the Dunham Bulls. But the Army wanted him at this time to fulfill a previous commitment he had made to the ROTC Program. He served in the Artillery for six months at Fort Sill, Oklahoma, and then in Germany. Lieutenant John Zeitler returned from his active military duty in 1956. He reported back to the Detroit Tigers and was sent to the Florida State League where he played baseball for the remainder of the season. Now 24 years old and only playing class “D” baseball, John decided to give up a career in professional sports.

Enrolling in UB Law School, he completed the first year of study during the 1957-58 term. In May 1958, his boyhood friend, Joe Bissonette, was ordained a Catholic Priest. John recalls, “That was the year I said to Joe, ‘I’m not happy in law school.’ And he said, ‘Why don’t you try the seminary? Give the priesthood a try. You and I, we always thought alike.’” John Zeitler began his road to priesthood at St. Philip Neri, a school for late vocations in Boston. From there he went to Christ the King at St. Bonaventure Seminary and after one year of accelerated studies, was sent on for another four years of Theology studies by then Bishop Joseph Burke to the Collegium Canisianum in Innsbruck, Austria, a Pontifical Institute. He was ordained a priest on July 26, 1964 at the Church of the Sacred Heart in Innsbruck by Apostolic Administrator, Paulus Rusch, after which, he returned to Buffalo.

Fr. John’s first assignment was on the Missionary Apostolate at St. Joseph’s Parish in Bliss, NY for one year. During that year, both his mother and father died. He was interested in joining Fr. Joe Bissonette, who was teaching at Turner High School, but there were no openings available. He did, however, find his services were needed at Notre Dame High School in Batavia. For the next ten years, he taught Chemistry, Spanish, German, and English as well as completed his Masters Degree at Canisius College. In all, he spent 13 years at Notre Dame teaching and coaching baseball and golf. He was named Athletic Director and eventually Assistant Principal and Dean of Students. He was inducted into the Notre Dame High School Sports Hall of Fame. One of the young men who passed through the doors of Notre Dame High School while Fr. John taught there was our very own Vocation Director for the Diocese of Buffalo, Fr. Walter Szczesny

Fr. John’s wish to be involved in Bishop Turner High School was granted when he was appointed principal in 1978. In 1980, he went to Blessed Sacrament Church on Delaware Avenue in Buffalo where he served for four years with the pastor, Msgr. Paul Juenker. In 1984, Fr. John went to the University of Buffalo Newman Center, located on the North Campus, where he stayed until 1990. It was while Fr. John was serving at UB that his lifelong friend, Fr. Joseph Bissonette, was murdered.

Fr. John asked then Bishop Edward Head to transfer him to a parish in 1990. He chose Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Lake View because it was close to Buffalo where he could be near his sisters. His sister Jeanne passed away in 2002 and his sister Mary Ann still lives in Amherst. Msgr. John Zeitler celebrated 40 years of priesthood in July of 2004 and currently remains the pastor of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church.

His outstanding accomplishments have not gone unnoticed. Fr. John has received many awards and honors such as the St. Francis Fr. Justin Figas Award, The Cure of Ars Award from Christ the King Seminary, the Mater Christi Award from Immaculata Academy, and the Msgr. Nelson Baker Award from the Diocesan Youth Department. He has been inducted into several Halls of Fame including The W.N.Y. Baseball and The Harvard Cup, as well as those mentioned earlier. Along with his terrific athletic abilities, Fr. John has a fine singing voice. From 1978 to 1999 he enjoyed membership in the Buffalo Philharmonic Chorus.

Looking back, he reflects, “My life as a priest has been more than I had bargained for. By the Grace of God, I was always led to the right place. I am pleased to have served so many people over the years in His name. In following God’s will, I feel I have completed my life and have honored my father and mother as well. I feel blessed that the Holy Spirit has guided me in every phase of my priesthood. As Jesus said, ‘Many are called but few are chosen’, yet the decision that counts is the one made that leads to happiness and a sense of fulfillment. And I was happy the first moment I made the decision to enter the seminary
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October 2008 Priest of the Month - REV. DAVID BAKER

Fr. David Baker was ordained a Catholic priest on May 19, 2007. He is currently the parochial vicar at Queen of Heaven Church in West Seneca. Fr. Dave is a second-career vocation to the priesthood. He first studied mechanical engineering and worked at Cooper Turbocompressor, in Buffalo. He then spent two years as a computer network administrator at the University at Buffalo, which included supercomputer work for UB's Center For Computational Research.

Feeling drawn somehow to help the Diocese of Buffalo, he first inquired about the possibility of working for the diocese in the field of computers but there were no jobs available in that area. God had a different kind of involvement in mind for Fr. David.

It was while he was working at UB that Fr. Dave realized God was calling him to the priesthood - an invitation that had been made ten years earlier by his pastor, Msgr. Leo Hammerl. At the time, Fr. Dave had said, "Oh, Father, that's not for me. I want to date girls and work with computers." After doing both of those things for ten years, he realized that his pastor had been right after all. Fr. Dave always remained close to the Catholic Church through his college years and while working. He joined Quest Young Adult Ministry in the 1990's for social reasons but eventually took on a leadership role within the group. All these things pointed toward the priesthood.

So Fr. Dave switched from the study of Physics to the study of Metaphysics. In the seminary, he learned philosophy, languages, music history, and, of course, Scripture and theology. Along the way, he enjoyed ministry training at Buffalo General Hospital and the Franciscan Center, a South Buffalo shelter for homeless teens.

One of the greatest blessings of Fr. Dave's seminary formation was a chance to see the homeland of Jesus. He lived for a month in the Holy Land at the Tantur Ecumenical Institute and saw the whole country of Israel. (http://www.tantur.org/)

Despite having traveled abroad, Fr. Dave loves his hometown, the Diocese of Buffalo. He was born on the east side of Buffalo and grew up in Clarence, attending Clarence High School where he ran track and cross country for several years. His favorite event was the high jump.

When taking a break from ministry, Fr. Dave visits his family. He spends time with his mother, father, and younger sister, sharing a meal at least once a week. He also enjoys reading, acoustic guitar, soccer, and extreme skating. Spiritually, his favorite saint is Mother Frances Cabrini (http://www.mothercabrini.org/) and he has a strong devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus (http://www.sacredheartdevotion.com/). His favorite Bible verse is 1Peter 3:15, "Always be ready to give an explanation to anyone who asks you for a reason for your hope, but do it with gentleness and reverence..."

One of the most special moments Fr. David remembers about his ordination to the priesthood is when Bishop Edward Kmiec anointed his hands with oil. His ordination to the deaconate the year before had been similar in some ways and also very special but with the anointing of his hands Fr. Dave recalls experiencing, "a great cry of rejoicing in heaven that another priest had been ordained." He said it was as if he had been given a small glimpse of heaven at that moment.

Celebrating Mass, preaching and administering the Sacraments are, for Fr. Dave, the best parts of being a priest. When people receive the sacraments from him, they take those graces and blessings which flow from God, through him, to them, out into the whole world.

In describing a challenge of priesthood, Fr. Dave is disappointed with the poor image priests have in the secular culture and media.  He feels that the way priesthood is portrayed is very misleading.  He thinks they've got the wrong idea and he would like the priesthood to be shown in a better light, the way it really is.

For those who are considering a vocation to the priesthood, Fr. Dave is very encouraging and advises anyone who is even just thinking about it to give it a try. The time they spend in the seminary is part of their discernment, not the end of it. When asked about his vocation, he exclaims that, "It's a great life!" Fr. Dave is shown here enjoying a little extreme skating. To view Fr. Dave "on the job,", visit the home page of this website.                                                  

September 2008 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. GERARD GREEN

Born and raised in LeRoy, NY, Gerard Leo Green was one of three children born to George and Marian Green. He has a sister, Nancy Stratton, and a brother, John Green. Jerry attended St. Peter's grade school and graduated from LeRoy High School in 1945. He spent a year in the U.S. Army from 1946-47 in Tokyo, Japan as a Photo Lab Technician. He then worked for Eastman Kodak Co. in Rochester, NY as a Lab Technician before deciding to continue his education. He entered St. Mary's College, Emmitsburg, MD and received a BS in Chemistry in 1952.

The idea of becoming a priest occurred to Jerry Green in his senior year of college. He worked for Xerox in Rochester, NY as a chemist right after graduation but then decided to enter the seminary to study for the priesthood. Masses were celebrated in Latin at the time and Jerry was a little concerned about having to learn a new language. God provided and he was ordained at St. Joseph's Cathedral in Buffalo on May 26, 1956 by the Most Rev. Joseph A. Burke, Bishop of Buffalo. Fr. Jerry Green celebrated his first Mass the next day at his home parish of St. Peter in LeRoy.

After ordination, Fr. Green was assigned to Sacred Heart Church in Angelica, as Administrator for a year. He spent the summer of '57 as chaplain for two Boy Scout camps, Schoelkopf and Scout Haven. Having achieved the rank of Eagle Scout in 1945, scouting was very familiar to him. From 1957-1959, Fr. Green was assigned as an assistant at St. Aloysius Gonzaga in Cheektowaga, and then a very unusual request came his way. He was assigned to teach science at the newly formed Bishop Turner High School in Buffalo. He received a MA in Theology (Canon Law) at St. Bonaventure University in 1958. He also added graduate studies in chemistry and education at Canisius College to prepare for teaching. He taught at Bishop Turner from 1959 to 1974. Residing at Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish in Buffalo, he helped out there on weekends and later at St. Martin of Tours in Buffalo. He was assigned to Our Lady of the Rosary in Wilson, as administrator in 1968.

In 1973, Fr. Green was assigned administrator at St. Barnabas in Depew, a much larger parish. As the demands of parish life grew, he gave up teaching science. In 1976, he was made pastor of St. Barnabas where he remained for seventeen years.

Prior to 1983, Fr. Green would spend his days off with his parents in LeRoy. When they passed away, he spent a year looking for a place to call his own where he could spend time relaxing. He found a nice cottage on the shores of Lake Erie in Angola. In 1984, he was given the Prelate of Honor, which changed his title from Father to Monsignor Green.

During his priesthood Msgr. Green received many diocesan honors and service awards, particularly the Curé of Ars awarded by Christ the King Seminary in 1999. Throughout the years he was a member of several church and civic organizations; far too many to list here. SS. Peter and Paul Church in Hamburg became his home in 1990. He was named pastor and spent the next nine years there until his retirement from administration in 1999.

"You are a priest forever..." and so, although Msgr. Green is no longer assigned to any parish, he continues to help wherever he is needed. He fills in when priests go on vacation or need help in any way. He is happy to administer the sacraments and relieved not to have the responsibility of being a pastor.

Msgr. Green now resides in the home he purchased in 1984. He is very handy and enjoys "do-it-yourself" projects around the house. Some other hobbies include swimming, scuba diving, fishing, and photography. He took a trip to Alaska in 2006, something he had dreamed about for a long time.

In his many years as a priest, Msgr. Green found the time spent in administrative duties to be challenging. Most people don't realize how much paper work is involved in the day to day life of a priest.  Also challenging is preparing homilies that will reach a wide range of people. With so many backgrounds and varied interests making up the body of a parish, it's difficult to come up with something to which everyone can relate.

One of the things he most enjoys about priesthood is administering the Sacraments to people. Being involved personally with the families he has known during these special times in their lives gives his life great meaning. Baptisms, weddings, funerals, anniversaries, etc. bring people together and being a part of their family celebrations as well as their times of sorrow is a great privilege.

When Msgr. Green gets the chance to talk to men curious about priesthood, he refers to a pamphlet concerning vocation awareness that asks the question, "Why?" and answers it with, "Why not?" He believes that in order to really know what God wants you to do with your life, you need to spend time in quiet prayer. You need to be open to whatever plans God has for you by saying, "Here I am, Lord; I come to do your will." (Psalm 40)

August 2008 Priest of the Month - REV. JOE GATTO

Father Joseph Charles Paul Gatto was born in Dunkirk and attended Holy Trinity Roman Catholic grade school and Cardinal Mindszenty High School. Dunkirk is a small town, predominantly Catholic. Father Gatto was immersed in the traditions of our faith from an early age. He grew up in a Catholic household; his mother was of Polish descent and his father was Italian so the holidays and Church traditions were an important part of his youth. Celebrations included traditions of both sides of his family, such as Wigilia (meatless dinner) on Christmas Eve and the St. Joseph Table.

He was surrounded by wonderful priestly examples while at Cardinal Mindszenty. These men had a profound influence on his decision to become a priest. As Father Joe says, "they were coaches, they were teachers and they were school principals. They did your weddings. Not one of them left the priesthood. They were eight happy men. There were no facades about them. They gave me a sense that I wanted to be like them."

Father Gatto played four sports and dated during college at Wadhams Hall in Ogdensburg, NY. When he made the decision to become a priest, Bishop Edward Head asked him to attend Gregorian University in Rome, Italy, where he was trained by the Jesuits. He was ordained a priest on July 9, 1983. After briefly serving as administrator at St. Rose of Lima Parish in Forestville, Father Joe joined St. Leo the Great Parish in Amherst as parochial vicar. After he had served there for three years, Bishop Head asked him to serve as Associate Vocation Director for the Diocese. Fr. Joe also served as co-host of the "Real to Reel" television program for the Diocesan Office of Communication. He was later asked to return to Rome for his doctorate, which he earned in systematic theology from Gregorian University in 1994.

Father Joe has been teaching at Christ the King Seminary since 1990. At the Seminary, he has served as Vice-Rector, Director of Recruitment, Director of Formation, and Directory of Pre-Theology. He is currently an Adjunct Faculty Member.

While his Diocesan assignments have been fulfilling, it is parish ministry that has proved to be his true calling. He became pastor of St. John the Baptist in Lockport in 2002. During his tenure at St. John the Baptist, parish outreach was redefined. Father Joe is also committed to the parish school concept. St. John's merged with DeSales in the 1990's and now consists of a regional elementary school, the second largest in the Diocese. Furthermore, he is also committed to a "total picture" of education, beginning for all of us with baptism; for young couples and for all Catholics, including those separated from the Church. As a son of separated and later divorced parents, Father Gatto has a special dedication to separated and divorced Catholics.

On July 14, 2006 Father Joe became the fourth pastor at St. Gregory the Great. Those who know him, find him to be a very open person and very committed to family and friends. He lives a full life and is an avid skier, enjoys hunting, rides a motorcycle, loves to read, and is a big Buffalo and Cleveland Indians fan. Though his parents are deceased, his is very close to his two sisters.

July 2008 Priest of the Month - REV. MSGR. PAUL BURKARD

I am Monsignor Paul Burkard. I was born in Buffalo, NY in September of 1943. My home parish is St. Mary in Swormville, which was then a small, rural parish. Today it is one of the largest and most quickly growing parishes in the Diocese of Buffalo, on the boundary between the Town of Clarence and Amherst.

I attended eight grades of elementary school at St. Mary's. After graduation from St. Mary's, I attended the Diocesan Preparatory Seminary on Dodge Street in Buffalo for high school and the first two years of college. In college, I was a Philosophy major and a Classics minor. After my second year of college, I entered St. John Vianney Seminary in East Aurora for my final two years of college and four years of theology. While I was working on my M.A. in Theology at St. John Vianney, I began a M.A. in Sociology at Catholic University in Washington, DC, taking classes during the summer sessions. I graduated from the seminary in May 1969.

I was ordained by Auxiliary Bishop Bernard J. McLaughlin on May 24, 1969. On that day, I had twenty-three diocesan classmates ordained with me. We were ordained in three different churches.  One third of us were ordained at St. Joseph's New Cathedral on Delaware and Utica in Buffalo, one third of my classmates were ordained at St. Joseph's Old Cathedral on Franklin Street (presently our only cathedral) and one third of my classmates were ordained at Our Lady of Basilica in Lackawanna. In all of the excitement of ordination day, I think the question top-most on my mind was, "Will I be able to adequately serve the needs of the people that God will entrust to me in my first assignment as a priest?" I had chosen to become a priest because I wanted to serve God's people as best I possibly could and I thank God every day for the grace He gave me through all of my assignments to be of help to the people placed in my care.

My first assignment was at Annunciation Parish, Lafayette and Grant Streets on the West Side of Buffalo. I was assigned part-time to the parish and part-time to the parish high school. During that period, I became very interested in the local ecumenical ministry on the West Side of Buffalo called the Concerned Ecumenical Ministry. It was a group of fourteen Protestant and Catholic Churches who had banded together to provide better social services for people of the area.

In 1974, Bishop Edward Head assigned me to the faculty of Wadhams Hall Seminary College, Ogdensburg, NY. I spent eleven years teaching religious studies and sociology at Wadhams Hall and also held the position of Dean of Students and Vice Rector. I completed my M.A. in Sociology in May 1976.

In 1985, Bishop Head reassigned me to the faculty of Christ the King Seminary in East Aurora, as Vice Rector and Director of Formation. I held that position until 1987 when Bishop Head invited me to assume the responsibility of his Assistant for Vocations and Priestly Formation for the Diocese of Buffalo. In this position, I oversaw the seminary education of our students in training for priesthood and also headed up the recruiting program for vocations in the Diocese of Buffalo. I was then appointed by Bishop Mansell to be the Pastor of Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Parish in Orchard Park, a large parish with a wonderful school and vibrant liturgical life.

My family today consists of my 93-year old mother and four siblings. My mother lives in Williamsville. My brother and his wife live in Clarence, as does one of my sisters and her family. My youngest sister and her husband and family live in Hamburg and my older sister is the Minister General of the Franciscan Sisters across New York State and Pennsylvania. Her motherhouse is in Syracuse.

My present assignment is as Pastor of Our Lady of Victory Basilica in Lackawanna, President of Baker-Victory Services and Executive Vice President of the Homes of Charity. In this assignment, I work to continue the ministry begun by Father Nelson Baker in Lackawanna. With the help of 1,100 or more employees, we continue the social work, childcare, and specialized needs care for over 3,000 people in the Western New York area. My present ministry also includes my role as Vice Postulator for the cause of beatification and canonization for Father Baker.

I enjoy reading, gardening, and traveling. All of these help me to keep my life in balance. I also enjoy teaching and giving spiritual retreats and conferences whenever possible.

After all these years of priesthood (almost forty), I am happy to say that there is nothing I would have rather done with my life than to become a Catholic priest. I challenge young men in the Western New York area today to consider this vocation. I can't think of a better way to help God's people than as a priest in the Diocese of Buffalo.

June 2008 Priest of the Month - REV. JOSEPH ROGLIANO

Born on Long Island, NY, in December, 1956, Joseph became the first son and fourth child in the Rogliano family. He moved, along with his parents and three older sisters, to the Buffalo area when he was six years old. He attended grade school at his home parish of St. Vincent de Paul in Springbrook. When he was just thirteen, he and his close knit Italian family experienced a great loss when his father passed away. Joe graduated from St. Mary's High School in Lancaster and continued studies at  St. John Fisher College in Rochester. There he received a BS in Management and a BA in Psychology. He worked for Tops Markets and McDonalds through his high school and college years.

After graduation, Joe found employment at Marine Midland Bank as an interviewer in the human resources department. He vividly recalls one comment made by his supervisor during his one-year evaluation: "It would behoove you to interview and hire more with your head and less with your heart." Knowing that he was a "heart" person, this evaluation became one of two "seeds" which led him to consider altering the path of his life. The other occurred when he made Mission at St. Catherine of Siena Parish in West Seneca. He was deeply touched by this experience which, coupled with his employment evaluation, led him to consider the vocation of priesthood.

In the fall of 1980, Joe entered Christ the King Seminary. In the summer of 1981, he went to his first parish assignment at Queen of All Saints in Lackawanna. He thoroughly enjoyed the two summers he spent there. His next parish assignment was at St. Amelia in Tonawanda under the guidance of the pastor, Msgr. Rupert Wright. He served as a pre-deacon for a summer, and after graduation, his transitional deaconate year.

St. Joseph's Cathedral was the setting for his ordination to the deaconate on May 11, 1984. Less than a year later, Fr. Joe was ordained to the priesthood. At the time, it was customary for ordination to take place in the home parish of the candidate. Although St. Amelia's was not Fr. Joe's home parish, he asked his ordinary at the time, Bishop Edward Head, for permission to be ordained there. On April 19, 1985, he was ordained to the priesthood at St. Amelia Parish. Following ordination, Fr. Joe said his first Mass at St. Catherine of Siena in West Seneca, which was the parish he belonged to after his family moved out of Springbrook.

His first assignment as a priest was at St. Bernadette in Orchard Park where he spent three and a half years working with and learning from Msgr. Richard Nugent. He then went to St. Teresa in South Buffalo for six years, and was further groomed for ministry under the guidance of Fr. Ted Berg. His first taste of major fundraising came during his time at St. Teresa's where he had the privilege of seeing the church go through a complete restoration under the careful leadership of Fr. Berg.

After that assignment, Fr. Joe went to St. Gregory the Great in Williamsville, a wonderful opportunity for Fr. Joe to be reunited with his deacon mentor, a respected and admired friend, Msgr. Rupert Wright. He really enjoyed having the opportunity to minister with Msgr. Wright as a priest. While at St Greg's, in addition to many other ministries, he became very closely involved in a huge capital campaign, established to raise funds for a new ministry center and rectory.  All three of his assignments brought him vast amounts of experience for what would lead to his first pastorate, St Anthony in Lockport, given to him by Bishop Henry Mansell.  Two years later, he was assigned the added responsibility of Pastor to nearby St. Joseph. At the time, it was referred to as "twinning" when two parishes shared one pastor. After seven and a half years in Lockport, Fr. Joe moved on to Fourteen Holy Helpers in West Seneca a larger suburban parish, complete with school, convent, and even a small cemetery.

Fr. Joe has been at Fourteen Holy Helpers for a little more than two years. Ordained for twenty-three years, he feels blessed to have enjoyed the company of the other priests with whom he has served. The best part of priesthood for Fr. Joe is when he gets to set aside the business of each week and celebrate weekend Masses. He loves to preach and interact with his parishioners. A real people person, he enjoys all kinds of parish functions, even BINGO, which he periodically works. As far as describing a challenge of priesthood, he notes that it is difficult to please all of the people all of the time, a reality that he and every priest often face.

Among the many interests Fr. Joe has are running and exercising. He finds working out a great way to relieve stress and stay healthy. Fr. Joe enjoys the Bills, Sabres, and pro golf. He recently took up golf and is committed to learning everything he can about the sport. He enjoys movies and books. He is a true "early bird," and sees morning as a wonderful time of day when everything is quiet and the hustle and bustle has not yet begun. Prayer, meditating, and reading suit him best at that time of day, as opposed to later in the day. A real "beach bum," he enjoys vacationing on Ocean City's Jersey Shore with his family and friends. Birthdays and many other celebrations keep Fr. Joe and his family closely connected.

If someone thinks he is being called to the priesthood, Fr. Joe feels he should not ignore it. It is best to listen carefully, in prayer and throughout the day, and keep the door open to the possibility. One should ask many questions of himself and others. He should spend time talking to priests, lay people, friends and family members to find out what they would think about him becoming a priest. Fr. Joe stresses that people always have to give up something no matter what path they choose in life. The grass will always look greener on the other side if they focus on what they have left behind rather than what they have gained. Following his heart to the priesthood, Fr. Joe inspires all those he serves with his outgoing, energetic and optimistic personality.

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